Rare and only a handful, mostly not SYTs. The more mature ones, they are experienced players who 看开 a lot. I evr walk together with a regular ML, to nearby chinese restaurants for a good dinner, on couple of days she is free. Just for a chat and dinner, homerun achieved way before that. A few years back.
90% is chicken trap, applies locally or outside. So if really buying a meal, do it with a mentality with no returns.
Only ever had meals with a non AP ML years back, coz she not popular and tends to have freetime lol. Will buy food up to eat together during lunch time, no need to pay any hourly rate, will just eat and chillax and chat till I need to go back office. It was quite a weird experience imo, as in sometimes during sessions can talk very freely but times like this me and her kinda realise both not prepared to really open up and share details of our personal lives. And after a couple of meals meet ups, i had this why the F am I even doing this thought. Coz I have no intention to further my relationship with her, really no point to do all these. Stopped, just carried on RTM her till she RTC. Never did anything similar again.
Actually some men are not looking for physical release but intimacy / shiokness of having a good looking escort to bring out. Or just the feeling of a relationship.
but after having experience for sometime i've learn to just have fun, pay the amount and go off
These ladies anytime, even the non-AP earns more than you and me anytime. I think as long you're not a international MNC or SMC boss she anytime also earn more than you daily / monthly / annually. but if you don't mind paying money / giving expensive gifts that in turn got sold / given to her other favorites why not? After all no one force you to. But the fact also some men are really rich and don't mind so. Being rich but lacks intimacy. Life is never fair isn't it.
When i was new i will still give tips, out of courtesy or wanting to seem generous ... now i don't even do so unless they genuinely provided good service that deserved it.
There's usually not much to say la. Any basic topic of conversation would have been exhausted in that one hour of service.
The ML and you are usually in different fields and likely have different interests. Furthermore you have to be discreet about yourself.
So I'd prefer to spend time with a female friend whom I can talk to, who has common interests, and most importantly, is interested in me (as a person).
There's usually not much to say la. Any basic topic of conversation would have been exhausted in that one hour of service.
The ML and you are usually in different fields and likely have different interests. Furthermore you have to be discreet about yourself.
So I'd prefer to spend time with a female friend whom I can talk to, who has common interests, and most importantly, is interested in me (as a person).
before Covid topics were weather, China, Singapore or basics like where she comes from and age (don't expect truths anyway)
After Covid it's Covid hahaha... i think most MLs knows enough to not probe anything about your work.
There's usually not much to say la. Any basic topic of conversation would have been exhausted in that one hour of service.
The ML and you are usually in different fields and likely have different interests. Furthermore you have to be discreet about yourself.
So I'd prefer to spend time with a female friend whom I can talk to, who has common interests, and most importantly, is interested in me (as a person).
Think you didn't visit China often last time?
Going there, whether for work or play, can open up many avenues for conversation.