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I am married and with 1 child and i have been going for massages close to 10years and i have always read about other bros falling into KC traps. I alway felt i will nvr fall into this situation as i set my emotions apart.Not saying i had fall into one but i am somewhat in a similar situation now.
So i visited this viet ML for the first time last week and we ended up frenching in the session and ended with HJ. In the 1st session i already made known that i am married as i feel no point lying as i dont intend to date them. But when leaving she kept kissing and hugging me, she even teared abit. So was kinda surprised for me that she reacted that way n thought she may like me or acting abit.
So fast forward, i did thought of her after the 1st session so i visited her for the 2nd time yesterday. We frenched like long lost lover throughout the whole session and she voluntarily provided BJ and CIM services for me. At first i still think ok la maybe she still act abit to get regular customers. But what happened at the end was when i wanted to tip her for the service before i left. She outright rejected and dont want to accept after my several attempts to give the money.
I am kinda taken aback and for the first time after 10 yrs i encountered this situation. I can imagine if i kept going back i will get free HJ and BJ, and for now of course i've not fallen into the KC trap.
Want to ask bros, should i continue to go and i may get myself in trouble eventually or should i stop going to her as i also dont want to hurt her if she is genuine. I definitely cant date her, bring her out or give her any status so continuing to go will only hurt her.
Obviously you are not thinking properly. Don't make decision and regret later.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
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Originally Posted by Maspro
Just want to hear from other bros' perspectives.
I am married and with 1 child and i have been going for massages close to 10years and i have always read about other bros falling into KC traps. I alway felt i will nvr fall into this situation as i set my emotions apart.Not saying i had fall into one but i am somewhat in a similar situation now.
So i visited this viet ML for the first time last week and we ended up frenching in the session and ended with HJ. In the 1st session i already made known that i am married as i feel no point lying as i dont intend to date them. But when leaving she kept kissing and hugging me, she even teared abit. So was kinda surprised for me that she reacted that way n thought she may like me or acting abit.
So fast forward, i did thought of her after the 1st session so i visited her for the 2nd time yesterday. We frenched like long lost lover throughout the whole session and she voluntarily provided BJ and CIM services for me. At first i still think ok la maybe she still act abit to get regular customers. But what happened at the end was when i wanted to tip her for the service before i left. She outright rejected and dont want to accept after my several attempts to give the money.
I am kinda taken aback and for the first time after 10 yrs i encountered this situation. I can imagine if i kept going back i will get free HJ and BJ, and for now of course i've not fallen into the KC trap.
Want to ask bros, should i continue to go and i may get myself in trouble eventually or should i stop going to her as i also dont want to hurt her if she is genuine. I definitely cant date her, bring her out or give her any status so continuing to go will only hurt her.
Best to keep it transactional. Have safe fun but take good care of your family. Ideal to have a cool off period to think properly. What's her interest/upside, and what's your interest/upside ? Asymmetric upside for her and asymmetric downside for you.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
Thanks to all bros again. I think i decide to end this before anyone falls deeper. Rmthe risks are just not worth it... shall stop seeing her for the time being and explain to her.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
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Originally Posted by Maspro
Thanks to all bros again. I think i decide to end this before anyone falls deeper. Rmthe risks are just not worth it... shall stop seeing her for the time being and explain to her.
Right from the start, I have mentioned you are an honest chap which is true enough.
Anyway this kind of stuff don't need to explain to her, just block and delete the contact.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
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Originally Posted by Maspro
Thanks to all bros again. I think i decide to end this before anyone falls deeper. Rmthe risks are just not worth it... shall stop seeing her for the time being and explain to her.
Good decision. Many bros I have seen make the wrong decision and regret. We have seen the mistakes from others, we have the blessing to learn from them without facing it yourself.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
This is commercial sex the FL & the John owe nothing to each other. Its a $ for sex transaction don’t read too much into it. Unless you willing to marry the FL & suffer the pain of bruised ego or constant suspicion there is no sweet nothings to whisper any longer. Do not underestimate how easy it can be to get attached, otherwise the adventure can possibly become a tragedy. Its fun and also a fantasy, make sure it stays that way and you will have nice memories instead of a living nightmare.
Re: Think Ml is falling for me, should i continue to visit her?
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Originally Posted by EtherC
This is commercial sex the FL & the John owe nothing to each other. Its a $ for sex transaction don’t read too much into it. Unless you willing to marry the FL & suffer the pain of bruised ego or constant suspicion there is no sweet nothings to whisper any longer. Do not underestimate how easy it can be to get attached, otherwise the adventure can possibly become a tragedy. Its fun and also a fantasy, make sure it stays that way and you will have nice memories instead of a living nightmare.
It's all transactional and that is the right assumption