Understanding Woman........

[LiquidSnake]

Maybe i am not a good in xianing gals but i hope someone here got some advice for me, have anyone try to xian a gal that you like and she told u that she enjoyed bein single and have no intention of getting a bf at the moment or she said she have no courage to get into another relationship or dont trust relationship anymore after getting hurt so many times (no matter how many encouragement u gave to her, she still dare not make the 1st step), so anyone got any solution to the above?

[roti prata]

Could that be an indirect way of her telling you that she's not interested in you?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by LiquidSnake

she told u that she enjoyed bein single and have no intention of getting a bf at the moment or she said she have no courage to get into another relationship or dont trust relationship anymore after getting hurt so many times ?

i've heard this bit before bro, i think she's trying to imply she's a very good girl, so if she allows you entry easily, dont say she's a loose girl.

[ballzballz]

Bro, you probably have to gauge whether you really do love her or just wanna get into her pants. If you bonked her and yet she dun wan to be with you, probably she likes you but she really afraid of commitment. I had the same situation a couple of times. I always ended up fed up with the ger before losing my patience and fucking her up real good. (scold) at you can guess it, it ended up really bad. But now I realised one thing from my very very close ger fren (dun ask how close, just take it as very close).

For the time, be it days, weeks, months, that you are waiting for the ger's answer, you are only giving up so little time compared to the whole lifetime that she is giving you when she commits to you. For that, you oughta be patient.

P.S. who says while waiting you can't have fun....

[LiquidSnake]

well it is not bonked her loh, it is normal xianing to be my gf loh, the moment u asked them can be yr gf, they will give the above excuse, i dont really know how to counter liao.......

[tomyz]

Bro Liquidsnake,

My own limited experience tells me that you like her more than she likes you and therefore she's trying to tell you in a nice way that she's not interested. I suggest you back off for now and go find some other squeeze for the time being. Maybe in time to come she may change her mind. If she doesn't, then there's lots of other fish out there in the big wide pond... All the best bro...

[arrdwolf_77]

Originally Posted by tomyz

Bro Liquidsnake,

My own limited experience tells me that you like her more than she likes you and therefore she's trying to tell you in a nice way that she's not interested. I suggest you back off for now and go find some other squeeze for the time being. Maybe in time to come she may change her mind. If she doesn't, then there's lots of other fish out there in the big wide pond... All the best bro...

i have the same feeling. Truth hurts but u minimize it by putting in a nice way.

[LiquidSnake]

it is not about liking me or not too, her actions also show that she indeed want to stay single and not attach loh.......sighz...