Visiting girls in their homeland

[everywhere]

i'm sure some of you bros here have visited a thai FL in thailand before. i'm planning to go sometime next year to visit some of the thai FLs i've had this year (they invited me).

is there something i should be wary about?

do i usually have to pay or is this entirely up to me?

should i negotiate a price for the entire trip first before taking the plunge to buy the air ticket? i understand it's taken for granted that food and shopping i should be expected to pay, but i mean how much should i expect to pay for her company? i'm thinking to stay 4d3n, or maybe 5d4n.

a few of the thai FLs invited me to go to their apartment to stay, should i agree or should i go to hotel? i'm a little paranoid that maybe they set a trap for me there then i go there and they refuse to let me leave until i pay them 'ransom'.

[hoonth]

Bro, if I were you, I’ll stay in the hotel. At least I can sleep peacefully at night. Further more, you wouldn’t know what they have already place in the house waiting for you.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by everywhere

i'm sure some of you bros here have visited a thai FL in thailand before. i'm planning to go sometime next year to visit some of the thai FLs i've had this year (they invited me).

is there something i should be wary about?

do i usually have to pay or is this entirely up to me?

should i negotiate a price for the entire trip first before taking the plunge to buy the air ticket? i understand it's taken for granted that food and shopping i should be expected to pay, but i mean how much should i expect to pay for her company? i'm thinking to stay 4d3n, or maybe 5d4n.

a few of the thai FLs invited me to go to their apartment to stay, should i agree or should i go to hotel? i'm a little paranoid that maybe they set a trap for me there then i go there and they refuse to let me leave until i pay them 'ransom'.

Bro, in my frank opinion I dun think you should visit them at all. To them you are just a carrot head and if you visit them, you will be prepared to spend a huge sum of money for their company. For this amount that you will spend on them, it would be better for you to just visit the better MPs in Bangkok and spend your money there. It will be much cheaper this way.

Also as for staying in their apartment, forget it. You better stay in a hotel.

Anyway, just remember, the gals like you only for your money and nothing else. You may have some misplaced feelings for them but rest assured they have totally no feelings for you except for your money.

Anyway, you are an adult so you have to make your own decisions on this issue.

[Tulan2]

Bro,

Heed the advice of teebs_darklord and hoonth!. You're better off staying in a hotel and get them to come over whenever you need them either for 'company' or 'relief'. They will gladly accomodate, I assure you. And really depending on your relationship with them, you can either treat them like a GF or a paid escort. My usual for a 4d3n exclusive fulltime is US$1k. You must understand that they are sacrificing potential earning to be with you and to be fair they have to be compensated for their loss of earnings. Many of them either work in MPs or KTVs and to be with you exclusively for the few days will set them back quite a few $$$. But if it's LOVE.. then you're on your own!!
But must say, they are great company and treat you like KING when you are with them. Beats trying to get an interpreter or tour guide expecially when you can't speak the language AND bedtime fun is really OUT OF THIS WORLD !!!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by everywhere

i'm sure some of you bros here have visited a thai FL in thailand before. i'm planning to go sometime next year to visit some of the thai FLs i've had this year (they invited me).

You want to visit the homes of prostitutes???? You must be nuts!

[jng1103]

With due respects, FLs are Whores!!! Why would u want to visit them (whores) in a foreign land? Yes, they are human beings, but if given a choice, why would we want to belong to the same category?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by jng1103

With due respects, FLs are Whores!!! Why would u want to visit them (whores) in a foreign land? Yes, they are human beings, but if given a choice, why would we want to belong to the same category?

Some people simply cannot distinguish between a commercial sex transaction and a personal relationship.

[Heart Break Kid]

Mi also ever try to visit a prostitute that I love... in their homeland.
But she told mi she is married with husband there liao, ask mi not to travel all the way there.
She is only 21 yrs-old & she said she will come back & earn again.

[colins]

If this is first time you go and do this, then dun set high expectations. Give it a 3D2N and plan something to do on the trip, like shopping or visit some temples. Tell your girls that you have a purpose in going (easier to reject them when they ask for too much) If possible, bring a friend or join a group. Like the bros said, go there for fun, if just to see the FLs, may not worth it. Its their turf once you're there, you may not like it as they live totally different lives, so you must be very alert all the time.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by everywhere

do i usually have to pay or is this entirely up to me?

should i negotiate a price for the entire trip first before taking the plunge to buy the air ticket? i understand it's taken for granted that food and shopping i should be expected to pay, but i mean how much should i expect to pay for her company? i'm thinking to stay 4d3n, or maybe 5d4n.

Bro, just to expand a little on my previous post.

If you visit these FLs, you must be prepared to pay a lot. Roughly it would cost approx SGD 500 or more per day but this also depends on the gal herself. If she is a greedy one, then your costs will escalate really fast.

Thai FLs like their carrot heads to buy gold jewellery for them and it is not those thin gold chains you see in Singapore jewellery stores. It is the Indian type gold chains that they like simply because once you buy for them, after you leave BKK, they will just pawn it off and get some money back.

But just think of it, for SGD 500+ per day or B11,000+ per day, you can have a really good time without even having to look for these FLs. At Nataree, the young, chio FLs(18 to 20 yrs old) working there are only about B2,600. You could have 4 of them in one day everyday and still have money left over for shopping for your own stuff.

At the end of the day, these FLs as are all FLS are only interested in your money. If you are stupid enough to still want to visit them, then good luck to you. But if you are so stupid, please dun be a total idiot and give them your Spore number.

Once you leave them, they will call you and ask you to remit money to them for a whole host of reasons (parents/siblings/relatives hospitalised/sick/car accident etc), none of which is true. And if you are really dumb enough to remit money to them, then satan bless you...the beginning of your nightmare has just started.

[JOGK]

cannot said they will take you as meat lah
it all depends...
but nowadays not easy to see trusted ones
i have a few experienced during the 70s
i accompany her to her hometown in phuket
she worked there as a singer before too
when we were there she brought me to club she used to sing
introduced to me many singers there
i didnt pay for the drinks as the boss give us on the house!
then she sing a few tunes when i requested
what an experienced!
went to her grandma place in sadao
went to see her small child at satun, few hours taxi ride from haadyai
and brought me to the market near the thai/perlis border
she treated me like her husband over there
its a good experienced...you will never forget

[MiniHawk]

Not all the gals are bad, it is just their life that they have to work as FLs. It would be good to see how they live over there but also be very careful on your pocket as well as your surrounding.

[everywhere]

haha, thanks for all the bros input but you all got me wrong! you guys must be thinking i 'fell in love' with those FLs or what, that's why i want to visit them. truth be told, i just want to take a short trip and enjoy the company of a beautiful lady 24/7 for a few days.

don't worry, i know myself VERY WELL, there is NO WAY IN HELL i will fall in love with these girls. previously there's a girl i bonked, i gave her my singapore number (she asked for it). i previously told her i will visit her, and i did indeed plan to, but end up no time to go. when she came back to singapore under another OKT, she called me ask me to visit her. by that time i lost interest alr, so i said 'okay. tonight i go slp with you'. the next thing she said 'this time cannot just come. must pay boss money'. i straight away reply 'i no money, cannot go'

the point of my story is, i have extremely high expecations for a girlfriend/wife, there is no way i will treat these erm... whores as a potential life partner. i'm just a young man out to have fun. i'm 101% confirm sure of that. i know some of you will say 'i've heard that line before', but trust me, i know myself very well. and i also know myself that even if they ask for money here and there, i can't afford to give, so that becomes a moot point.

so no one answered me questions huh? everyone just tried to dissuade me from going (out of concern, i know. thanks bros)... but pls try to answer the following if you've tried before:

-should i negotiate a price before going? e.g while they're still in singapore?

-should i take her words at face value if she says things like 'no need pay' or 'no need to buy me things'? or is there hidden meaning?

-in order not to be kenna 'chop', i was not planning to bring much money there other than for food and shopping. i also planning to bring a bit of money with the intention to give her... probably about SGD 300-500 worth, for 3-4 days of company. is that too little?

i'm quite honored that the founder of this forum replied TWICE to my question, but i also have to ask why did you move the question here? i know it's considered the 'right' forum, but i would really like the opinion of guys from the FL section because that's where i met most of the aforementioned girls.

the way i see it, some of you guys in this forum doesn't seem experienced, you're just speaking out of concern and general common sense, which i appreciate, i really do. but i need to know the FACTS, from bros who have personally experienced it. thanks a lot.

[everywhere]

some bros here mentioned don't stay in their apartment. any particular reason why?

once again, i reiterate, i am a hot-blooded young male, and i have absolutely no intention of turning these relationship(s) into anything more than a commercial transaction. the reason i wanna visit is that i wanna go thailand to eat and sightsee, and i would love for a beautiful girl to accompany me 24/7. i've never had a girlfriend so i don't know how that feels like, but i think it'll be great, assuming i never kenna kidnap or what. at this point, some of you bros must be thinking why i no gf, i also don't know why, but as far as i know, im above average looking so my looks is not the reason. just felt obliged to explain.

oh, how about if i go bangkok looking for FLs to accompany me for 3-4 days instead? is that better/safer? how much should i expect to spend if so?

one bro suggested i just go there to have fun, and hire FLs as i deem fit: but bros please understand, my purpose is to simulate being on a holiday trip with a girlfriend. if i go there with my own purpose to eat/shop/sightsee and only call girls when i need, then wouldn't it be extremely sian during the periods i have no female company? that's a rhetorical question, yes i think i would be very sian so if eventually i decide not to visit the girl, i won't even go at all.

[StevenGerrard]

Originally Posted by MiniHawk

Not all the gals are bad, it is just their life that they have to work as FLs. It would be good to see how they live over there but also be very careful on your pocket as well as your surrounding.

Agreed..Not all FLs r bad or eyeing ur $$..
Currently i'm in bkk wif a gal..
Firstly,she didnt ask 4 any $$ after spending so many days wif me..
Secondly,whenever we go out 4 food,i would ask her 2 bring me 2 better
restaurants 4 food..But she would suggest going 4 cheaper roadside food..
Thirdly,when i told her my $$ almost used up liao..To my surprised,she
offered 2 give me $$..Which i declined..
Lastly,she told me dat i can stay at her place whenever i feel like coming
2 bkk again,dun need 2 waste $$ on hotels..So i ask her i can cum n stay
wif her anytime i like..N she ans yes..
IMHO not all FLs r bad..