The cheating gf - help needed.

[poisoned]

Hi bros and sis

I have a girlfriend of about a year or so but recently, she has been picking mad fights with me over practically nothing.

Yeah, she wanted to break up but i refused, only because she gives me really good sex (of course i didn't tell her that).

These past weeks, she admitted she's been on tinder, meeting guys. One night, she went out late till 330am and refused to tell me where she went. Another, she went to a guy friend's place to drink and stayed over. Yes, you read that right.

I am absolutely plastered and don't think she's worth it at all and i am pretty sure she's cheating on me. Problem is, how do i catch her?

The reason for doing so is, she needs to be punished and her deeds cannot go unscathed. I'm thinking of 3Ps and swings before i let her go only and that's the main reason i'm not letting her go yet.

Now thing is, can anyone give any advice on how to catch her and how to make her think i still love her and make her stick to me?

Thanks in advance,
Lost man.

[BMW520_M]

Time to ditch her. No point holding on when her heart is not with you.

[3Dragon]

She already want to break up so her heart is already somewhere else.

If shes so horny, she wont mind 3P n u need not any reasons to catch her whatsoever simply bcos shes prepared to leave u anyway. U shld enjoy the fucks u still have cos its numbered.

[doubletap]

Ts,
Forget about it. Most of us here have been through wat you are going through. It ain't worth to punish her too. Get on with your life, and hope you find a better one.
Trust me, n u ll thank me 3mths from now. if you drag this on, u are the only one that's gonna suffer, not her. Btw, watever u do to her now, she'll find you an eyesore. So, eeven if you buy her a Prada wallet now, she ll not appreciate too.
Lastly, I have been through wat you are going through now. if you heed my words,你不会后悔的。
good luck, buddy.

[ZapHim2Negative]

If you refuse to post out of zap free zone, I can't zap you.


So if she refuse to let you punish, you can't punish her.

[ok69]

actually i wont waste time like trying to catch her

btw are you trying to catch her so u can have a 3P.
thats gonna be mmf.

you, the guy and her
and ru sure u want that ?

treat the fact that she already had sex with others - cos tinder is purely ons imo
ask her if she had sex with others, tell her u love her, if u really do
and tell her to get protected at ALL times
tell her u wait for her

then start a tinder account

[Evelynnnnnn]

Install a spyware/keylogger into her phone. Easy way to catch her.

[Yoshi]

Yeah, 3Ps and swing and they'll be doing that to you in prison, too.

Dump the bitch and move on.

[Evelynnnnnn]

^^^ What he said. xD

[guess67]

So what if u manage to catch her, do u have the right to force her to have 3p or swing?

Just let go...

[BMW69]

Don't forget to take pics when you're having sex with her and share with us after your breakup.

[DemonicSS]

Well, TS, the girl already wants to leave you, you insisted on sticking to her like superglue. She's naturally doing her own thing without much thought of you - which is looking for another potential or just simply having fun. You are only with her for the sex, and you want to punish her for what her decisions are? I think TS needs to stay single and build up on his maturity before dating other ladies.

[ZapHim2Negative]

May be GF zaps TS to negative

[DocGQKing]

Hey bro,

Think everyone in this forum has gone through it at least once, so you're not alone. Not easy and I'm sorry that you're hit by this.

Honestly if you want her, let her go. It'll tell her that you have self respect. Right now it's really not worth the energy to chase her.

If you really want to track her, hire a PI. It'll cost though. Chances are, if you go through with it, she may just say ' so what' and your effort is wasted. Let her go, properly grieve for the pain of loss (don't suppress it) and after a bit move on. See what you can improve on.

Things will be better. I think you deserve better.

Hope this helps.

Take care and good luck bro.

[Lauhuu]

Bro, she is only a gf only, not wife. Don't have to do or think too much. Enjoy the f when u can and just move on. What so difficult? Marry her ah.