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Old 15-08-2022, 10:43 AM
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Does your wife still have interests in sex?

Fellow samsters, what do u do if your wife is no long interested in sex? Do u beg, outsource or live your life with it?

Sharing abit if our sex life. Before marriage, sex was as frequent as daily 1 to 2 shot inclusive of role play, bondages, toys, video taking and watching porn together etc. After marriage become like 1 shot every alternate day. 8 yrs after marriage with kid is like 2-3 times for whole of 2022. Every sessions like she was being raped. Although every sessions were still good and can see that she enjoyed it as well but dislike having to beg for sex yet gt rejected every now and then. I still love my wife and has been outsourcing for past few years. Doesn't like this feeling but i am a healthy male and has my urge.

Any samsters here experiencing the same?
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Old 15-08-2022, 11:46 AM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

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Fellow samsters, what do u do if your wife is no long interested in sex? Do u beg, outsource or live your life with it?

Sharing abit if our sex life. Before marriage, sex was as frequent as daily 1 to 2 shot inclusive of role play, bondages, toys, video taking and watching porn together etc. After marriage become like 1 shot every alternate day. 8 yrs after marriage with kid is like 2-3 times for whole of 2022. Every sessions like she was being raped. Although every sessions were still good and can see that she enjoyed it as well but dislike having to beg for sex yet gt rejected every now and then. I still love my wife and has been outsourcing for past few years. Doesn't like this feeling but i am a healthy male and has my urge.

Any samsters here experiencing the same?
You figured out why the whole thing has gone downhill bro?
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Old 15-08-2022, 12:25 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

i think the way women get sensual urges is different from men. We men get it 24-7 without needing any external stimuli. For my wife, if i buy her nice gifts or do nice things to her then she will be more inclined to have sex. Otherwise if i ask her for sex straight up she will have 1000 reasons not to have sex.
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Old 15-08-2022, 12:27 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

Is she working full-time?
Sometimes I think its due to work, ladies need to unload their emotions/ feelings from the day's work. And its quite sensitive affair also - as a guy myself, we may get irritated by all that emotional diarrhoea but need to be composed, sympathise and not mans-plain things to her.

Once that load is off her mind, I suppose it won't feel like raping a zombie anymore. But probably still need you to turn on 'manually'. Haha.
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Old 15-08-2022, 12:32 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

nice sharing
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Old 15-08-2022, 02:38 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

Tried having a good discussion with her? We are married for 20y and still having sex avg 4x a week. Really all abt communicating your needs and desire.
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

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Tried having a good discussion with her? Really all abt communicating your needs and desire.
TS, do you complain about her being fat or not as tight after childbirth? I think ladies are more conscious of the deterioration of their figure after childbirth. If they feel self-conscious, maybe desire for sex will drop. Afterall they are naked during sex.

Be careful about how you communicate with her. You don't want to come across as she didn't do her duty as a wife or she owe you many rounds of sex. It's still her body. Worse if you show more interest in her body than in her as a person.
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Old 15-08-2022, 03:16 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

I would say i was quite lucky... even after 17yrs of married with 2 kids.. me n my wife still enjoy having sex as much as we can.. maybe not like when we r young almost everyday sex but at least 2 times a wk.. sometime 3 times..
Sex is part of love life.. if love without sex or sex without love.. it jus worth last long..
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Old 15-08-2022, 04:39 PM
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Yes! Before having our first born, we had sex 3-4 times a week. A year after we still have much as frequent and wife got more horny and sometimes couldn’t get enough.
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i think the way women get sensual urges is different from men. We men get it 24-7 without needing any external stimuli. For my wife, if i buy her nice gifts or do nice things to her then she will be more inclined to have sex. Otherwise if i ask her for sex straight up she will have 1000 reasons not to have sex.
Their 101 reasons sound so valid everytime. Looks like i am not alone.
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Old 15-08-2022, 05:03 PM
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TS, do you complain about her being fat or not as tight after childbirth? I think ladies are more conscious of the deterioration of their figure after childbirth. If they feel self-conscious, maybe desire for sex will drop. Afterall they are naked during sex.

Be careful about how you communicate with her. You don't want to come across as she didn't do her duty as a wife or she owe you many rounds of sex. It's still her body. Worse if you show more interest in her body than in her as a person.
I did not complain abt her figure infact she does maintain her figure and is as hot as those in their 20s. The only reason i can think of is that she is tired taking care of the kids. Did discuss with her abt how impt sex is in a r/s and she agrees as well but it just that no sex mean no sex. I am not desperate to the extend that i need sex so badly but somehow outsourcing it weekly burns holes in wallet as well as guilty in a way.
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Old 15-08-2022, 05:33 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

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I did not complain abt her figure infact she does maintain her figure and is as hot as those in their 20s. The only reason i can think of is that she is tired taking care of the kids. Did discuss with her abt how impt sex is in a r/s and she agrees as well but it just that no sex mean no sex. I am not desperate to the extend that i need sex so badly but somehow outsourcing it weekly burns holes in wallet as well as guilty in a way.
the guilt in me when i enter someone else instead of my wife eats me up all the time. sex with wife is still good just that it has gone down to maybe 1-2 times a month nowdays if i am lucky. Reason is because of kids. Looking after the kids taking a toll on her and she is tired by night time and when i help out the night shift, both becomes tired.

I feel you and understand your situation. hope it improves soon. maybe a date with her once in a while might help. Good luck bro
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Old 15-08-2022, 05:45 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

I would try to figure out what is the problem first, maybe she tired from work or sick. I suggest that you pamper her once in a while. If you have kids, get a babysitter or relative to help.

Maybe you haven't been making her feel special in a very long time? Hard to say women are complicated beings.
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Old 15-08-2022, 05:45 PM
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Re: Does your wife still have interests in sex?

outsource is the answer... lol
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