What is life like after marrying a whore?

[Aniuge]

Hi TS,

Always applies 3Fs rules whenever a FL in involved:-
1) Find them;
2) F**k them; &
3) Forget them.

One has to a Saint or a Nut to have a happy married life after marrying a WL. Just my 2cent-worth opinion.

[Doomas]

Of course not many people would openly announce that they are marrying a lady of the flesh trade. However, no one would condemn the lady too. To them, prostitution is just an honest means of financing a household.

Originally Posted by insing

Wooo 过来人, so it worked for you.

I dont think western accepts marrying a wl openly, generally speaking that is still a taboo

[Doomas]

The main reason why we still condemn ladies of the flesh trade is our social values. Prostitution still offends Asian values and norms even though Asian men patronise prostitutes.

The only thing which defines whether a woman is a prostitute is the price of her pussy. A woman spreads her legs to bind two societies or families together i.e. a political marriage and she is hailed a heroine. A woman does the same but to feed her starving kids and elderly parents and she is reviled as a whore unworthy of even basic respect.

As Shakespeare expressed so succinctly in King Lear:

"Thou rascal beadle, hold thy bloody hand!
Why dost thou lash that whore? Strip thine own back; Thou hotly lusts to use her in that kind For which thou whipp'st her."

We humans truly are a disgusting model of hypocrisy

Doomas

Originally Posted by yangguo

My sentiment exactly. I feel that if she decided to quit from her old trade, why not give her a chance to prove herself? Personally I have a friend who married a ktv gal. His wife is a homemaker and they are still living happily together.

Of course said is easier than done. It takes a lot of courage and trust for a guy to maintain a long term relationship with a ex-whore. I guess that not many men can achieve that in real life.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Doomas

The main reason why we still condemn ladies of the flesh trade is our social values. Prostitution still offends Asian values and norms even though Asian men patronise prostitutes.

The only thing which defines whether a woman is a prostitute is the price of her pussy. A woman spreads her legs to bind two societies or families together i.e. a political marriage and she is hailed a heroine. A woman does the same but to feed her starving kids and elderly parents and she is reviled as a whore unworthy of even basic respect.

As Shakespeare expressed so succinctly in King Lear:

"Thou rascal beadle, hold thy bloody hand!
Why dost thou lash that whore? Strip thine own back; Thou hotly lusts to use her in that kind For which thou whipp'st her."

We humans truly are a disgusting model of hypocrisy

Doomas

bro,i totally agree with u on what u say.which girl like to touch by so many man?no girl like but most whore from poor country have no choice cos no money.at least they deserve more repect compare to those who steal or rob.

[F-boy]

You can take the woman out of the whorehouse, but you cannot take the whore out of the woman.

Once a whore always a whore

[singmarine]

I am new to this thread. How do u find bedding her when she was a whore and after she become your wife?? Did u try more stunts? Raw? A sense of achievement??

[Doomas]

You can take the man out of adultery but you cannot take the adulterer out of the man.

Once an adulterer always an adulterer. We men are the greater sinners yet we condemn the very instruments which satisfy our lusts.

Originally Posted by F-boy

You can take the woman out of the whorehouse, but you cannot take the whore out of the woman.

Once a whore always a whore

[sakurada]

You must accept the girl for what she was or FL wife is not for you. Of the five cases I've heard, almost all of them appear to be working well. Normal wife type. Most of the time, it is straight to making babies and soon these guys disappear from my social circle. When it comes to marriage or relationship, the $/fuck shouldn't be a factor. Best advice is still fuck, pay and go.

[EcceHomo]

Originally Posted by Golden question

bro,i totally agree with u on what u say.which girl like to touch by so many man?no girl like but most whore from poor country have no choice cos no money.at least they deserve more repect compare to those who steal or rob.

Well, it really depends on your game plan - i.e. your situational awareness, objectives, assumptions, risk appetite, likelihood of collateral damage, staying power (mental as well as economic) etc.

If you stick to the F&F (fuck 'n' forget) thing with whores and treat them with respect, then you won't go wrong and will never have to think too much.

It's just a commercial bonk so be nice but there's no point putting in extra care, attention or whatever else. And when it's done, you move on. There are other pussies that you can pay for so just enjoy the variety.

But you choose to keep on doing the RTF thing and that's when you really have to be careful. Whores know a good deal and how to milk their Johns (until the arrangement dries up or if a better deal comes along) so if you're a long-time repeat customer, you also have to be aware of their plotting and ploys. Once they try their KC tricks, it's either you step up and be a man up to the game or just retreat. Because the only other alternative is to be used and manipulated by the broad in question.

Sounds like a con job by any other name if you ask me and it is precisely the nature of their occupation that allows them to pull off this kind of confidence trickery. I know the whores need money and Johns are often myopic and easily seduced but that doesn't excuse the lies, dishonest tricks and outright manipulation on the part of the harlots. Of course, the bulk of the fault really lies with the KC'ded idiot who paid for an illusion and thought he bought love but I wouldn't excuse these broads completely either.

Give respect where it's due. And no need to offer up weak excuses when none are needed. It takes a player with the right attributes to navigate through this world of instant pleasures, faked appearances and empty fantasies and not everyone is quite prepared for the game. Many end up being conned and worse so I think the truth (just go through this forum - the tragedy is everywhere!) speaks for itself.

There will be occasional cases where whores settle down for good with one of their clients but the conditions will have to be right. Please learn to tell truth apart from falsehood because it'll otherwise be a very painful lesson indeed. Morons who enter the fray with golden hearts expecting each of their pussies-for-hire to be a damsel in distress ready to fall in love will be the first to be burnt because their circumstances cannot be more than different.

And anyway, many whores here have a lot more choice than their SOP "sob stories" would have you believe. Of course human traffickers and organized criminals are a real issue but the bulk of the broads we see here (whether they're from Singapore, Malaysia, China, Vietnam, Thailand, the Philippines etc.) actually had an active role in choosing their trade. Put this way, there are altogether millions of poor, long-suffering folks in all these societies but how many of them turn eventually to prostitution? Most of them, by and large, simply do not. While the morality of prostitution is debatable, surely the choice to be (or not to be) speaks volumes. Works the same for whoremongers as well, of course.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Doomas

You can take the man out of adultery but you cannot take the adulterer out of the man.

Once an adulterer always an adulterer. We men are the greater sinners yet we condemn the very instruments which satisfy our lusts.

Bro Doomas,

Well said...Haven't seen you in the forum for a long while... We met during the delphi forum days if I remember correctly...

[singmarine]

How abt yr sex life? Any sense of achievement?

[Doomas]

Haha yeah! Those were the days of Hunter, HCDiver, Psycho, ANALyst and so on.

Where's your hunting ground nowadays?

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Bro Doomas,

Well said...Haven't seen you in the forum for a long while... We met during the delphi forum days if I remember correctly...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Well said...Haven't seen you in the forum for a long while... We met during the delphi forum days if I remember correctly...

This guy must have locked his dick too long, now finally found the key and he is alive again.

Originally Posted by Doomas

Where's your hunting ground nowadays?

So where is your hunting ground? Still Thailand?

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Haha yeah! Those were the days of Hunter, HCDiver, Psycho, ANALyst and so on.

Where's your hunting ground nowadays?

Mainly Thai/PRC FLs in Spore these days...but may be quitting soon since not many gems these days

Don't see many of our old kakis active these days...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Modas Operandi of a Whore!
When young, , using their youth as an asset, make as much money as they can.
It is not uncommon for them to fall for someone during that period, but their priority is still money not love.
When they feel that age is catching up on them, or tired of sucking and being fucked by so many dicks, they too wish they can settle down.
Oh no, do not for a minute think they'll settle down with any Tom Dick or Harry, they'll choose someone who has some financial ability.
In this case, like your friend.
But then again, remember, beauty is only skin deep, to find a wife, a REAL WIFE, this beauty is within, and this is a virtue that is EXTREMELY rare.
Many marry, but once biz fail or $$$$$ dwindle for watever reasons or causes, most will run & head staright back to being a WL and hoping to hook their next catch.
Once a Whore, always a whore!