Ultimately freedom is the goal. Financial freedom is when one no longer have any liability.
Not answering to any bosses or customers is also a worthy goal to achieve.
If you can generate sufficient income without lifting a finger, you should consider retiring.
And then look for a hobby or passion to fill your time (not just fucking FL all the time )
I can think of things like do those dancing classes (to pick up MILF), for a start
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Originally Posted by entering
My HDB, car, credit cards all paid off. Earning rental from 2 condos but my job still pay reasonably well since my work is very niche and hard to find people. Eldest in army, second one doing attachments already. Left third one.
So salary is to just spend. Half give wife, the other half, I spent on all the hotel 81. Don't give any money to the maids but once in a while, give a bit. The rest, just keep in the bank.
Now a bit lost about what to do with my life cuz fucking a different girl almost every night when I go out and meet the maids and I'm damn sian of work but don't want to stay at home do nothing.
Feel like resigning but then the thought of losing my pay stops me from just saying "fuck it".
My HDB, car, credit cards all paid off. Earning rental from 2 condos but my job still pay reasonably well since my work is very niche and hard to find people. Eldest in army, second one doing attachments already. Left third one.
So salary is to just spend. Half give wife, the other half, I spent on all the hotel 81. Don't give any money to the maids but once in a while, give a bit. The rest, just keep in the bank.
Now a bit lost about what to do with my life cuz fucking a different girl almost every night when I go out and meet the maids and I'm damn sian of work but don't want to stay at home do nothing.
Feel like resigning but then the thought of losing my pay stops me from just saying "fuck it".
I'm mid 3Xs, married w no kids. Got lucky with some investments and don't think I need to work ever again.
For the past 2 years I have been feeling the same as you - lost and dunno what to do. Every few days go out play new girl until it feels dam hollow inside.
Right now i try to pick up new hobby (exercise) and catch up w old friends. Also start to talk about having kids w wife. Maybe having a kid will help to anchor me down.
I'm mid 3Xs, married w no kids. Got lucky with some investments and don't think I need to work ever again.
For the past 2 years I have been feeling the same as you - lost and dunno what to do. Every few days go out play new girl until it feels dam hollow inside.
Right now i try to pick up new hobby (exercise) and catch up w old friends. Also start to talk about having kids w wife. Maybe having a kid will help to anchor me down.
I like to apologise to other bros that I'm not doing a humble flex but the funny thing was when Covid struck, I almost went bankrupt.
So, those 2 years was super tough for me. Almost no sleep every night just working all the way, including driving Grab to reach a safety level.
But to my amazement, I cleared all my debts early this year, and suddenly feel like want to just rest a bit but the problem is once rest, then hard to find back a job.
So, ya either side got it's own problems.
Feeling a bit lost and sianzzz... Or just burnt out.
Just share a thought, was thinking of renting our my whole 4 room hdb, earn rental and backpacking around the world with my wife, after we have some saving and settle the loans, we don't have kids.
I'm mid 3Xs, married w no kids. Got lucky with some investments and don't think I need to work ever again.
For the past 2 years I have been feeling the same as you - lost and dunno what to do. Every few days go out play new girl until it feels dam hollow inside.
Right now i try to pick up new hobby (exercise) and catch up w old friends. Also start to talk about having kids w wife. Maybe having a kid will help to anchor me down.
Since you are having a good relationship with your wife and financially stable, why not?
At least you can have fun watching a mini-you growing up, and wonder "Will he grow up like me or be better than me?"
Just share a thought, was thinking of renting our my whole 4 room hdb, earn rental and backpacking around the world with my wife, after we have some saving and settle the loans, we don't have kids.
That is one of the smartest thing to do. Romantic and definitely eye opening. While you are still young and fit, please get that done.
I like to apologise to other bros that I'm not doing a humble flex but the funny thing was when Covid struck, I almost went bankrupt.
So, those 2 years was super tough for me. Almost no sleep every night just working all the way, including driving Grab to reach a safety level.
But to my amazement, I cleared all my debts early this year, and suddenly feel like want to just rest a bit but the problem is once rest, then hard to find back a job.
So, ya either side got it's own problems.
Feeling a bit lost and sianzzz... Or just burnt out.
U said u just cleared yr debts this year so should be not much saving
How to retire / rest I wonder ?
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