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Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by randyrockhard
Nationalities won't matter as much as her character and her background is the one you should be focusing on.
I have dated several Malaysian Chinese before from different type of backgrounds.
One was a banker, from a well-to-do family, that has a good standard of living to maintain, which is normal for any woman to expect that they won't need to lower their standards by dating us. And upon learning that I have not settled yet in my career, she decided to move on.
Second was a VIP guests' liaison working for one of the casino here. Femininely attractive. She was raised by a single mother who struggled to raise 3 children by herself. Her aunt even had to help in paying for her education. Of all the 3 children, as the youngest one, she was the only one managed to get a Degree. And it's a Chemical Engineering degree. She is probably quite a smart girl.
She told me that her mother has a lot of expectations from her. This is understandable that she has the pressure to repay her mom's efforts and bring them out of their situation.
However, with the degree she had, upon graduation she decided to be VIP guests' liaison instead, where she regularly interacts with high spending gambling old men, who often approached her.
Her career choice is the sign of chosing the easiest & quickest way. And it showed. We went for about 6 dates and then suddenly she stopped responding when I asked about celebrating her birthday. Just like that. Ghosted.
Both of these women made their judgement call on what type of men that they need. And it's alright.
I assume after ghosting you. You guys haven’t met /spoken till now?
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by Greenfrog
if u girl u like , gave you a sneaker , would you sell it off?
TBH, i don't often receive presents from anybody, however if someone really has the thought of gifting, I wouldn't sell it regardless I like it anot.. or maybe I'm just a very sentimental person
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by Greenfrog
She is probably higher level than you in such aspects.
You heard of 欲擒故纵 ?Most of the Malaysian girls I know are very good at it.
I think this urban legend is true then, I ask the people around me for advice they told me this girl not simple..... I do not know this chinese saying before that, I went to research about it and this saying literally sums up the advice meant !
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by randyrockhard
Her career choice is the sign of chosing the easiest & quickest way. And it showed. We went for about 6 dates and then suddenly she stopped responding when I asked about celebrating her birthday. Just like that. Ghosted.
Both of these women made their judgement call on what type of men that they need. And it's alright.
mine ghosted too . And she got married two years later.
So Randy bro, u still puzzled or bitter why she ghosted u after all these years?
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by Greenfrog
mine ghosted too . And she got married two years later.
So Randy bro, u still puzzled or bitter why she ghosted u after all these years?
Neah, definitely not puzzled nor bitter. I mean, it's not her fault that she has needs in her life and wanting a golden ticket to improve her situation. Totally understandable.
I simply wasn't the right person for her. No hurt feelings. A woman is free to decide which man she wants to have in her life. May she find whatever it was that she was looking for.
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Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by xylphz
I think this urban legend is true then, I ask the people around me for advice they told me this girl not simple..... I do not know this chinese saying before that, I went to research about it and this saying literally sums up the advice meant !
bro, dont mind asking how do you rate her in terms of looks??
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by Greenfrog
bro, dont mind asking how do you rate her in terms of looks??
To be honest when i see her, her looks I didn't think too much like "wah she's damn hot" then my mind started to jam at there. But end up is her words that make my mind jam..... XD!
I'm the kind of person that it's more towards personality first, looks secondary...
Since you asked I'll rate her a 8/10 for a girl that asked me out that date..
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by randyrockhard
Neah, definitely not puzzled nor bitter. I mean, it's not her fault that she has needs in her life and wanting a golden ticket to improve her situation. Totally understandable.
I simply wasn't the right person for her. No hurt feelings. A woman is free to decide which man she wants to have in her life. May she find whatever it was that she was looking for.
hope you are able to move on from this, best regards from the bros over here
go date 100 women, go fuck 1000 women im sure your perspective will me much different...its liek when girls are young dont know their sexual worth, willing to give virginity to first guy that nice to them, after when older only accept RICH AND HANDSOME guys....once you have the social and financial capacity to easily date 100 women and fuck 1000 you will also see women in a different light.
Eg it cost me 20 dollars to fuck this girl and i dont date girls anymore as my economic value on my time is min 100dollar/hr so for me to date girls and spend 1hr romance them its already more costly with my time than for me to just directly pay them. Further if I was to marry one, the cost of divorce would be more than if i was to hire a maid/cook/daily escort service
Wah bro actually she is very close to like this in terms of figure and the way she dress up somewhat !
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
Bros here thank you for replying to my issues I have here, I have snapped out from my romanticizing mind out already. Getting back to reality, if you found out a girl lie to you - like my incident happened, will you still hang out with her as a friend? Need some opinions or any experience can share?
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by xylphz
Bros here thank you for replying to my issues I have here, I have snapped out from my romanticizing mind out already. Getting back to reality, if you found out a girl lie to you - like my incident happened, will you still hang out with her as a friend? Need some opinions or any experience can share?
It's kinda good that u are clear minded on the possibilities of traps being pop ahead of you but if u are good, u can turn the tables around.
Malaysian girls I have met so far are actually worse off than local girls esp the chinese educated ones. Learn all those rubbish ideas from China, etc. these girls in general are vain, think she's smart but dumb in real, takes short cut. Go to ig, u see those boobs showing, KOL wannabe are 70% chinese educated.
I got many tenants from Malaysia, China, Taiwan, Japan and Korea. Malaysians are one of those worse and cheapskate to the max! I got many stories but that's for another day.
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Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by titan
It's kinda good that u are clear minded on the possibilities of traps being pop ahead of you but if u are good, u can turn the tables around.
Malaysian girls I have met so far are actually worse off than local girls esp the chinese educated ones. Learn all those rubbish ideas from China, etc. these girls in general are vain, think she's smart but dumb in real, takes short cut. Go to ig, u see those boobs showing, KOL wannabe are 70% chinese educated.
I got many tenants from Malaysia, China, Taiwan, Japan and Korea. Malaysians are one of those worse and cheapskate to the max! I got many stories but that's for another day.
Did you mean by turn the tables around, is if I can accept whether the girl does this to me (lied to me not being honest) regardless if she is being very nice to me I can still proceed continue hang out, be friend with her?
Bro pls share ur story with ur msian girl ! Would be interested to hear
Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
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Originally Posted by xylphz
Did you mean by turn the tables around, is if I can accept whether the girl does this to me (lied to me not being honest) regardless if she is being very nice to me I can still proceed continue hang out, be friend with her?
Bro pls share ur story with ur msian girl ! Would be interested to hear
u can try bro, i wish u all the best (sincerely)
but if i am not wrong, you are probably smitten by this girl.(which is no fault of yours) She is probably one step ahead of you everytime.
even myself, I am trying to stay away from this Johor girl of mine.