Would a woman know?

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by undyinglust

AI becoming smarter than humans already. Robots going take over humanity LOL

How to trust an answer delivered by an entity which has zilch real experience in such matters? 😁

[mrpickles1996]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

How to trust an answer delivered by an entity which has zilch real experience in such matters? 😁

no experience but answers very deep lol

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by alleycat

I've been in a deadbedroom situation for years. Often I'd get advances rejected by wife. With the DB situation, would wife even remotely suspect I would have seeked elsewhere for relief? My marriage is still fine minus the intimacy n sex.

Even if she doesn't know, you do. So the question you should ask yourself is whether fleeting carnal pleasure is worth not being able to look at yourself in the mirror the same way again.

It takes 2 hands to clap. Ask yourself if you are at least partially to blame for the "dead bedroom" situation you're in. Communicate. Ask her why isn't she interested any more. For all you know, it could be a really simple issue to solve.

Good luck.

[ethanw]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

LOL.. seriously though, since you mentioned your marriage is otherwise fine, you should go talk to her about your needs. Or even go see a couple therapist. Don't wait until it is too late. Good luck.

agree with you man. sometimes a little bit of spice is needed. make the spark spark again u know

[Zetyalpha]

Originally Posted by alleycat

I've been in a deadbedroom situation for years. Often I'd get advances rejected by wife. With the DB situation, would wife even remotely suspect I would have seeked elsewhere for relief? My marriage is still fine minus the intimacy n sex.

You're like one of the many marriages I read through the decades. Marriage is a transaction plus a gun holding against your head.

That wife of yours got what she wanted out of you and she (and many other Singaporean women) knows that they're NOT obligated to serve/fulfill your needs off or on bed. This is no longer the age of men, it is the age of the gov. Will you feel the full effect if this marriage goes to the FJC.

And till this day people still asking why I not married, wtf...?

[tybalt11]

need open heart with wife to discuss about problem. hope after that situation will getting better

[bendadick]

what is intimacy in a relationship ?

[Mumu1]

try dating again with her.

[linabubbles]

Originally Posted by alleycat

I've been in a deadbedroom situation for years. Often I'd get advances rejected by wife. With the DB situation, would wife even remotely suspect I would have seeked elsewhere for relief? My marriage is still fine minus the intimacy n sex.

Have you talked to her about this bro? Maybe she is just tired or not in the mood?

[ethanw]

WOMEN WILL ALWAYS KNOW. sorry for the caps lock.
Like I said before, try to make the spark again, if it's not possible, then end it? Rather than sneaking around behind her, she will figure it out.

[accean]

Originally Posted by Zetyalpha

You're like one of the many marriages I read through the decades. Marriage is a transaction plus a gun holding against your head.

That wife of yours got what she wanted out of you and she (and many other Singaporean women) knows that they're NOT obligated to serve/fulfill your needs off or on bed. This is no longer the age of men, it is the age of the gov. Will you feel the full effect if this marriage goes to the FJC.

And till this day people still asking why I not married, wtf...?

this is a very interesting analogy about marriage that I came across so far.

[Zetyalpha]

Originally Posted by accean

this is a very interesting analogy about marriage that I came across so far.

Other than yr parents or maybe immediate family members. All human relationships are transactional. Men marry down, Women marry up.

Just speaking the truth