What is life like after marrying a whore?

[etct88]

Originally Posted by samsam33

. you don't get free unlimited bonking sessions. In fact your session becomes even more expensive

. In the past, when you pay $$$, you can have as many as you like (of course wallet allow)

. may only get 1 per 1 or 2 week. Last time, in order to seduce you, she will perform so good in bed.

. Now, once hooked, she may become a dead fish and want the session to end as early as possible.

. In the past, even when she got no mood, she would also want as she can earn that $100

so true!

now, I don't get 'free' starfish fark,

but I fark more.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by tenggiri

.... a simple calculation : For the amount of money one spends on his FL gf, how many more sessions one can have with all the various FLs out there!

so true, from personal experience.

now exercising this option.

[EcceHomo]

There are already plenty of threads devoted to this issue, from both a positive and negative point of view so dig them up and digest them, if you're really going to take the plunge. Common sense and some intelligence would be able to help you weigh the pros and cons in the first place but I suppose the experience of others might provide some supporting evidence too.

Long-term relationships with whores or even ex-whores aren't for everyone. Be mindful of what you're going into because when the road starts hitting the twists and chicanes, you don't have anyone but yourself to blame.

Some men do it because it's a game. Others enjoy the ego trip and sense of power that throwing money about gives them. Then there are those in it for convenience because they are stuck in a pseudo-relationship but won't and don't want to stop their whores from selling their holes even though they admit to having feelings for them but who would never be held hostage by some permanent end goal. And of course there are also the deluded victims of the obvious con jobs and gold digging expeditions that really form a substantial majority. Really too many different types. And of course, there are the rare exceptions where the fairy tale BS of Pretty Woman actually works out and comes true.

I guess if marriage is a long-term goal, you had better hope your thing with the whore is precisely that last type. Good luck because it's rare and you'd be a fool to go whoremongering with that objective in mind.



You can take a girl out of whoring but can you take the whore out of the girl? People talk about respect for whores etc. and I'm all for that. But a relationship with a whore, unless substantial evidence to the contrary is present, isn't quite the same as one with just anyone. And when you know whores better, you will find it hard to take anything with them seriously. It's just a game so why be so serious? I often don't understand why people simply can't tell fantasy and reality apart!



At the end of the day, to each his own. Your choice of poison, your choice of pain, so don't complain when your luck runs out. Personally, I'll never take this kind of stuff as anything more than just amusement but you can't say that for everyone.

[D'sauna]

Replying to GOODPARTNER thread

Ok. Have to admit about this

I am jealous when i see my friend SUPRE CHIO Wife...
But after reading afew post.. i felt much better now.

[jameschong1]

Originally Posted by D'sauna

I am jealous when i see my friend SUPRE CHIO Wife...
But after reading afew post.. i felt much better now.

===
there is nothing to be jealous. in fact i laught at these silly men who marry a china prostitute when they know more than 1000 men have fuck their wife before.
hope u feel even much much better now

[myft]

It is a sin to have feelings/fall in love with a WL, whose one & only mission is to empty your pocket. In this case, not only you will become worthless low-life, eventualy you will loose everything in your life. (respect,love from your family/friends & ofcourse money)

For a WL, it takes atleast few years of hard work and committment (to NOT sell their pussy again) to become a normal lady & be ready to have a normal family life and husband/bf r/s etc.,
Some WLs will make it but most will go back to sell their pussy again.

For those brothers who want to marry/have r/s with WL/hookers/FLs and you realy think that she can make good wife/gf, then
- you must wait and go thru a transition period to allow your WL to become normal lady again.
- during this time, both should just be platonic friends and get to know her as a person & also her family/friends/relatives
- if all goes well and she is time-tested OK, then it is time for you both to fall in love

[ESebastian]

Originally Posted by tenggiri

This is so true babe. Actually fls are not that complicated. Its we who make it complicted when some of us fall in "love" with them. Just do a simple calculation : For the amount of money one spends on his FL gf, how many more sessions one can have with all the various FLs out there!

That's true, that's why my FL gfs will not get more than 3X the session money. I enjoy the relationships with them, I like them but at the end of the day marrying is out of the question. I have never given them any money once into the relationship except special occasions where small gifts (<SGD200) are given to them.
One has to learn to control and play the game well. Even with them, I do go for WL or other FL.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by myft

For those brothers who want to marry/have r/s with WL/hookers/FLs and you realy think that she can make good wife/gf, then
- you must wait and go thru a transition period to allow your WL to become normal lady again.
- during this time, both should just be platonic friends and get to know her as a person & also her family/friends/relatives
- if all goes well and she is time-tested OK, then it is time for you both to fall in love

ya, time will tell whether she's worth the trouble eventually...

[Doomas]

Here's a Zen story that you may have heard:

"An old monk and a young monk are travelling to a village. They meet a young woman on the bank of a river. The river has flooded and she asks the monks to help her across. Without hesitation, the older monk raises her up onto his shoulders and carries her across. The young monk, somewhat aghast, follows behind. The young woman thanks the old monk and goes on her way. The two monks continue walking. After some time, the young monk finally asks, "Master, as we are monks, how is it that you would allow yourself to touch the flesh of a woman, knowing it might waken temptation in you?" The old monk replies, "Young master, I left that woman by the bank of the river. Why is it that you are still carrying her?"

Your friend had accepted and let go of her past. Why can't you?

Anyway, I'm assuming your friend's wife is no longer in the trade. Pls tell him no matter how bitter the quarrel may be, how fiery the argument gets, always remember two golden rules of marriage to an ex-FL:

1. Never go to bed with an argument or quarrel unresolved. By that I mean for both parties to accept that there is room for further discussion.

2. Never ever ever ever bring up her FL history as an argument against her. That would devastate her sense of self-worth and pride i.e. all these while you still think of her as a whore.

Originally Posted by D'sauna

Replying to GOODPARTNER thread

Ok. Have to admit about this

I am jealous when i see my friend SUPRE CHIO Wife...
But after reading afew post.. i felt much better now.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by D'sauna

Replying to GOODPARTNER thread

Ok. Have to admit about this

I am jealous when i see my friend SUPRE CHIO Wife...
But after reading afew post.. i felt much better now.

dont need feel jealous lah. its a big risk to marry whore, somemore a super chiobu one cos firstly u wont knw her real objective, does she marry out of love or wat else? secondly successful and good quality whores are usually very hiao, 命犯桃花 and will easily attracts alot of unwanted attention like honey to bees therefore the element of wearing the greent hat risk will always be there.

[iphonex]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Your friend had accepted and let go of her past. Why can't you?

Anyway, I'm assuming your friend's wife is no longer in the trade. Pls tell him no matter how bitter the quarrel may be, how fiery the argument gets, always remember two golden rules of marriage to an ex-FL:

.

Bro like your signature "欢场无真情,只可喷液精"

TS should spend some time read and think of it

[dust]

Originally Posted by fourhorseman

Firstly, if you say what happen when someone "married a whore" means that the either she is still a whore, or you are seeing her as a whore. If she is still a whore, why are you wasting your time marrying her? If she is not a whore anymore, she has changed for you then why are you calling her a whore. If you are calling her a whore because you can't forget what she did, then why bother to marry her, because this issue will always surface up when you guys fight.

Even FL/WL etc etc may not want unlimited bonks, what more a woman whom now u have legally sworn to protect and provide for, whether she lets you fuck anot.

just my pov.

agree..thumb up

[Doomas]

Ooops, haha, wanted to change that but too lazy to.

Anyway, I'm all for marriage to ladies formerly of this trade. However, it takes a certain hardy soul to make it work. Not many local guys can do it unlike in the west where prostitution is a socially accepted, if not vaunted, occupation.

Originally Posted by iphonex

Bro like your signature "欢场无真情,只可喷液精"

TS should spend some time read and think of it

[insing]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Anyway, I'm all for marriage to ladies formerly of this trade. However, it takes a certain hardy soul to make it work. Not many local guys can do it unlike in the west where prostitution is a socially accepted, if not vaunted, occupation.

Wooo 过来人, so it worked for you.

I dont think western accepts marrying a wl openly, generally speaking that is still a taboo

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by Doomas

Anyway, I'm all for marriage to ladies formerly of this trade. However, it takes a certain hardy soul to make it work. Not many local guys can do it unlike in the west where prostitution is a socially accepted, if not vaunted, occupation.

My sentiment exactly. I feel that if she decided to quit from her old trade, why not give her a chance to prove herself? Personally I have a friend who married a ktv gal. His wife is a homemaker and they are still living happily together.

Of course said is easier than done. It takes a lot of courage and trust for a guy to maintain a long term relationship with a ex-whore. I guess that not many men can achieve that in real life.