In search of a confident partner.

[DAdults]

Originally Posted by see see only

鹬蚌相争渔翁得利 .... you guys continue hor

Dear ladypriceless,

Leave them alone ....... me me me choose me , my objective in life is much more straight forward … a single word can settle liao ….. HAPPY

Wah.... You made it sound like we are fighting... (I just offered my thumbs of approval to you in another thread.. No free hand to fight... ) There isn't any dispute here; all of us are just voicing out our opinions. I agree with bro maninsinsha that:

i) This is an open forum and everyone is entitled to his/her opinions (barring any hurtful words... No need for insults here.)

ii) Every constructive comments can be acknowledged with an open heart;

iii) We should respect TS in her decision to exclude married guys from applying, given that she has her reasons for doing so. As I have said earlier, there is nothing negative about married men... The martial status isn't a significant factor as to how qualified a man is as a companion in terms of being confident, caring, considerate, etc.

I hate to do guesswork, but if it helps to point out why TS is adamant about not entertaining married men, I guess TS just do not wish to deal with the potential moral implications (e.g. breaking up families) and any possible burdens that the married man brings in (e.g. possible harassment from wife). Just guessing here, the main point is to respect TS' wishes;

iv) No harm has been done and that lively discussions can be performed here.

My only concern is that this thread belongs to ladypriceless, and we shouldn't undermine her efforts to find a suitable companion...

Peace...

[see see only]

Originally Posted by DAdults

Wah.... You made it sound like we are fighting... (I just offered my thumbs of approval to you in another thread.. No free hand to fight... ) There isn't any dispute here; all of us are just voicing out our opinions. I agree with bro maninsinsha that:

Bro DAdults,

Ha .... did i made it sound so serious

Hahahhaahahahahahaa me not against anything at all .... ...


I just stay focus

[predator8577]

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[BiRd13]

Well I think since TS have stated her requirement, let's respect it...
There must be some reason in which she clearly stated her requirement right? There's no point in arguing over what single or married man pros and cons.

Yes. This may be a forum for people to share his/her opinion. One can lied about his status too. Again, it's up for TS to choose whom she prefer with.

[skirtchaser639]

oops...didn't meant to create such ripples, again my apology to TS for side tracking her thread
also am delighted to see many mature opinons shared
many thanks to bros who shared their views

think since i started it, will just hope it ends here and not cause anymore hiccups to TS on her search

Peace to all bros, we are here to have fun, so urge all to take things in light hearted manner

[maninsinsha]

Originally Posted by see see only

鹬蚌相争渔翁得利 .... .... you guys continue hor


Dear ladypriceless,

Leave them alone ....... me me me choose me, my objective in life is much more straight forward … a single word can settle liao ….. HAPPY

Your Majesty, shouldn't we 相辅相成、相得益彰???


Haahaha.... All the best, Your Majesty....

[ladypriceless]

Originally Posted by maninsinsha

This is an open forum and I guess everyone is entitled to his/her opinions, preferences and parameters... I'm sure a healthy discussion is unobjectionable and every constructive comments can be acknowledged with an open heart... All of us have certain boundaries which we will not crossed and TS has perhaps, set her limits to married men... Nothing wrong with that and we should respect this boundary she set...

Bro skirtchaser639 has kindly voice out his opinions about certain issues and brought forward to TS's attention... Nothing wrong with that too and we should applaud his undeviating suggestions...

Anyway, I don't think any harm has been done and I'm sure that lively discussions can be performed here...

Thank you dearie for the post and your company last night. No harm is done here.

Originally Posted by see see only

鹬蚌相争渔翁得利 .... .... you guys continue hor


Dear ladypriceless,

Leave them alone ....... me me me choose me , my objective in life is much more straight forward … a single word can settle liao ….. HAPPY

You email me?

Originally Posted by DAdults

Wah.... You made it sound like we are fighting... (I just offered my thumbs of approval to you in another thread.. No free hand to fight... ) There isn't any dispute here; all of us are just voicing out our opinions. I agree with bro maninsinsha that:

i) This is an open forum and everyone is entitled to his/her opinions (barring any hurtful words... No need for insults here.)

ii) Every constructive comments can be acknowledged with an open heart;

iii) We should respect TS in her decision to exclude married guys from applying, given that she has her reasons for doing so. As I have said earlier, there is nothing negative about married men... The martial status isn't a significant factor as to how qualified a man is as a companion in terms of being confident, caring, considerate, etc.

I hate to do guesswork, but if it helps to point out why TS is adamant about not entertaining married men, I guess TS just do not wish to deal with the potential moral implications (e.g. breaking up families) and any possible burdens that the married man brings in (e.g. possible harassment from wife). Just guessing here, the main point is to respect TS' wishes;

iv) No harm has been done and that lively discussions can be performed here.

My only concern is that this thread belongs to ladypriceless, and we shouldn't undermine her efforts to find a suitable companion...

Peace...

Thank you.

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Well I think since TS have stated her requirement, let's respect it...
There must be some reason in which she clearly stated her requirement right? There's no point in arguing over what single or married man pros and cons.

Yes. This may be a forum for people to share his/her opinion. One can lied about his status too. Again, it's up for TS to choose whom she prefer with.

Thank you too.

Originally Posted by skirtchaser639

oops...didn't meant to create such ripples, again my apology to TS for side tracking her thread
also am delighted to see many mature opinons shared
many thanks to bros who shared their views

think since i started it, will just hope it ends here and not cause anymore hiccups to TS on her search

Peace to all bros, we are here to have fun, so urge all to take things in light hearted manner

Thanks. No hiccups caused.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by ladypriceless

You email me?

My philosophy & 绝对观念 ........

I never .... follow rules

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by ladypriceless

One of the reasons for not entertaining married men is I do not wish to be involved with anyone who is married. It is one of my principles and I do not bend it for anyone. Their priorities should be their families, not someone else.

My dear, you are so wrong in saying married men are more gentlemen and caring than singles. I have met many singles who are more gentlemen and caring then married ones.

you have my respect for stating your own moral compass.
thanks for speaking up on behalf of single guys , i'm pretty sure you dated quite a few romantic singles before arriving upon this conclusion.

[ladypriceless]

Originally Posted by see see only

My philosophy & 绝对观念 ........

I never .... follow rules

Good for you. Hope it works.

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

you have my respect for stating your own moral compass.
thanks for speaking up on behalf of single guys , i'm pretty sure you dated quite a few romantic singles before arriving upon this conclusion.

Thank you. I have good experience dating single men.


Thank you guys for writing. I just replied to some of your emails and I will try to reply more when I'm free.

[bl@ck_@dder]

mi lady,
just curious, you got my mail?

[IWTF]

Originally Posted by maninsinsha

Errrmmm.... Don't know if it will be nice for me to put a rating here.... Well, she's really attractive and she is definitely shapely...



The reason why she pm'ed me was that she has this impression that I'm a friendly and jovial person from my postings... "I was very curious of how you look like in person" - Quote / unquote...

Bro Maninsinsha, enjoyed reading your post and I will be curious too on how u look like in real person. By the way I'm 100% straight...

[see see only]

Originally Posted by ladypriceless

Good for you. Hope it works.

Share a little story with you my dear sis hor ........


We publicised in the paper hunting for manager....

One day, i have this young gentleman that came walking into my office without any appointment ... waited for me almost 2 hours, to come back from my meeting.

Feeling frustrated been recalled to the office for an unscheduled interview, I was actually not listening to his introduction until he proved me otherwise with his patience and most important of all … his confident.

Although he's a bit under qualify – I engaged him ….. I guess his confident and his way of doing things out of the box yet confined within my boundaries made me feel comfortable and I should give him a chance to see how’s his attitude like …........ turn out to be a great decision

Presently he is our senior manager for the time being ………. and indeed worry he will move on actually ....


Arrrr back to your post works or not, depends very much on you

[IWTF]

Originally Posted by ladypriceless

Guys, I'll reiterate again. If you are married, DON'T email me. There's no point telling me your marital problems. If you need to talk to someone about your problems, you should see a marriage counsellor, not me.

Maninsinsha is a very nice gentleman and we get along very well. He has given me very sound advice about this forum. I'm still looking for dates although I am sure I'll see him again. I have reply to some mails and I'll try to reply more when I'm free.

A good catch for a first time date with a gentleman. I was telling bro Maninshinsha that I would be curious about him too .. haha..

[sacs]

Originally Posted by see see only

Share a little story with you my dear sis hor ........


We publicised in the paper hunting for manager....

One day, i have this young gentleman that came walking into my office without any appointment ... waited for me almost 2 hours, to come back from my meeting.

Feeling frustrated been recalled to the office for an unscheduled interview, I was actually not listening to his introduction until he proved me otherwise with his patience and most important of all … his confident.

Although he's a bit under qualify – I engaged him ….. I guess his confident and his way of doing things out of the box yet confined within my boundaries made me feel comfortable and I should give him a chance to see how’s his attitude like …........ turn out to be a great decision

Presently he is our senior manager for the time being ………. and indeed worry he will move on actually ....


Arrrr back to your post works or not, depends very much on you

but the problem is, what works for the guy, may not work for others.not everyone is the same. haha no offence