Should i feel angry? sad ? lucky or...

[jj_jj]

Her chapter in your life will only b where your child comes in, the rest don't bother lah.
How she earns her living is not your concern any more

[maotaicat]

Originally Posted by hpanky

Of course i should , and by right i should..really hoping she get a good life, if she carry on lead a normal life and get a proper job , or re marry and start a new family..
But instead of all above she choose to work at those typical massage shop..that is the sad part of my story..but anyway she really get many of what she desired..so should i happy for her.

Dear TS:

While I understand it is not easy to forget 6 years of love, However when
affinity ended, it is time to part regards of the situation. I think you should
consider yourself lucky it ended peacefully.The Earth is still turning though.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by hpanky

Of course i should , and by right i should..really hoping she get a good life, if she carry on lead a normal life and get a proper job , or re marry and start a new family..
But instead of all above she choose to work at those typical massage shop..that is the sad part of my story..but anyway she really get many of what she desired..so should i happy for her.

Your sad part ended some time ago already and really, you don't need the snow to feel better. I hope you will find somoene who will make you and your kid happier and whole

Originally Posted by hpanky

.so should i happy for her.

If feeling happy for her allow you to get closure and peace, why not?

Most important is that you are happier now cos you can breathe easier and are free from years of tying knots inside your heart over all her suspicious behavior, heartaches and etc....

[hpanky]

Originally Posted by jj_jj

Her chapter in your life will only b where your child comes in, the rest don't bother lah.
How she earns her living is not your concern any more

Thanks bro

[hpanky]

Originally Posted by maotaicat

Dear TS:

While I understand it is not easy to forget 6 years of love, However when
affinity ended, it is time to part regards of the situation. I think you should
consider yourself lucky it ended peacefully.The Earth is still turning though.

Thanks bro

[hpanky]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Most important is that you are happier now cos you can breathe easier and are free from years of tying knots inside your heart over all her suspicious behavior, heartaches and etc....

True.. Thanks

[vexsint]

Originally Posted by hpanky

Of course i should , and by right i should..really hoping she get a good life, if she carry on lead a normal life and get a proper job , or re marry and start a new family..
But instead of all above she choose to work at those typical massage shop..that is the sad part of my story..but anyway she really get many of what she desired..so should i happy for her.

Hi TS,

U been thinking too much for her. The 6 years has create a relationship connection that make u worry and care about her future. But it is not wrong, even for me, i worry and care for a 6 year friend.

U have offer her an alternative for the past 6 years, but she dont like it and leave u. Now as a friend to her, the most u can is offer advices to her.

For better or for worse, it is always a matter of perception. Cheer up bro, and look to the greener pastures.

[hpanky]

Originally Posted by vexsint

Hi TS,

U been thinking too much for her. The 6 years has create a relationship connection that make u worry and care about her future. But it is not wrong, even for me, i worry and care for a 6 year friend.

U have offer her an alternative for the past 6 years, but she dont like it and leave u. Now as a friend to her, the most u can is offer advices to her.

For better or for worse, it is always a matter of perception. Cheer up bro, and look to the greener pastures.

Ya but everytime when think of her job..her mentality...haiz buay tahan..
Anyway Thanks bro

[jj_jj]

Originally Posted by hpanky

Ya but everytime when think of her job..her mentality...haiz buay tahan..
Anyway Thanks bro

Better to focus on what you can/should do i.e. for your child, your life etc.
Maybe when you have a new r/s, then you'll forget about her.

[San Guo]

Originally Posted by jj_jj

when you have a new r/s, then you'll forget about her.

Thats the best way..

[supermushroom]

Bro, this is my sincere advise for you and it is all my personal opinion.

You met her in some sort of drinking scene, you might have expected that she might not be those kind of conservative wife that would stay around you for long and take care of home. You might have felt that she used you for her personal betterment and benefits. You might have felt that she never really loved you with all her heart. You might now think that you were blinded by her beauty and lost to the nature of man.

In spite of all these judgements and thoughts, you should learn to forgive and accept. Forgive her for anything that she might have done wrong and also forgive yourself for the mistakes that you made. Accept the fact that you two are divorced now and accept that you have a child with you now.

You are now a father of a child. It is really important to play your role well. You are no longer the young man who spends the life only to have fun.

Being a father is a responsibility. It is an investment. You want to make your life meaningful? INVEST IN YOUR KID. BE A GREAT FATHER.

[hpanky]

Originally Posted by supermushroom

Bro, this is my sincere advise for you and it is all my personal opinion.

You met her in some sort of drinking scene, you might have expected that she might not be those kind of conservative wife that would stay around you for long and take care of home. You might have felt that she used you for her personal betterment and benefits. You might have felt that she never really loved you with all her heart. You might now think that you were blinded by her beauty and lost to the nature of man.

In spite of all these judgements and thoughts, you should learn to forgive and accept. Forgive her for anything that she might have done wrong and also forgive yourself for the mistakes that you made. Accept the fact that you two are divorced now and accept that you have a child with you now.

You are now a father of a child. It is really important to play your role well. You are no longer the young man who spends the life only to have fun.

Being a father is a responsibility. It is an investment. You want to make your life meaningful? INVEST IN YOUR KID. BE A GREAT FATHER.

OK Thanks bro

[taureanwoman08]

dun feel angry or sad or lucky. go get even.

[San Guo]

Originally Posted by taureanwoman08

dun feel angry or sad or lucky. go get even.

Whow sis nice one..but this heel only outside not inside..just my opinion