Any success stories with ML/FL?

[Levant]

This is like the 3rd or 4th thread I read here this year of a middle aged married man wanting to be with a 'lover' he met from commercial sex.

Middle age crisis ?

[cutecuteboy]

Originally Posted by Levant

This is like the 3rd or 4th thread I read here this year of a middle aged married man wanting to be with a 'lover' he met from commercial sex.

Middle age crisis ?

Bcos many women let themselves go after marriage and SG system favours the women a lot with women having dominating characters. Who wants another man for lifelong partner?

Then comes along a woman who looks totally opposite and gives good sex.

Seen enough male friends who divorce due to their wives being overall dominating. Better to rear a puppy, kitten or some other small animals than to marry.

[Levant]

Originally Posted by cutecuteboy

Bcos many women let themselves go after marriage and SG system favours the women a lot with women having dominating characters. Who wants another man for lifelong partner?

Then comes along a woman who looks totally opposite and gives good sex.

Seen enough male friends who divorce due to their wives being overall dominating. Better to rear a puppy, kitten or some other small animals than to marry.

A few years back, my late 40s married friend ask me and a couple other colleagues out to night ktv.
Ended at 3am, had a late supper.
He returned home maybe 5-6 am.
It was the first time he ask a group of us out and stayed so late.
We later learned that it was because his wife went against his expressed wishes and cut her hair short, to ear length from before when it was past shoulder.
The other day the wife drove to company to fetch him, was long hair.

Both parties have to make effort, before and after marriage.
If guys accept dominating character before marriage, not the ladies fault.
If guys accept dominating character after marriage, why is it the ladies' fault again ?

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by Autumnsun

Stop scrubbing a public toilet.

Originally Posted by ajlover

just drink milk outside when u thirsty, why bring cow home..

Two best quotes in this thread to knock some sense on TS.

[Anotherboi]

HAHAHAHAHA damn this 2 quote really made me laughed. Bros here have some humor.

Quite funny that guys can cheat on own wife but not willing to cheat on ML/FL. Why need to so subservient to the ML/FL we got the money and paying customer should be we calling the shots. Trying to make them loyal to you is like trying to reserve public toilet, put your name on toilet bowl let other guys piss and shit on it

[koxxic]

TS spend a bomb to buy a car that comes with expensive COE but is choosing to use a rental BlueSG car and is now trying to buy a rental car? Doesn’t make sense no matter how I see it

[junior_cannibal]

Having a fling is one thing, to marry is another level altogether. Try visiting the lady's family back home, be it China, Thailand or Vietnam. Especially if they are from the village or less rural area. The cultural differences alone can shock most of us.
Also, you will be expected to take care of her whole family, grand parents, parents, siblings, kids from past marriages... Cause they will assume you are better off than them.
Try by telling that lady that you are in some financial difficulty, can't give her anymore money, even better, ask if she can lend you some money to tie over. She probably will vanish. If that's true love you thought you found, then no one is ever heartbroken in the world.

[trueno2008]

Originally Posted by UrbanDecal

I'm married met a WL for 2.5months, 2-4 years younger than ne. Didn't thought of much at first when I visited her ad I like older woman. But after that, I got her for 包夜, then slowly slowly ended up liking her so much that I went to China to find her. Then spent a couple of days just travelling. In between, we were long d for about 2 to 3 weeks. Now back to long d.

We fuck raw, because she says that she always ensure customer use condoms. And during first time I met her, I noticed her attention always on the condom, so I feel that she should be safe. I have feelings for her, hence the sex feels even better. While she is hot, I really like her personality traits, then the sex.

Currently spent about sgd 13-15k on shopping, hotels, flights, food etc. I do give her some money here and there as she's currently not working (not too crazy, a couple of hundreds.) She gives me the feeling like my ex, my hearbeat can raise to 120/150 but can also drop to 80. huge fluctuations, very passionate and emotional. But the thing is I am married for almost a decade. My wife is very good but we don't have that passionate feeling. However, if shit hits the fan, I know she will be there no matter.what.

Never been in a r/s with WL/ML - wanted to ask if there's any success stories.

Done that before except with non WL but still failed and regret max, mainly with children. Won't say 100% will failed cos depends what character you have. Some men can remarry 2-3 times and fathered at every marriage without a blink of their own eyes.

As what other bros mentioned, it will be a life changing moment and whether you are ready for such a roller coaster, and ready to live in guilt or have no guilt at all.

[wahhero]

I have known a ml for many years, when she first started out in this industry, I was amongst the first few customers. She was still new as in doing the massage, but did not offer any special..I find her quite refreshing..sometimes when I am out with clients for dinner, which is near her place..she would purposely come to the restaurant to packet food back..then she would just smile and acknowledge me..over time, I also had some intimacy with her, she began to provide hj service to her customers but I will always get something different..like she would allow me to feel her bush and sometimes dig her hole..I also managed to force French her...and she would just accept 50 for all these...then she left for another place and I didn't get her jumper but thru social media, managed to locate her again..went to look for her again, and she was also happy to see me and let me have all the services she gave me before and we talked like old friends...then she left the place again..fortunately I managed to find her again and got her number this time...but her place a bit too open to do a lot of stuff..so try to ask her out which she would find excuses to reject me...I feel that the chemistry is no longer there and cannot go further unless we can go out to hotel or something like that...otherwise, I think she is all about money first..

[loneyheart]

Man will never change
Always confused ... lust .... urge .... love ... maybe we SGman r more lonely then most man in the world