What if U met a girl U can't forget her?

[Sammo]

Even when her visa's had expired. She had break up with you for good. But my hearts tell me elsewhere. There is strong sound inside saying miss her a lots. Everything, everywhere, everyone, every song u heard reminds you of her... How to forget her? It's a clean break off, she don't wan to come back S'pore anymore. I hurt her too much. I always lie to her. I hardly keep my promises. I just use my money to console her every time we quarrel...

[Sammo]

I didn't expect anything from her when we since meet each other. she is so innocent and sincere gal. i meet her at a restaurant. she is a chinese waitress. went out a few occasions as friend before we knew,time had passed a few months and feelings developed. Held her hands after 3 months and love sparks like fire catching a dry little woods with slight breeze flaming the fire spread faster, hotter and bigger. Love tie us down with each in our own world until I break the news I am married. She is so heart broken and cancel the work permit. Went straight home and say we are never meant for each other since beginning.

Tried to patch back but manage to finally bring myself to set her free. As much I wanted her to come back to me, I realize that loving a person is not possessing her. But is to see her happy and free..

Easier said than done, as much as my mouth speaks to let her go and put down everything behind me as a sweet memory, her sight always flash in my head and I miss her every time I pass by her restaurant, the cinemas we went together, the hawker we patronize and the shopping mall we left our footprints together.

Can anyone help me to take out her memory from my mind forever?

[big_dick]

???

You sound very bad , almost incoherent.

Any details bro?

How to comment if nothing further is given?

[joew2005]

sigh ..... U must hv hurt her veri much ....

she COULD hv realli luv u veri much .....

Aft the clear break-off,why did yr heart tells u otherwise??

Time will heal all wounds

Now u r jz not used 2 her not around u anymore ..... aft a few months u could even hv forgotten her existence !!

[Max77]

what if u met a gal u can't forget her?"...then remember her lor. Nobody say u HAVE TO forget her ah. If ur title read "how can i get tat gal who i can't forget" then different story lah

[silverblue]

hi, can you post the picture of the girl so that we can understand the situation better?

[cablesnwires]

Bro TS, it's painful to let go. But you have made the right decision. It may be painful now, but I also know time is the greatest healer.

May you be strong in your path of recovery.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

You pay the price for your wrong unhonest moves.
Since you've so called SET HER FREE, pray the best for her future and dun be a thorn to hinder her future.
Just allow time to heal you...consider this pain you're going thru now your karma.....
Accept it, live wif it, soon it'll be nottin more like a good ole memory
But dun be too happy when she suddenly calls you one day from PRCland, cos that's when things are gonna get alot messier......especially when you're married.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by Sammo

I didn't expect anything from her when we since meet each other. she is so innocent and sincere gal. i meet her at a restaurant. she is a chinese waitress. went out a few occasions as friend before we knew,time had passed a few months and feelings developed. Held her hands after 3 months and love sparks like fire catching a dry little woods with slight breeze flaming the fire spread faster, hotter and bigger. Love tie us down with each in our own world until I break the news I am married. She is so heart broken and cancel the work permit. Went straight home and say we are never meant for each other since beginning.

Tried to patch back but manage to finally bring myself to set her free. As much I wanted her to come back to me, I realize that loving a person is not possessing her. But is to see her happy and free..

Easier said than done, as much as my mouth speaks to let her go and put down everything behind me as a sweet memory, her sight always flash in my head and I miss her every time I pass by her restaurant, the cinemas we went together, the hawker we patronize and the shopping mall we left our footprints together.
Can anyone help me to take out her memory from my mind forever?

...……..and the semen and fluids stains we left behind on numerous bed sheets and car seat.

Lust of Love? we men spend 70% of our waking hours thinking about sex. Ya, we always just want to be a girl's bestfriend and expecting them not wearing anything. Seems like what you missed in your marriage life was fulfilled in your relationship with this girl and now you’ve lost that strange balance to your married life.

Let her go and youself go. Don't ruin an innocent and sincere girl's life and future if you could not fulfilled your promise to her - Marrying her as a wife or Supporting her financially as a lover!

Time for you to work on your marriage if you feel there’s still something left to work on. You can't have the best of both world if you do not know what you want and what you are able to provide. Cheers.

[NewandLost]

Braddah, you shouldn't be lying in a relationship because the foundation is built on what you say. Also, how do you know she is only a waitress? SG have to recruit waitresses from other countries because there is a shortage here? Something not right braddah.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Sammo

I just use my money to console her every time we quarrel...[/B]

The WORD that closes this entire chapter!

[NoNameNoNothing]

If I am in another country to work, I will not cancel the permit just bcoz I fell in love with a married man. I have choice of leaving him and continuing life or making him choose wife or me. So I sense that there is a trap here.

[lamtaetae]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

The WORD that closes this entire chapter!

Wasted my entire 10 minutes reading his rubbish.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

The WORD that closes this entire chapter......!

... of rubbish .....

another crybaby story!

[starstar]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

Bro TS, it's painful to let go. But you have made the right decision. It may be painful now, but I also know time is the greatest healer.

May you be strong in your path of recovery.

More likely the lady had chosen the right path.