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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum
I totally disagree with you. Your explanation "i am a parent" and "rebellious and ungrateful" itself carry the answer. You are taking your kids a liability. Did anyone including those kids beg you to have them? No. Did they ask you to must have them? A big No. You decided to have kids, so, it is your responsibility and duty to house them as long as they decide to leave you (yes, its their right to leave you whenever they want and you have fucking no moral grounds to cry). It is your duty (dont ever think you do a favor) to feed them, educate them, pay fees, house them, etc. Now people must step forward and break this shit mindset of parents which is the evil of everything. Why parents think its their moral and legal right that kids will treat them well, fullfill their desires, must follow their words, pay attention all the time in old age when they did not fullfill any of these when they have the power. Yes, majority of the parents take kids as slaves, dictate each and every decision, give no choice of choosing, force them to follow them blindly and do whatever they want. Why do they have expectations when they have no decision power? Feeding kids or housing them is not a favor, its your duty. If you dont fullfill your duty, you commit a crime.
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indeed it’s a moral obligation once one decides to be a parent. if not willing to sacrifice wholeheartedly and expects some form of return In old age, then may as well not bear them. That’s how “parental love is unconditional” is being coined. Else yearly celebrate parental days for what significance? |
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Whether the kids wanting to care for their parents in their old age is another issue altogether, much is also dependent on the financial status. |
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Ask yourself 1st, do u even have the minimum quality to be a toy boy? |
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yes what I mean is if given a choice, parents will wan their kids to take care of them right? if u think I can live till 1000yrs old or prefer oneself check in old folks home when old, then by all means no need to try ur very best to accommodate. if long as the children did not ask for $$$ to buy big ticket items like home and willing stay with parents, then there shd be no issue. a home is for stay n not for flipping in old age for $$$.. if so; then uts real pathetic. ..may as well dont have kids in the 1st place. |
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Never a good position to be in. If I ever were to stay with mine when he's an adult, it must be by choice, not necessity. What's wrong with a nursing home anyway? Paid aged care is where the big money is because that's where we're headed for sure. |
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Anyway nothing wrong with nursing home nowadays as this is the accepted norm n it is quite costly also. |
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Then it serve no purpose to preCreate if the end point is much preferred or by no choice, to be managed by strangers in old folks home than own flesh n blood. |
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Talking is easy! Wait till when you're face with that situation than you'll know.
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So how bad is your life really? As people have said on this thread, it isn't hard to make new friends if you are willing to put in the effort. Also, it isn't hard to get a GF if you manage your expectations. If you don't have K-Pop star looks or a fat wallet, don't expect an IG model standard GF. Your life is what you make of it. Good luck. |
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do not close down yourself, try to find some girls in sugarbook.com
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Do something on yourself rather than waiting for durian to drop is the only solution for you
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Good advice but not enough.
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Aiya bro.. Mid 30 can buy houses under the single schemes wat... Buy house use Cpf la.. No need cash wan. Only 500 for otp.. If can't even have 500 than I dun think u can be save liaoo... |
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Are you BBFA or find it hard to hook up with sg girls? Actually can consider buy a vietnam wife 8k then start a simple life with her.
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