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Old 24-06-2020, 10:01 PM
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I’m on my way home in a cab while typing this, just finished a session with a FL. Every single time I look for FL, I’ll feel guilty and scared at the same time. Scared cos of std guilty cos I’m thinking what I’m doing with my life.

Every single time after looking for FL, these set of feelings will just come out of nowhere. Not sure if it’s just me
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Old 25-06-2020, 11:07 AM
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Then stop, simple right? More for others also 😂
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I’m on my way home in a cab while typing this, just finished a session with a FL. Every single time I look for FL, I’ll feel guilty and scared at the same time. Scared cos of std guilty cos I’m thinking what I’m doing with my life.

Every single time after looking for FL, these set of feelings will just come out of nowhere. Not sure if it’s just me
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Man up. Live up to the decisions you make in life. Dont do things if you cant back it up
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Old 28-06-2020, 02:26 PM
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I’m on my way home in a cab while typing this, just finished a session with a FL. Every single time I look for FL, I’ll feel guilty and scared at the same time. Scared cos of std guilty cos I’m thinking what I’m doing with my life.

Every single time after looking for FL, these set of feelings will just come out of nowhere. Not sure if it’s just me
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Old 28-06-2020, 06:22 PM
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Haha thks for the kind words bros. Yea idk what’s wrong with me la.

Like, I use dating apps and can get girls that I like out on dates but when trying to get into a relationship somehow I just seem all needy and all that weak BS. Realised that I’m the bitch in the relationship then I will fuck up a perfectly good thing up. Then I start to think to myself maybe I’m just not suited for a relationship and I just gotta chiong FL for life. Which is not a bad thing just gotta be responsible like bros here mentioned. But yeah after the deed, always got the reality check as to what the fuck am I doing with my life.

I’m a local here so most of my life is just going through the usual process : study hard, find good job, find gf/wife then settle down have kids. The usual mechanistic cycle. Kinda felt that I should have socialised more in school but then again ur boi here not that smart so need a lot more time to study lolol.

I know prob it’s cos I need to cram my schedule up so I don’t think of all these nonsense. I have not many friends as well so I’m usually quite lonely haha I wanna focus more on my career but y’all know, it takes time as well.

I hope this is the place to let it all out, don’t flame me guys this is not a sob story and I don’t want no pity. Just thought it’s a good outlet cos we all need one occasionally.
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Old 28-06-2020, 07:21 PM
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I envy those with relationships and still chiong. From my perspective you guys are quite lucky and have it all. I can chat up and have a good convo with girls albeit online but can never seem to keep one for a relationship. Maybe there’s something wrong with me I’m not too sure.

People in relationships often tell me that being single is good. Honestly wish I could be believe that. Perhaps it’s cos I never had a relationship lasting for more than a month that’s why there’s a “grass is greener on the other side” mentality.
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Haha thks for the kind words bros. Yea idk what’s wrong with me la.

Like, I use dating apps and can get girls that I like out on dates but when trying to get into a relationship somehow I just seem all needy and all that weak BS. Realised that I’m the bitch in the relationship then I will fuck up a perfectly good thing up. Then I start to think to myself maybe I’m just not suited for a relationship and I just gotta chiong FL for life. Which is not a bad thing just gotta be responsible like bros here mentioned. But yeah after the deed, always got the reality check as to what the fuck am I doing with my life.

I’m a local here so most of my life is just going through the usual process : study hard, find good job, find gf/wife then settle down have kids. The usual mechanistic cycle. Kinda felt that I should have socialised more in school but then again ur boi here not that smart so need a lot more time to study lolol.

I know prob it’s cos I need to cram my schedule up so I don’t think of all these nonsense. I have not many friends as well so I’m usually quite lonely haha I wanna focus more on my career but y’all know, it takes time as well.

I hope this is the place to let it all out, don’t flame me guys this is not a sob story and I don’t want no pity. Just thought it’s a good outlet cos we all need one occasionally.
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Old 28-06-2020, 11:09 PM
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It's pretty alright, bro. Sometimes handling a simple engineering task is okay. But eventually have to grow up to handle a project. All these very small details cannot be explained properly until have completed a project. However, must first have a project plan. Unfortunately, in the midst of trying to figure out the many details, there is too many stumbling obstacles ahead and these will break oneself down.

Not everyone is born to be successful. No matter what the successes or failures, the process of doing is what makes life interesting.

I got my pes E, the lowest of the lowest in the army, defeated all the army directives, pes C lieutanant and whatever sickening lan jiao wei and burden talkings. I have been blacklisted by LadyRain and she can talk sobbing stories whatever she wants just bec she is a lady and guys hearts will soften when replying to her. I also have been blacklisted and received nasty remarks by several other guys right to the very core. My reputation is no better than you. Despite these negativities i have received, i have other life challenges ahead of me which i have to learn to overcome.
Respect bro.

But I think my life of late quite toxic. Negativity everywhere. Work, friends, family. Jialat. Honestly got no one to turn to, seems like I’m truly alone.

Talking to you guys and being part of the community is, how can I say it, like me being in therapy. Some hard truths put out there by bros I can and will have to accept. Grateful to hear it, nonetheless.

Maybe I just gotta take a break from online dating and all that. Legit quite sick and tired of the games that girls play.
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Old 28-06-2020, 11:12 PM
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Funny now that I think abt it, I remember in secondary school telling my friends I’m not expecting to live long. I even gave a number that I’ll be dead by 30. Of course back then was just talking nonsense but I remember it clear as day as if it happened yesterday. Maybe just a couple of years more we’ll see what happens.

Disclaimer: I’m not actually suicidal. Just reminiscing.
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Hey TS, if I were to play armchair psychologist for a moment - I’m guessing you really just wanna get into a committed relationship. To say in not so nice a way, maybe can say desperate lah. It’s also probably why you feel awful after chionging FL because after the heat of the moment you realise it’s just a quick patch job on what you feel is missing in your life.

No judgment bro, I’ve been there myself. Especially when you see other people getting attached. You can get dates so I’m sure you’ve got decent prospects. If there’s any advice I’d care to dispense it’s to take it slow lah. I found that the so-called ‘desperation’ is obvious to girls and you even notice it yourself when you end up being the bitch in the relationship.

How I got out of it myself was to kind of think of dating as playing poker. Some people get a good hand in the first round even though they’re a shitty player and walk away with big wins. But for other people, maybe even if they’re skilled and have more potential have to play many hands and fold many times. But end of the day, you’re just waiting for that one good hand. But you’ll never get to that good hand if you walk away and chiong FL for life. Ironically, it was only when I decided to stop trying so hard that I actually found a good GF.

TL;DR, chiong FL if you want, don’t be too needy about finding a GF because girls can smell that and it’s a turn off, just keep trying and you’ll get there eventually. Good luck TS
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Dont listen to people who say its better to be alone. There is a great sense of satisfaction in building a family, playing with your kids and watching them grow up. And of course combining finances with your wife to invest in real estate which you alone may not be able to do.
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Marriage is like taking chinese medicine. It tastes fucking bitter and horrible and you will hate taking it there and then, but the good effects are experienced later
Chionging is like taking candy. Tastes fucking good and makes you want to take again and again, until you are sick of it and then you see the bad effects it has on you
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Old 29-06-2020, 02:04 PM
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Hey TS, if I were to play armchair psychologist for a moment - I’m guessing you really just wanna get into a committed relationship. To say in not so nice a way, maybe can say desperate lah. It’s also probably why you feel awful after chionging FL because after the heat of the moment you realise it’s just a quick patch job on what you feel is missing in your life.

No judgment bro, I’ve been there myself. Especially when you see other people getting attached. You can get dates so I’m sure you’ve got decent prospects. If there’s any advice I’d care to dispense it’s to take it slow lah. I found that the so-called ‘desperation’ is obvious to girls and you even notice it yourself when you end up being the bitch in the relationship.

How I got out of it myself was to kind of think of dating as playing poker. Some people get a good hand in the first round even though they’re a shitty player and walk away with big wins. But for other people, maybe even if they’re skilled and have more potential have to play many hands and fold many times. But end of the day, you’re just waiting for that one good hand. But you’ll never get to that good hand if you walk away and chiong FL for life. Ironically, it was only when I decided to stop trying so hard that I actually found a good GF.

TL;DR, chiong FL if you want, don’t be too needy about finding a GF because girls can smell that and it’s a turn off, just keep trying and you’ll get there eventually. Good luck TS

Absolutely spot on bro, an external point of view is exactly what I needed. I’m somewhat desperate which is true but I try not to show it during online dating but perhaps how girls view me may be a completely different picture as to how I view myself (basically girls may see me as desperate and needy when I think I’m not, so yeah perhaps time to stop trying so hard)

I think what frustrates me is how small my social circle really is. I can’t seem to think of any way to expand my social circle to include more girls in, I’m doing my best like joining gyms and trying out activities but I think it will take some time.

This means that I’m left with online dating which honestly I’m quite sick of already. So much so that I actually deactivated all of my accounts with various sites last night. I think I need a break.

Good to know that what I’m feeling is not unusual or that I’m alone in feeling it.
Thks bro
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