Is she Cheating? Please Read

[Ahtip]

Hi TS,

I understand your situation. Now you are full of doubts, you are worry constantly.

I just been through the same few months back.

1.My Gf and I dated for 7 years. Planning for wedding stage.
2.My business just started, so not doing well yet.
3.After I came back from a 3 week business trip. I noticed she has a slight change. Eg, set up pin for the phone, look at her phone in the angle that I will not be able to see, avoid sex, choose to spend time with her friends than me. Lots of new patents. in Hokkien, Patent Liao Liao.
4.A few days later I caught her deleting msg with this guy. Confronted her, she admit the deletion, but say it is nothing in the text trail, just some msg that I will not be happy if I see it.
5.We have some time off from each other. After which we decided to give this relationship another try.
6.One month back, in one incidence. I noticed she changed the phone ID of the same guy to the name of her closed girl friend. I confronted her again, and point out the phone number is belong to the guy. She admitted she changed it.

Though, I have not find any "hard" evidence on her betrayal. But to me emotionally betrayal are just as bad. I ask her to fuck off. Well, I still love her but it is just too much torture to have to worry whether your gf is cheating behind your back constantly. And it is too stressful for me, as I have to worry about my business at the same time.

One month from now, I am doing better, I am able to live positively and focus fully on my business. Sometime I will feel sad, miserable, and ask myself "why am so unlucky to know her". Overall feeling is much better than having a bad relationship, where you need to constantly worry your spouse cheating behaviors.

Move on and be brave ! there are many better girls around.

[Dhornyboy]

TS

Your GF goes Msia with another guy..

What do you think?

The msg sibei aimei... knn .. if I were you I would have asked her to fuck off.

CB nowadays very easy to find. Everywhere also ...

[OweMeMoney]

I think the msian guy havent up her lei. You see the messages. TS gf looks like the one who is 'chasing' after him lei...