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Best experience only comes when you're comfortable enough with the guy - normally an SD or a regular who you know quite inside out.

Worst experience was the guy cum in less than 5 mins and it was me heading his place and being out and on a cab in less than 10 mins 😂 Think he hadn't had it in very long and it was the fastest I've ever been in and out.
Haha this is a gd 1... think accident does happens and I’m sure he also think that’s the “worst experience”.
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

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Been kinda bored with wfh and the likes, and realised I haven't came into this forum for sometime and thought to come in and check it out.

Thought I'd do a anonymous ask me anything since I've been starting to do part time FL/SB only in Uni days? Ahh and those were the times I'd be on random sites like locanto and sbf

And my first threesome was memorable heh

Also had a SD, then ended. Got attached, then retired then.
Broke up, horny and went back do FL/SB on off. Then stopped 😅

It's quite amusing cos I'm in my late 20s and felt like much as the guys are the one paying.. it was quite a fun ride!

This double life of mine 🙃

Guess I'm so bored I'm legit alright w y'all asking questions if they're not anything about my private details! Let's see if this gets anywhere and if I could cure my boredom of wfh
lets chat and see how things progress....wc: jonathanliu82
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Question. Are Singaporean girls generally put off or intimidated by sexually active and experienced guys to date and marry? Also, what exactly do girls of your generation generally seek in a guy to settle down with him?

Finally, on average how long do girls take before deciding whoever they are chatting to and getting to know is someone they wanna settle down and potentially marry?
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sorry i'll pass! not really looking for any progression outside sbf for now - key: retired for now!
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

I think it is slightly put off or intimidated if the guy has cheated on his partner - or its a tell tale sign that he is likely a player, and unable to settle. Its a lil of a red flag though i wouldn't judge so quickly given i've played the game before.

I wouldn't mind dating, but to marry? I'd question a lil bit more.

I can't speak for my generation because i think many things boil down to circumstances. I believe at a certain point - graduates wouldn't settle for someone less than a graduate (not being elitist or anything), simply because one may not see eye to eye on many issues ranging from politics to career prospects or even how to raise your future kids.

I'd guess in a way i'm finding a rock that can be my centre, hardworking, stable/good career prospects would be a plus, but ultimately someone who i know i could eventually depend on, respect as an equal and someone who makes me a better person.

I don't think time is a measure of love. Been in one year relationship thinking i'd settle when he proposed, and also been in four year relationship with it going south.

I guess the older you are the more certain you are that this person is the "right one". I would say at age 28.. give and take 3 months to know there is a potential to date seriously, give and take half a year to a year to know we can potentially settle down.

A smart woman knows how to love
A nice woman knows who to love.

Here's hoping I'm both smart and wise with time alright.

Nice question and one that made me reflect a lil, but odd that you're asking a retired FL person like me who's exchanged my body and time for money before. Different views seeing a ton of men cheat before, and thus hard for me to know if i'd eventually settle down sometimes.

Though never say never

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Finally, on average how long do girls take before deciding whoever they are chatting to and getting to know is someone they wanna settle down and potentially marry?
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Hey, thanks for your well thought out reply.

Think you misunderstood me. I wasn't referring to guys who cheated before in the past. I was referring simply to local guys who might not conform to the usual stereotype of "guai guai guy next door and sexually inexperienced". Are such guys a turn-off or scare-off for your typical local girls who might not be similar open or experienced in bed? Like, I'm a largely-retired swinger. I've way too many sexual experiences to even be keeping count of notches on the bedpost. Is that a negative point counting against me when I want to settle down with someone? I've always only played in the past when I was fully single. And I've settled down twice and retired from the lifestyle, so I know I can leave it behind.

I would lightly debate you on saying that it's a red flag for a girl when she thinks a guy can't settle down. Is that necessarily worse than a guy who would just settle down for anything and anyone? Because I find in my experience most SG guys would simply go for the first girl to give them attention, "love" (real or otherwise), and sex. There's this lack of distinction and ability to walk away when they know that a girl isn't seeing their relationship dynamic as equal. But when I myself show abundantly in my interactions with local SG girls that I'm not going to be easily won over or hooked in love with them, nor am I easily aroused to lust for them, that I treat them as equals to myself and not play the dating wooing game that most SG girls are used to, I get dropped faster than a sack of hot potatoes.

What are your thoughts on a guy like myself as I described?

Finally, I'm asking you such questions precisely because you're not naive. You've your fair share of skeletons and experiences in your closet and you've seen the best and worst of guys here in your previous SB/FL life. So naturally the answers you give would be a lot more realistic and less naive than if I were to ask the same questions of a GND kind.

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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Sis if you don't mind me asking

What was the most you receive while FL?
Anyone paid you just to date (dinner and drinks), no sex?

You sound like a gem i missed.. thanks for sharing your stories and letting us ask questions
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

I think your count / swinging would largely scare the bulk of local females, no offence as its quite a huge jump even from someone experienced (always chiong/fwbs and the likes).

Interesting to know that you could walk away and retire from that lifestyle though, i guess never say never

Treating them as equals is good, though most woman still want to be pampered and treated like a queen from time to time! Pro dating tip right there hahah.

I've always felt that a relationship pretty much to what you want to get out of a career, and frame my situations as to what i'd do if this situation was my work situation.

For example.. referring to "I would lightly debate you on saying that it's a red flag for a girl when she thinks a guy can't settle down. Is that necessarily worse than a guy who would just settle down for anything and anyone?"

1) Would you settle for a job if you reckon there is no job progress and there are also other offers?

2) Would you settle for a job if you are not happy with the offer?

I feel like settling for someone (no matter the timeline) means you're ready to accept him for what he is and hopefully he for what i would be.

Don't think i'm of much help but i hope you'll find someone that you connect well with and accept you for who you are

Hard in singapore, but never say never i guess
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Hey, thanks for your well thought out reply.

Think you misunderstood me. I wasn't referring to guys who cheated before in the past. I was referring simply to local guys who might not conform to the usual stereotype of "guai guai guy next door and sexually inexperienced". Are such guys a turn-off or scare-off for your typical local girls who might not be similar open or experienced in bed? Like, I'm a largely-retired swinger. I've way too many sexual experiences to even be keeping count of notches on the bedpost. Is that a negative point counting against me when I want to settle down with someone? I've always only played in the past when I was fully single. And I've settled down twice and retired from the lifestyle, so I know I can leave it behind.

I would lightly debate you on saying that it's a red flag for a girl when she thinks a guy can't settle down. Is that necessarily worse than a guy who would just settle down for anything and anyone? Because I find in my experience most SG guys would simply go for the first girl to give them attention, "love" (real or otherwise), and sex. There's this lack of distinction and ability to walk away when they know that a girl isn't seeing their relationship dynamic as equal. But when I myself show abundantly in my interactions with local SG girls that I'm not going to be easily won over or hooked in love with them, nor am I easily aroused to lust for them, that I treat them as equals to myself and not play the dating wooing game that most SG girls are used to, I get dropped faster than a sack of hot potatoes.

What are your thoughts on a guy like myself as I described?

Finally, I'm asking you such questions precisely because you're not naive. You've your fair share of skeletons and experiences in your closet and you've seen the best and worst of guys here in your previous SB/FL life. So naturally the answers you give would be a lot more realistic and less naive than if I were to ask the same questions of a GND kind.

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Thank you! I got zapped so much for doing this thread, i guess my opinions and thoughts don't count for much, a lot took offence

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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

Its an open market so yes there are always paid dates with no sex, just dinner and company. A little rare, but there are.

Largely depends on whether the guy is rich, since i typically let them offer and i'll just consider it
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Sis if you don't mind me asking

What was the most you receive while FL?
Anyone paid you just to date (dinner and drinks), no sex?

You sound like a gem i missed.. thanks for sharing your stories and letting us ask questions
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Thank you! I got zapped so much for doing this thread, i guess my opinions and thoughts don't count for much, a lot took offence
Why would idiots zap a person for her own AMA here? Seems a lot of SG people believe in thought control - only their opinion matters

(Yep - I'm unzappable)

Anyway, was curious to ask what drew you into FL? How did you get by the nerves with your first client? If you dun mind replying?

I have a local gal that I see every month, for the past four years, n keep forgetting to ask her these questions as we're always too busy 'catching up', I know she freelances and is client selective, and she probably started with an escort service at the same time as you and the same age, before switching to freelance.
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Re: Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

I started FL only because I was hurt in my previous relationship and didn't wanna settle for anyone. I was done w fwbs and prided that I'm using my time which could possibly do work and earn money (lol).

As I didn't really need the money, I was client selective. Which is why I'm not meeting anyone from here as well - I do have my regulars that find me from time to time. A lady has her needs too

Interesting route she did (escort then Fl). I was purely FL all the way for the very reason I didn't want just anyone and everyone to engage me. It was very ad hoc and based on my needs and time then anything else.

I did meet with two agents though! Think it was still largely fearful of putting up a permanent listing and being comfortable w the massive income one could milk w our youth.

However ask me again and I'll pretty much do it again! It's quite empowering
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Why would idiots zap a person for her own AMA here? Seems a lot of SG people believe in thought control - only their opinion matters

(Yep - I'm unzappable)

Anyway, was curious to ask what drew you into FL? How did you get by the nerves with your first client? If you dun mind replying?

I have a local gal that I see every month, for the past four years, n keep forgetting to ask her these questions as we're always too busy 'catching up', I know she freelances and is client selective, and she probably started with an escort service at the same time as you and the same age, before switching to freelance.
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