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Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
Hey guys,
Among my friends, I am known as the super guai, prim and proper kinda guy. I am in a proper relationship with my gf and we rarely argue so everything seems to be smooth sailing.
However, no one else knows that I actually go for happy ending massages monthly on average. Once, I even booked an FL just cuz I was curious about how another girl would be like (never fucked a girl other than my gf). Ever since then I have held back but there have been numerous times I almost gave in to temptation again and had to wank myself off to stop myself from booking another FL.
The thing is, no one among my friends would ever expect me to do this, and even though we do talking about porn stuffs on occasion, they have never told me about them cheating on their partners or even going for special massages. It makes me guilty to be doing all these behind my partner's back but sometimes I really question myself, are my friends just not telling me about their own deeds or am I the only one like this (prim and proper on the outside, deeds of cheating under the table). I know there are many stories of cheating here but I am curious as there are some guys who honestly people can guess that they cheat on their partners, but there are some that we seriously wont be able to tell.
Among my friends, I am known as the super guai, prim and proper kinda guy. I am in a proper relationship with my gf and we rarely argue so everything seems to be smooth sailing.
However, no one else knows that I actually go for happy ending massages monthly on average. Once, I even booked an FL just cuz I was curious about how another girl would be like (never fucked a girl other than my gf). Ever since then I have held back but there have been numerous times I almost gave in to temptation again and had to wank myself off to stop myself from booking another FL.
The thing is, no one among my friends would ever expect me to do this, and even though we do talking about porn stuffs on occasion, they have never told me about them cheating on their partners or even going for special massages. It makes me guilty to be doing all these behind my partner's back but sometimes I really question myself, are my friends just not telling me about their own deeds or am I the only one like this (prim and proper on the outside, deeds of cheating under the table). I know there are many stories of cheating here but I am curious as there are some guys who honestly people can guess that they cheat on their partners, but there are some that we seriously wont be able to tell.
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by jackjackoff
Do you have boring sex life with your gf?
Hmm I would say it has improved compared to a few months ago. I guess its kind of since she is my only gf so far, I have this curiousity to want to try other girls. Even though I know this is not right...
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
Not caring about what other people think would be the best choice you would ever make.
As men, we are naturally drawn to woman and the ability to pay to obtain gratification is a tale as old as time.
We all have gremlins in our closet - some would admit it, some would not and honestly it does not matter. I'm no angel - but there is a reason why this trade exists. Just play it safe and as the army saying goes "don't get caught".
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by lamelame76
Hey guys,
Among my friends, I am known as the super guai, prim and proper kinda guy. I am in a proper relationship with my gf and we rarely argue so everything seems to be smooth sailing.
However, no one else knows that I actually go for happy ending massages monthly on average. Once, I even booked an FL just cuz I was curious about how another girl would be like (never fucked a girl other than my gf). Ever since then I have held back but there have been numerous times I almost gave in to temptation again and had to wank myself off to stop myself from booking another FL.
The thing is, no one among my friends would ever expect me to do this, and even though we do talking about porn stuffs on occasion, they have never told me about them cheating on their partners or even going for special massages. It makes me guilty to be doing all these behind my partner's back but sometimes I really question myself, are my friends just not telling me about their own deeds or am I the only one like this (prim and proper on the outside, deeds of cheating under the table). I know there are many stories of cheating here but I am curious as there are some guys who honestly people can guess that they cheat on their partners, but there are some that we seriously wont be able to tell.
Hope you guys can share your stories.
alot of guys are actually in similar situation. but i suggest improving the sex life with your gf.
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by lamelame76
Hmm I would say it has improved compared to a few months ago. I guess its kind of since she is my only gf so far, I have this curiousity to want to try other girls. Even though I know this is not right...
It's good to satisfy your curiosity - this kind of curiosity will not simply just go away, and in time when you're older and you feel that you have not tried "enough" you are more likely than not to do stupid things that you will regret.
The trick is to be able to satisfy your curiosity without getting your emotions in the way. Do not fuck the same girl more than once, and try to experiment overseas and not locally, to put a safe distance between you and the girl
I suggest you indulge in a sex fest while you are in a foreign country, so you really feel and see what it is that you think you are missing. After a while, you will understand what kind of man you really are - some men just love sex and the act of fucking. Emotions are secondary - if that is the type of guy you really are then you're probably not suited to a monogamous relationship
Some guys enjoy the fuck, especially with professionals who know a lot more about giving pleasure. And I have been fortunate to experience more than my fair share in this department. But over time (over 15+ years of chionging, admittedly) I realize that the best sex is the one where you have real feelings with the girl and not just fucking out of pure lust.
So, now I am quite certain what I really want and I can say that I am no longer tempted even though I may not meet my gf for a couple of months. Yes the momentary temptation will arise every now and then, but if you already have a huge bank of memories, of what it feels like to fuck various types of women, then you more or less know that what you're missing is not simply the physical feel, but the emotional connection
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by hoiseeker
alot of guys are actually in similar situation. but i suggest improving the sex life with your gf.
The best solution, is to have a frank talk to let your gf understand that you have sexual needs that needs constant satisfaction.
Women usually under-estimate the amount of sex that a man really need. To a woman, if she can maybe "give in" to him 80% of the time with the average of maybe once a week then it should be "enough"
That false belief, I think, is the single biggest factor why a man looks outside for variety. Simply put, if a man's balls are not constantly being milked and emptied then he isn't having enough sex.
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by Penguin23
The best solution, is to have a frank talk to let your gf understand that you have sexual needs that needs constant satisfaction.
Women usually under-estimate the amount of sex that a man really need. To a woman, if she can maybe "give in" to him 80% of the time with the average of maybe once a week then it should be "enough"
That false belief, I think, is the single biggest factor why a man looks outside for variety. Simply put, if a man's balls are not constantly being milked and emptied then he isn't having enough sex.
Yes sir! I agree with you 100%! Would like to add on, takes two hands to clap. Both male and female partner must work together to keep the sex life active and not boring.
Re: Anyone here that friends would not expect you to find FL?
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Originally Posted by lamelame76
Hey guys,
Among my friends, I am known as the super guai, prim and proper kinda guy. I am in a proper relationship with my gf and we rarely argue so everything seems to be smooth sailing.
However, no one else knows that I actually go for happy ending massages monthly on average. Once, I even booked an FL just cuz I was curious about how another girl would be like (never fucked a girl other than my gf). Ever since then I have held back but there have been numerous times I almost gave in to temptation again and had to wank myself off to stop myself from booking another FL.
The thing is, no one among my friends would ever expect me to do this, and even though we do talking about porn stuffs on occasion, they have never told me about them cheating on their partners or even going for special massages. It makes me guilty to be doing all these behind my partner's back but sometimes I really question myself, are my friends just not telling me about their own deeds or am I the only one like this (prim and proper on the outside, deeds of cheating under the table). I know there are many stories of cheating here but I am curious as there are some guys who honestly people can guess that they cheat on their partners, but there are some that we seriously wont be able to tell.
Hope you guys can share your stories.
Are you friends with their wives? If yes, why would they even tell you?
If you don't have fun now, you will for sure in future. So just go experience everything in life and find out what you actually want!