troubled mind....

[ben06]

hi...i know tis viet girl when i was working at ktv in town...i'm a part time bartender...girls over there...mostly from vietnam...
saw tis new girl...look very sweet and cute...funny to say...i didn't talk to her but jus look at her from my bar...view from my bar can see rooms...rooms where all the girls sit and wait for mummy to bring them to new room...
to my opinion...girls from vietnam mostly very money minded...if u r one rich fucker...den u stand a chance to be with them...the pretty ones of coz...wat we call "ang pai"(most popular girls)...
den one day...she...the one i like...got drunk...she knows i'm always looking at her...hope she dun think dat i'm ti kio or wat...lolz...
she came by my bar...smile at me...and we finally talk...exchange no...
dat how we started...

the first fews week was sweet...we go to movies...dinner together...sms when at work...
den i fall in love with her...can say she reali got alot of man...wat she claim customer onli...i dunno whether she's true to me or not...i jus like her for no reason...its a kind of feeling...sweet yet bitter...dunno how to describe oso..so tis love...?
she came here on holiday visa...so can onli stay for 1 month...other den dat...have to extend...the most can stay 2 months...
we r so close...dat she move in to my house...but staying together is not easy...u can see many thing u nv see b4...as in behavior...
she got many phone calls a day...booking her oso have...ask her go out oso have...her customer mostly very rich de...drive car...btw...ktv not cheap hor...400 ++ per bottle...exclude mummy tips...$50 to $100...girls tips $50...short time $300..over night $600...dats how they earn money...

put it tis way...i found myself a gf...which is oso many ppl gf...
i can understand wat she do for a living...i nv look down on her b4...
now she is still staying with me...but got tis particular guy...close to her i can say...am i losing her already...?all my frenz advice me...let her go la...why so kang kor...she is jus someone...pay money den can fuck le...
vietnam girls...so difficult to understand...i not andy lau...i oso know...why would someone like her love me...she got better man out there for her...reali confused...love is drug...u get addicted...somehow u get lost...eventually u dun even know why u put in so much effort...yet u get nth back in return...so tis love...?

[Sweetprcbabes2]

Qns : u said short time $300, over night $600, your girl provide this service as well ?

I think this is the key qns to your answer.

[Max77]

Ur gal live a very meaningful life...

1) got money (job)
2) got friends who hav money ('customers')
3) got bf (you)
4) got place to stay (your place)

Basically she knows how to take care of her every needs in life. (Do you?)

Man to man, on the blunt edge of the sword i oni wanna say, u r jus another ass she ride on while looking for a real horse-hoped u can wake up, refuse to be the ass and find ur horse first before u got hurt (once again?)

I apologise if i've offended ur sweet dream, but u can oni be one of her 'bitterly'-hav-to-let-go boy friend in the end.

Ofcoz i may be totally wrong about it...

[billgates]

You are just one of her sources of income. You provide free board, right? And in case she gets into trouble, need someone to bail her out, you will be there, right?

That's what u are to her, a life-buoy while she is in SG. Someday she would have made enough $$$, return to her family, husband, or whatever life she had in VN. And you - the Spore life-buoy - will be left floating aimlessly in the big ocean.

[vietnam80]

bro...try to focus elsewhere... i believe many of us gone thru this and so was i before.... haiz...dun put too much emotions in lor...

[alan0338]

Oh my god, you treat a whore as a GF?

Bro, change the definition of GF ( GIRL FRIEND, ) to GF ( Good friend ) and you will be fine.

[rodding]

Some vn girls paying $15/day at flats in boon lay. If you can get a bonk a day from her, u save on geylang trip oredy. DON'T get emotionally involve with this girl if you want to save yourself from emotional or financial trauma up ahead.She use you, you use her...... you know what i mean.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ben06

put it tis way...i found myself a gf...which is oso many ppl gf...
i can understand wat she do for a living...i nv look down on her b4...
now she is still staying with me...but got tis particular guy...close to her i can say...am i losing her already...?all my frenz advice me...let her go la...why so kang kor...she is jus someone...pay money den can fuck le...

Alot bro here see this type of vn gals as plaything/hooker/gold digger, so you are advised to leave her.

the true feeling is between you and her. She stay at your house and you see each other daily. You should know how you feel for each other.

nothing wrong with having her as a galfriend... not talking about marrying yet. so you can enjoy the sweetness while it last

[Zoick]

I put in another perspective for you.

She love you, but then, love cannot feed her whole family, and she know she can't stay long here since she will leave in 2 months time. The most, make a U-Turn in M'sia, come back another 1 month.

She just being practical, like most if not all, other ordinary girls. Love cannot fill stomach, especially she have no qualification, no skill (except PR skill) .. so she need to earn a living.

Let her go .. just like when breaking off with your other previous gf... I think it will make you feel better.

[ben06]

thanks bro for all ur comment....
i'm still learning to let go...but...i jus can't seems to let her go now...
i think she is reali leaving me for another man...
someytime i jus hope i can make her stay...i know i can't make her heart stay...i so tired...so tired...izzit stupid for me to cry every night....i dun think guys cry as much as i do...

[CatusRose]

Just cry your heart out. That's human. Everyone here always claim to do this do that but deep down, they haven't meet their match. Or they are just hiding their soft spot.

Time will get you by and you will learn as you get more experience. My advice, get a rebound. In this scene, you either play or get play out. If your heart is soft, no matter how many time u fall, you will still fall in.

Work hard and earn $, you will realise the power of it when you are old and ugly. but still pretty gals flock to you liek nobody's business.

Cheers

[myway]

Originally Posted by CatusRose

Just cry your heart out. That's human. Everyone here always claim to do this do that but deep down, they haven't meet their match. Or they are just hiding their soft spot.

Time will get you by and you will learn as you get more experience. My advice, get a rebound. In this scene, you either play or get play out. If your heart is soft, no matter how many time u fall, you will still fall in.

Work hard and earn $, you will realise the power of it when you are old and ugly. but still pretty gals flock to you liek nobody's business.

Cheers

Well said

[Black_Hawk_Up]

bite the bullet, drop her an sms saying it all over. ask her not to contact you anymore. call her names. piss her off.

after that, cry for a couple of weeks, get over it and move on. obviously she is using you.

there are better girls out there. i know that what people say to comfort others. normally, that a fact.

no one can't live without another person. it not easy but most bros here have been there done that. get through it and you will become stronger.

take care.

[MaMister]

Just fuck her while you can.... If I am you....

[owl888]

TS besides emotional, how about any financial damage? Else if no, engage all your loves/emotions onto another more practical gal not in this trade. Plenty of trees in the forest, why hang onto a tree that has become public property?