Tell me what he meant...

[FRATERNITY]

Originally Posted by Bitmask

Woah he can cum in 1 minute, which means you must be damn chio Then again, married women are off-limits.

Send condoms images ah, that means he must have some degree of interest in that woman to do that. As a guy, I wouldn't send condoms images to women that are not my type.

My current gf also damn chio face with sexy body i also cannot tahan longer... Always when fucking i think of other things like work and computer games lol

[nightfly1966]

Violent guy...feel so sorry for u...

My father once said tis to me...

"...she's the one choosen by u...blame no body but urself."

Take good care gal...

Rgds

[ConanDestroyer]

There is something I can't figure out

Why is the packet of condom on your mind when he just bashed your face?
You need to learn some self defense technique to prevent u getting hit in the face.

[ChokDeeDee!]

The truth is painful. And the truth is he is up to something, otherwise he has nothing to hide. We guys do enjoy getting cocky when you try to catch us when we're clean. We won't hesitate to show you whatever we can to prove that you are wrong. He got aggressive and deleted the chat log, he is guilty. And condoms? I dun think he has plans to chew the strawberry flavor ones like a candy... Obviously he needs them for the purpose it's meant for. Do take care.

[<<totally>>]

Sis, I might not be earning a lot but what I can offered is a little appreciation for the respect of woman. Go seek a doc and get medical evidence that your hubby has beaten you. Keep it as a proof in case you need to show that that was not the first time. Ask for the receipt, use your hp and take a pic and send it to me as a prove, I will help you cover this round. I know you will not spend that type of money but is on me so dun worry. I am not asking anything in return just wanting to see you are prepared for a battle with your lousy hubby.

[yang punk]

XC, from the little background info you gave it is difficult for anyone of us to fully understand your situation and give the correct advice. You said you can't go to your elders for the sake of face and maybe awkward to see a marriage counsellor.

Firstly in the past, you have had your quarrels...so how did you resolve them? Just sleep over them and let the problems go away? Or after cooling down you both resolve them in a sensible manner? Yes when tension and temper run high the mind can't think rationally and the mouth will say things to hurt.

Has he habitually hit you or is this only the second time in the whole of your marriage? As to why he resort to hitting you there can be many reasons. From him being an abused child, to his father being a wife beater, or he being a spoilt only son and never been trained in anger management or perhaps you berated him on and on until the only way to shut you up is a punch to your kisser.

The solution to any of the above problems may be for him to consult a psychiatrist or for you to shower him with a lot of love and patience. The latter solution is more difficult because it really depends on how much you both actually love each other and then how much you both are prepared to sacrifice for each other and for your children!

You mentioned shot-gun marriage, so be truthful. Did he marry you out of love or out of obligation. Did you use your pregnancy to trap him? Are you in love with him for better or for worst or are you just looking for a provider?

If it is love then there must be trust. If you have to go around snooping into his hp pc mails bank account etc then you have invaded his privacy (it works both ways). When you come across anything suspicious to you, your mind goes out of control with suspicion...what good comes out of that? One of the basic principle of respect even between husband and wife is never to snoop at other party's email, letters or messages.

If you have been lurking in this forum you should know both men and women have cheated on their spouses. Why? Main reason is dissatisfaction with their sex life, boredom of non- varying pro functionary sex. You complain he don't lick you and you don't do bj. Why? The dick or vagina is dirty or smelly? Do you know in kissing you are passing to each other more germs? You can bath each other as foreplay before sex. You can ask him to shave your pussy to add kinkiness and you can shave him too! All men love a good blowjob. Doing it shows your love for him and should earn you a pussy painting in return. That way he can also prolong his ejaculation and you can also enjoy multiple orgasms from his oral administration. But make sure you clean your pussy thoroughly including flushing your vagina. Nothing smell worst than a urine stained stale pussy!

Too long already. You need more advice pm me.

[goodu]

add a SBF bro here on whatsapp then in front of your hubby sent this SBF bro an image of 2 condom boxes and tell him you are just teasing this new friend too.

[Absolute]

Because you have to depend on him financially, I am certain that the cycle of physically abusing you will continue.

If you tolerate his nonsense and violence, he will become bolder as time goes by. Family violence will also affect the emotional and psychological development of your children, especially when they are still young. I was a victim of such family background so I know where all these will lead to.

If you do nothing to protect yourself and your children, nobody will. You have to be strong but win the case with reasons, not on unfounded conjecture.

All the best.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by xiaocrystal

hello to all brothers,

just a short intro abt myself. I'm 25yo, married with 2 little kids. have been reading the threads on and off when I could, and nw I need some advices from you all.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by xiaocrystal

this is not the first time my hub did such stuffs to me (be it hitting me or cheating on me). I'm just so tired and I really did my job well, looking after the kids well and manage the home well.

No husband should hit a wife. You should leave him straight away. Physical violence should not be tolerated.

[littlepok]

Originally Posted by goodu

add a SBF bro here on whatsapp then in front of your hubby sent this SBF bro an image of 2 condom boxes and tell him you are just teasing this new friend too.

instead of condom photo, send some pics of vibrator and dildo or 6inch dick, say for fun only. then slap him and say u do not mean it.

do not do what u do not want others to do on u.

PS: forget the slapping part. i dont want u kanna hantum bola

[littlepok]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

Sis, I might not be earning a lot but what I can offered is a little appreciation for the respect of woman. Go seek a doc and get medical evidence that your hubby has beaten you. Keep it as a proof in case you need to show that that was not the first time. Ask for the receipt, use your hp and take a pic and send it to me as a prove, I will help you cover this round. I know you will not spend that type of money but is on me so dun worry. I am not asking anything in return just wanting to see you are prepared for a battle with your lousy hubby.

i applaud your generosity. TS do consider, next to horny guys u find nice people around here too

upz u when got power. even if TS do not reciprocate, i believe in your sincerity. show my appreciation

[2centsworth]

Don't understand the logic of buying a box of condom to take a photo so that he can send it to the girl. He can easily get a photo of a box of condom from Google. If he wants to watch porn how? Buy a video recorder and record his own porn for future viewing?

He shouldn't hit you. It teaches the kids that violence against your wife is acceptable. Leaving him shouldn't be a rash decision as you have 2 kids who need both parents around at this tender age.

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by littlepok

my 1 cent worth of thought...

TS sign up in Jan 2011 meaning u also quite active in this forum also, despite having 2 posts only. for reading sake or CCA for ownself?

anyway, nonetheless, landing hands on wife is the worst thing a man can do. it seems to me u are a fulltime housewife taking care of kids hence u are dependent on him for survival.

I recommend u making arrangements to start going outside to work, be it for own sake and kids. u need some income in case of worst case scenario (divorce) and widen your scope so u will not be a frog in a well. after some time, the husband will feel he cannot communicate with u (soon u will be complaining about rising vege cost).

buying condom to take photos is BS, to be plain even if he never used on the new friend, rest assured he uses it elsewhere. he might have strayed, how much do u treasure the relationship then? talk to him calmly when the chance appears, talk to him about beating u up is seriously not acceptable. leave if it happens again or a Personal Protection Order for u and kids.

yup..agree...and there is women's charter in Singapore...

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by littlepok

i applaud your generosity. TS do consider, next to horny guys u find nice people around here too

upz u when got power. even if TS do not reciprocate, i believe in your sincerity. show my appreciation

Thks littlepok! Maybe a little help do make a great difference for her. So I thought that will be a nice way to help her with the ability I am able too. I cannot stand family violent.
" 要坏就坏外面，不要坏家里，坏家里只能证明你是个没用的男人." That was what I learnt from the streets and I agreed to it.