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I see so many men with gfs and wives. These men behave like their women's slaves, carry their handbags, listen to their boring complaints and put up with a whole lot of nonsense. All for what? So that if their women are happy, those boys can get a round of sex in return. Just like how dogs are rewarded with a treat when they roll on the floor upon their owners' command. THIS IS WHAT I CALL LOSER.
So long as you are fucking on your own terms, you are already better than a whole bunch of useless soft dicks. Doesn't matter whether it is FL or gf. Anyways, FLs are much cheaper than gfs. If you want to train your skills, you are better off starting with FLs. Will save you a whole bunch of money. And lets face it, the more money you have, the better quality gf you can attract. And the skills you picked up will make her want to stay with you and submit to you. Nothing like a good hard fuck to make girls know what a real man is. That is why men's virginity are not worth anything. That is why girls prefer experienced men Fuck enough FLs and you will also realize what kind of women you prefer. When I was young and inexperienced, I thought I liked slim girls with small boobs. They looked cute on the outside. But I realized I'm actually a boob lover after trying out a few women. And you also learn things like spotting flabby tummies before the clothes come off. I once told a friend his dream girl got flabby tummy. He didn't believe me, say he saw her in jeans and she looked ok. After their first night together, he was asking how I knew. All these and many other things you will learn with experience. And experience will help you avoid buyers' remorse when you finally unwrap that gf you worked so hard to chase
A lot of "hard truths" content packed into this comment. I experienced some of these personally also.
Guys thanks for your inputs here. I am a virgin too!
Recently I video chatted (naughty) with a malay girl on a dating app. I'm chinese. Shes 5 years older than me according to her dating profile. She told me got at least 3 guys have fun with her before.
In our video chat she never showed her face though, just lower body. No way to verify she is the actual person I see in her pics.
If we really meet and have fun, is there any signs I should look out for any possible problems? E.g. she has std or not?
Or any signs to tell she could be setting a trap e.g. some other guy come and blackmail me say why I fuck his daughter/wife threaten report police unless I pay up or do sth illegal for him
Always thought will find the right one who will be perfect but end up give to my 1st gf who i know from the start will not be the one. She's from another country and i dont want either of us to move so i know it wont last. But we gave each other our 1st time. Aft that been going around with FLs while still finding new gf. To me actually first time sex didn't feel like a big deal. But i wouldnt have given it to FL. Actually miss doing it with gf, the difference between sex with gf (mutual attraction) and with FL (more mechanical, they not so into it) quite noticeable. Who knows maybe i just havent find FL with good enough service yet.
To all those still virgin and feeling demotivated, dont worry many guys have been in your shoes. Just work on yourself, pick up a hobby or sport, sure can find gf. At the same time you improve your overall life quality aswell. Use dating app but dont see it as finding gf is the only goal. Sometimes you make more female friends and keep in touch, even if not dating compatible, you also practice being comfortable and confident in talking to girls. Everything helps
i think a guy should lose it to someone with experience. can you imagine your girlfriend finally allow you to take her virgin and you have zero experience and not knowing what to do despite watching porn countless times.
lol can relate. First time with gf we both virgin, i dont know how to pace. Also never realized sex was so tiring, hard to maintain thrusting nonstop. Need practice a few times to find a good rhythm that you both like.
Guys thanks for your inputs here. I am a virgin too!
Recently I video chatted (naughty) with a malay girl on a dating app. I'm chinese. Shes 5 years older than me according to her dating profile. She told me got at least 3 guys have fun with her before.
In our video chat she never showed her face though, just lower body. No way to verify she is the actual person I see in her pics.
If we really meet and have fun, is there any signs I should look out for any possible problems? E.g. she has std or not?
Or any signs to tell she could be setting a trap e.g. some other guy come and blackmail me say why I fuck his daughter/wife threaten report police unless I pay up or do sth illegal for him
Please teach me what to do/look out for?
I found out she using fake pics... lucky nevet meet up lol
Always thought will find the right one who will be perfect but end up give to my 1st gf who i know from the start will not be the one. She's from another country and i dont want either of us to move so i know it wont last. But we gave each other our 1st time. Aft that been going around with FLs while still finding new gf. To me actually first time sex didn't feel like a big deal. But i wouldnt have given it to FL. Actually miss doing it with gf, the difference between sex with gf (mutual attraction) and with FL (more mechanical, they not so into it) quite noticeable. Who knows maybe i just havent find FL with good enough service yet.
To all those still virgin and feeling demotivated, dont worry many guys have been in your shoes. Just work on yourself, pick up a hobby or sport, sure can find gf. At the same time you improve your overall life quality aswell. Use dating app but dont see it as finding gf is the only goal. Sometimes you make more female friends and keep in touch, even if not dating compatible, you also practice being comfortable and confident in talking to girls. Everything helps