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Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
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Originally Posted by Wins88
I just want to share with bros here my last 5 to 6 months of a sexless marriage.
My wife and I had a wonderful sex life, and i have never cheated on her as we both have awesome sex ... until 6 months ago. She started to have really bad backaches (to the point she cries in pain) and upon further investigations by Dr's and specialists - they confirmed that she suffers from Endometriosis. Gynae prescribed a hormonal drug called Visanne and yes - it helped her get better and the backaches disappeared. However - this drug also lowers her libido to ZERO. I really regret that we did not take the laproscopic surgery route. The backaches have since returned and she also wants to have the surgery done.
Just want to share with bros here that if ur wife suffers from this - DO NOT TAKE the damn drug cos it will crash your married sex life. Many Gynaes can perform robotic surgery on this condition.
As for me, I am hoping that I can tahan and not go seek a ML or FL.
I had endometriosis, but my periods are extremely painful instead of causing me back pain. After a laparoscopy, it came back. Visane has saved my life. Oddly, I still have strong sex cravings, but my husband isn't able to fulfill them like he used to. Your wife must be suffering
Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
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Originally Posted by Footman
Then how do you curb your sex cravings? Put all your focus on career, kids and own health
Just curious...
Yes. I suppose there's more to our lives than just sex. It is more about being mentally and physically fit. Swim, practice yoga, and hit the gym to tone your physique. One benefit of Visane is that it is difficult to become pregnant, so you might not even need to purchase contraceptives.
I had to be more initiative right now since Visane gets me horny. However, I must do it subtly, and it will be annoying if you are left drying.
Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wins88
I just want to share with bros here my last 5 to 6 months of a sexless marriage.
My wife and I had a wonderful sex life, and i have never cheated on her as we both have awesome sex ... until 6 months ago. She started to have really bad backaches (to the point she cries in pain) and upon further investigations by Dr's and specialists - they confirmed that she suffers from Endometriosis. Gynae prescribed a hormonal drug called Visanne and yes - it helped her get better and the backaches disappeared. However - this drug also lowers her libido to ZERO. I really regret that we did not take the laproscopic surgery route. The backaches have since returned and she also wants to have the surgery done.
Just want to share with bros here that if ur wife suffers from this - DO NOT TAKE the damn drug cos it will crash your married sex life. Many Gynaes can perform robotic surgery on this condition.
As for me, I am hoping that I can tahan and not go seek a ML or FL.
Oh boy - Let me depress you properly.
Disclaimer, before I start. I was already having a sexless marriage for 5-6 years before my wife got endometriosis in 2012.
Did the robotic laparoscopy surgery. After the she developed low grade undiagnosed fever. Started getting drip in throat. All tests revealed nothing. Then found out through trial and error and from Kaki's potential gluten allergy.
I am not saying that the surgery led to the low grade fever though my wife maintains that. But either which way my sexless sex life got even more sexless. She would say all sorts of things from pain during sex, to soreness to god knows what. Did all he counselling (including currently sex counselling) to no avail.
What's the point of the above. Just to let you know that life can fuck you up. If you have regular good sex with your wife please enjoy. This bro envies you. You never know when it will change.
What I need is FWB.
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Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
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Originally Posted by Dignified69
Oh boy - Let me depress you properly.
Disclaimer, before I start. I was already having a sexless marriage for 5-6 years before my wife got endometriosis in 2012.
Did the robotic laparoscopy surgery. After the she developed low grade undiagnosed fever. Started getting drip in throat. All tests revealed nothing. Then found out through trial and error and from Kaki's potential gluten allergy.
I am not saying that the surgery led to the low grade fever though my wife maintains that. But either which way my sexless sex life got even more sexless. She would say all sorts of things from pain during sex, to soreness to god knows what. Did all he counselling (including currently sex counselling) to no avail.
What's the point of the above. Just to let you know that life can fuck you up. If you have regular good sex with your wife please enjoy. This bro envies you. You never know when it will change.
What I need is FWB.
OMG, I am so sorry to hear this. My wife underwent the operation and for us, everything is back to normal. Sex life resumes.
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Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
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Originally Posted by Wins88
OMG, I am so sorry to hear this. My wife underwent the operation and for us, everything is back to normal. Sex life resumes.
My friend, please enjoy your married sex life to the max. May you always find new ways of keeping sex exciting in marriage. May your wife be your partner in love and lust.
This SBF unites all us bro's though of different race, religion, creed through the clarion call of the KKJ. Maybe on national day there should be a float representing SBF and how its efforts have contributed to nation building.
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I am grateful to Molly (2022: youthful frenching & squirting) XN (1669-2019: So Much) Yuan Yuan (1649-2018: Crystalizing the Turnaround), Ke Ke (2062-2017, :Our Heart-Touching Frenching), Mina (1805-2016:Our Relationship), Ke Ke (1651-2014: Your Golden Pedicure), and every1 else
Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
Please add me.
WeChat id housin76
My wife has fibromyalgia and depression and she has been on antidepressants for a few years
She has no libido at all and we have sex once a month or less when she is relatively pain free..
She has sometimes joked that may be I should go to geylang , but she is not aware of my chionging and will definitely be hurt if I get caught
So I keep it discrete
Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dignified69
Oh boy - Let me depress you properly.
Disclaimer, before I start. I was already having a sexless marriage for 5-6 years before my wife got endometriosis in 2012.
Did the robotic laparoscopy surgery. After the she developed low grade undiagnosed fever. Started getting drip in throat. All tests revealed nothing. Then found out through trial and error and from Kaki's potential gluten allergy.
I am not saying that the surgery led to the low grade fever though my wife maintains that. But either which way my sexless sex life got even more sexless. She would say all sorts of things from pain during sex, to soreness to god knows what. Did all he counselling (including currently sex counselling) to no avail.
What's the point of the above. Just to let you know that life can fuck you up. If you have regular good sex with your wife please enjoy. This bro envies you. You never know when it will change.
What I need is FWB.
Feel you bro. Same situation. Fwb is the way to go, remember no attachments