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Old 17-01-2022, 06:02 PM
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At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

Just curious at what age do men start to experience a drop in sex drive and what are the challenges u faced:

1) Difficulty achieving an errection
2) Can erect but difficult to maintain hardness
3) Cum too early

And what remedies do u take?
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Old 17-01-2022, 06:04 PM
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

For me once I reach 40 noticed a significant drop in horniness ... in the past can fark or pcc almost everyday

Subsequently the urge seems to reduce... maybe 2-3 days once then will have the urge

Past 40 yo, now only have the urge like once a week

But no issue with erection or maintaining hardness cos once a week will be damm horny aldy
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Old 18-01-2022, 07:26 AM
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Just curious at what age do men start to experience a drop in sex drive and what are the challenges u faced:

1) Difficulty achieving an errection
2) Can erect but difficult to maintain hardness
3) Cum too early

And what remedies do u take?
1) NP
2) Sometimes
3) Without CD, with CD still ok

Suggestions (For most healthy mid age men with no major medical issues)

1) Quit or smoke less (like half yr daily intake)
2) Exercise (Free weights)
3) Sleep on a regular schedule
4) PCC less
5) If you on anti depressants, you need to come off yr meds 48 hrs b4 sex. Else yr dicky stays limp

Takes about 2-3 months to see the results. Patience is the key. Like previous post, dont think abt sex so often, once past 40.

For me, $ more and more important now. You can thank PAP for raising the cost of living so much that it kills any carnal thoughts left in yr head.
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Old 18-01-2022, 11:07 PM
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

Early 40. Stamina dropping.
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Old 22-01-2022, 10:14 AM
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

Once reached 40s, my hardness is not like before. Erection not issue though.

The urge is still there. Just that not as hard as before. Sometimes it can be frustrating cos you cannot do much if your dick is not hard.

Plus point is no need spend $$$ on girls liao.
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

I was 36 or so when I began to notice the following :-

Erections no longer as firm and when standing it no longer pointed upwards.

It used to be could do it 3-4 times in a single night and then after an orgasm it would be 2-3 days before I could get another erection including those "morning woods" and I sort of accepted it as ageing as well as that is just life.

I was borderline overweight/obese. Drank like a fish, ate like a pig, flew as often as a bird, slept like a dog no thanks to having kids and a PRC ex wife that spoke too loudly and worked like a horse. I had a medical examination at 37, every single thing was borderline high or above limit.

Then came Covid, things changed as it was work from home, no more late nights, early mornings, no more entertaining clients and no real chance to binge and snack on foods.

I did some changes, stopped eating bread, rice and anything with a high sugar content. I stopped eating anything deep fried and mostly followed a low carb diet.

Breakfast Monday, Wednesday & Friday : Smoothie made from avocado, flaxseed, almond milk and blueberries.
Breakfast Tuesday & Thursday : Omelette with spinach, mushrooms, tomato and cheese.

Lunch : Salad with 1 portion of meat.

Dinner : 1 portion meat, steamed broccoli and steamed sweet potatoes or some type of homemade pasta.

My condo is on the 8th floor, I took the stairs everyday as could not bear to touch the buttons or even be in the elevator as my condo is full of American tenants that have scant regards to social distancing or wearing their mask properly and the worst offenders were the little brats about. I also wore ankle weights after 2 months.

After that I also began doing some kettlebell exercises, squats and burpees were the mainstays.

Lost 36kg and went from pants size 44 to 38.

I went for a medical a few weeks ago, everything normal and within acceptable range.

Now erections are as hard as it was in my 20s, can get an erection within 2-4 hours after an orgasm.

I have not let up on my diet or exercise.
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

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Lost 36kg and went from pants size 44 to 38.

I went for a medical a few weeks ago, everything normal and within acceptable range.

Now erections are as hard as it was in my 20s, can get an erection within 2-4 hours after an orgasm.

I have not let up on my diet or exercise.
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will try some of it. thanks!
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Just curious at what age do men start to experience a drop in sex drive and what are the challenges u faced:

1) Difficulty achieving an errection
2) Can erect but difficult to maintain hardness
3) Cum too early

And what remedies do u take?
Since u write in proper format, i answer some of your question.

Having sex with very pretty girls is great. However, they can demand unreasonable request which is unrealistic. And also need to be interesting person.

For me, if i need to understand beyond the database, do u think i have the energy and time to be an interesting person? And do u think i have the energy to be a highly versatile character to suit different girls(very pretty) need?

This very pretty girls cycle will never end and it's vicious. Just be yourself and dun have very dirty thoughts. It really affects your concentration of learning and work. Really felt too troublesome talking to very chio girls, need to realign your mindset with them and it's not natural. You might lose everything, jobs, money and chio girls.

I tried to whatsapp a matured and quite pretty woman about personal life. Not about dirty things. Of course, she have her reservations about dirty things. However i need to respect her and dun talk about it. Personal i hope to talk to her about personal life bec it connects me to her. About how she connects to me, i do not know. Eventually and very sadly, i need to respect her and wish her all the best bec i dun think i can meet her again in the long run.

In conclusion, erection will decline if u have a job with many challenges and distractions.
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

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Just curious at what age do men start to experience a drop in sex drive and what are the challenges u faced:

1) Difficulty achieving an erection
2) Can erect but difficult to maintain hardness
3) Cum too early

And what remedies do u take?
Context: I am 59 now.

1) I started having problem with maintaining full erection after 50. I was still doing ok before that and sex was great, especially with someone I have a connection with. At 40s, I still can have sex 4-5 times a week.

2) After 50, I suffered a bout of erectile problem. I think prob because I wasn't having sex and ended up wanking off to porn.

3) Also in the 50s.. There were times when I went for commercial release and literally done after 5 thrusts. I dunno why is that. Probably also can be attributed to the constant porn releases. It that lasted for a few years. One good thing came out of that, I stopped going to commercial release. I mean, think of it, 5 thrusts for $150. That's $30 per thrust.

few years ago I had chance to get regular sex. So I looked for medical assistance. Lo and behold, I was able to get a full erection (need to time carefully for peak performance) and miraculously, the premature problem also disappeared. My partner even commented that she was surprise I could last so long.

Since I am getting regular sex now, I cut down on porn. I found that I could sustain my erection without medical assistance, even if it wasn't as hard, but it was enough to get the job done.

I still rely on medical assistance nowadays, if I can anticipate action. Why? because it gives me a fuller erection so to better satisfy my partner. But if I cannot time it, I still can perform as is.

So I guess my takeaway is less (or better still, no) porn. There is medical research that shows porn will cause ED. It has to do with the brain. Good news is, it could be reversed simply by stopping or cutting down on porn. For older guy like me, the reversal seems to be faster (took me 1 more of cold turkey to work). For guy who started watching porn regularly at a young age, it may take as long as 3-4 months. You can look this up. There are some pretty good discussion on TED talks.
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

I guess it depend on our lifestyle and most important is exercise regularly
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

Same with most bros here. Ard 40ish. But taking cialis really helps. Buikd back my confidence and nice feel waking up with a solid hard morning wood
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Re: At what age did u experience a drop in sex drive/maintaining hardness?

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Just curious at what age do men start to experience a drop in sex drive and what are the challenges u faced:

1) Difficulty achieving an errection
2) Can erect but difficult to maintain hardness
3) Cum too early

And what remedies do u take?
Currently no difficulties but face a drop in sex drive. Less urge.

Remedies, overall health important and good rest/enough sleep helps alot. Do not need to become a health freak though. Just maintain balance.
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