Relationship with an Ex Freelance

[Huer]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

I asked her about its. But its just word and not actual experience. She said it i really no more money she dun mind go back to massage to work and earn money for us. But if always like that. She cannot do it also.

She cannot keep feeding a man who does not work for himself.

You are dodging the question.

Its simple, one day she needs money and you cannot provide.
You are prepared for her to do her fl thing again ?

Make it easy for yourself, your family and your future.

Look at her as companionship, not the future.

[sardinebpla]

Do include all the hot and interesting parts of all the bros here.... heeee

Thank you!

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by Huer

You are dodging the question.

Its simple, one day she needs money and you cannot provide.
You are prepared for her to do her fl thing again ?

Make it easy for yourself, your family and your future.

Look at her as companionship, not the future.

Yes she said, if i have no money she will leave me. Reason is simple.

Why would a young thai girl stay with a much older man. For financial stability and support. If i cannot support her whats the point? We cannot survive on love alone. Need to be practical.

[fwchong]

walao bro...this gal is more upfront about her relationship with you than many others. This is a RED FLAG liao...

She is telling you that you are just a TOOL...it is very simple...you are being hooked by her KC and just falling into the trap...once the purpose of the tool is used up, it will be thrown away...wake up bro before you lose your money and your family.

For other men who are not so lucky, they found out only after they lost their CPF or money and some up to 6 digits sum.

We have seen it with our real eyes and are not fake stories...

I dont know how much you have invested so far...but you can cut your losses save money for another day...

Dont forget, the older you get, the harder is it to keep your job or even to find another one.

When you are old next year, she will find that you are no longer attractive. There will be another young and handsome man who will be lured by her tactic and provide her more money, a car and a better future...

It is harder to cut your losses if you keep on wanting to keep the relationship because your mind will tell you that it is ok, you invested in her, she is doing well, I am providing for her and she loves me...

WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE...IT IS NOT REAL...you will experience the same hurt as many people who have been in that path...

The only way is to eat the bitter pill, cut it off and move...

You will grow stronger...

Hope this is a good advice from a bro who been that road before...

Thai girls are very good in KC man...it is in their blood and once they know you fall for their trap, they will keep you in that fishbowl until your purpose is used up and then you are DUMP...


If you want to do a test, tell her you want a baby with her. If she give excuses, you know that she is not ready to settle down.

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Yes she said, if i have no money she will leave me. Reason is simple.

Why would a young thai girl stay with a much older man. For financial stability and support. If i cannot support her whats the point? We cannot survive on love alone. Need to be practical.

[titan]

Originally Posted by fwchong

walao bro...this gal is more upfront about her relationship with you than many others. This is a RED FLAG liao...

She is telling you that you are just a too...it is very simple...you are being hooked by her KC and just falling into the trap...once the purpose of th tool is used up, it will be thrown away...wake up bro before you lose your money and your family.

For other men who are not so lucky, they found out only after they lost their CPF or money and some up to 6 digits sum.

We have seen it with our real eyes and are not fake stories...

I dont know how much you have invested so far...but you can cut your losses save money for another day...

Dont forget, the older you get, the harder is it to keep your job or even to find another one.

When you are old nex year, she will find that you are no longer attractive. There will be another young and handsome man who will be lured by her tactic and provide her more money, a car and a better future...

It is harder to cut your losses if you keep on wanting to keep the relationship because your mind will tell you that it is ok, you invested in her, she is doing well, I am providing for her and she loves me...

WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE...IT IS NOT REAL...you will experience the same hurt as many people who have been in that path...

The only way is to eat the bitter pill, cut it off and move...

You will grow stronger...

Hope this is a good advice from a bro who been that road before...

Thai girls are very good in KC man...it is in their blood and once they know you fall for their trap, they will keep you in that fishbowl until your purpose is used up and then you are DUMP...


If you want to do a test, tell her you want a baby with her. If she give excuses, you know that she is not ready to settle down.

I believe many have been said but if TS is too deep into the KC trap, it's gonna be tough. up ur points +23

[nfty2000]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Yes she said, if i have no money she will leave me. Reason is simple.

Why would a young thai girl stay with a much older man. For financial stability and support. If i cannot support her whats the point? We cannot survive on love alone. Need to be practical.

Very honest world we are living in

[fwchong]

I didnt read all the comments and just pick up the cue at the last paragraph and was shocked that this bro already known his fate but yet still play with it...

sigh...another bro going to lose all his money and the pain he is causing to himself and his family...

Up pts back to u...

Originally Posted by titan

I believe many have been said but if TS is too deep into the KC trap, it's gonna be tough. up ur points +23

[Bradly]

Originally TS was doing alright with looking for paid sex.
Just return to fuck and forget.

Also, somewhat reminds me of the school vp and mother of student affair, where the vp just go all out of sorts.

[BillyBonke]

Hi,
I saw a lot of your agree that i am being KC and now is kinda out of my mind to be with her.

Well everyone from my family who learn about the news also show concern and check if i am under black magic spell.

Well. I am quite sure i am not under any spell. Not sure how to check but she is scared of ghost and casting black magic spell involve keeping ghosts to help with the deed.

Yes one of the reason she is with me is because i supported her living expenses and school. But she is quite down to earth type. She does not spend excessively but she does pamper herself to some nice food once in a while. No designer handbag. The fact that i quit booking freelance supporting her in school does not impact my finance. Also I know some people who bao woman in Thailand give around SGD 2K plus a nice condo to stay. I am only giving a small fraction of it.

After spending time with her, i find her being very attached to me now. She will automatically ask if i free to talk to her and she will be very attentive when talking to me. Even we do not have much topic to talk daily she will kick start with her daily stuff and we would be able to talk for 2 hrs daily.

Amazing. I never once did that with anyone of my ex last time. She also said she never does that also before. He ex always busy with their own stuff. Seldom talk.

Not sure how if we would last. Only time will tell. We plan to travel to other country together but finding excuse to leave the country alone is a difficult task. Any suggestion.

[fwchong]

Hi Bro,

First question to get the elephant out of the room - have your given up on your family and have your family known about your situation and given up on you ?

if yes, that means that they cut you off and you can be single. BUT the price you have to pay would be a lifetime of support payment to your ex-wife and children.

Based on previous experience, the best way to know if you are KC is to go cold turkey for 4 weeks or 6 weeks without talking to her. This will give you space for each other. People who are committed to long term relationship can last. Just give an excuse that you are going for reservist training and could not be contactable. If it KC, it will wear out with time. It is the least expensive and also least painful way in the SHORT TERM. If you cannot go COLD TURKEY without talking to her, you are being KC. This is because you need to feed your ego. You want to feel special. You want her to laugh with you, compliment you, stroke your ego and your pride. That is call KC. Unfortunately, Singapore woman dont compliment the way Thai girls do. That is why Singapore divorce rate is so high.

Secondly, you need to know that the chance of you bringing her to stay in Singapore for the long term is hard as there are a lot of barriers, government red tapes, etc. language etc.So, if you think you are not KC, go and apply all the paper work for her. Show it with money that you can bring her to Singapore. Alternatively, give up your job in Singapore. Move to Thailand. As a test to your relationship, the best option is go to thailand on a 1 year student visa. You have to be under 50 years old to qualify for a student visa.

Once you are in Thailand as a student, you can travel all over Thailand with her. Dont bring her to Vietnam, Phillipines where there are the same type of girls of other nationalities have the highest freelance. She will feel insecure. A thai girl prefer to be in their own soil and control their partner. You will see that Thai girls are very jealous as they have a culture of cheating. Mostly men cheat a lot.

If you got money, bring her to Europe where most thai dream of going to Europe or Western countries. If you got money like 200k, you can buy an appt in Thailand and stay there...

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Hi,
I saw a lot of your agree that i am being KC and now is kinda out of my mind to be with her.

Well everyone from my family who learn about the news also show concern and check if i am under black magic spell.

Well. I am quite sure i am not under any spell. Not sure how to check but she is scared of ghost and casting black magic spell involve keeping ghosts to help with the deed.

Yes one of the reason she is with me is because i supported her living expenses and school. But she is quite down to earth type. She does not spend excessively but she does pamper herself to some nice food once in a while. No designer handbag. The fact that i quit booking freelance supporting her in school does not impact my finance. Also I know some people who bao woman in Thailand give around SGD 2K plus a nice condo to stay. I am only giving a small fraction of it.

After spending time with her, i find her being very attached to me now. She will automatically ask if i free to talk to her and she will be very attentive when talking to me. Even we do not have much topic to talk daily she will kick start with her daily stuff and we would be able to talk for 2 hrs daily.

Amazing. I never once did that with anyone of my ex last time. She also said she never does that also before. He ex always busy with their own stuff. Seldom talk.

Not sure how if we would last. Only time will tell. We plan to travel to other country together but finding excuse to leave the country alone is a difficult task. Any suggestion.

[Crest]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Yes she said, if i have no money she will leave me.

So, what will happen if she meets a younger guy with the same or more money than you ?
Expectations always changes at different stages in life.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Hi,
I saw a lot of your agree that i am being KC and now is kinda out of my mind to be with her.

Well everyone from my family who learn about the news also show concern and check if i am under black magic spell.

Well. I am quite sure i am not under any spell. Not sure how to check but she is scared of ghost and casting black magic spell involve keeping ghosts to help with the deed.

Yes one of the reason she is with me is because i supported her living expenses and school. But she is quite down to earth type. She does not spend excessively but she does pamper herself to some nice food once in a while. No designer handbag. The fact that i quit booking freelance supporting her in school does not impact my finance. Also I know some people who bao woman in Thailand give around SGD 2K plus a nice condo to stay. I am only giving a small fraction of it.

After spending time with her, i find her being very attached to me now. She will automatically ask if i free to talk to her and she will be very attentive when talking to me. Even we do not have much topic to talk daily she will kick start with her daily stuff and we would be able to talk for 2 hrs daily.

Amazing. I never once did that with anyone of my ex last time. She also said she never does that also before. He ex always busy with their own stuff. Seldom talk.

Not sure how if we would last. Only time will tell. We plan to travel to other country together but finding excuse to leave the country alone is a difficult task. Any suggestion.

You think you’re the only one supporting her?
555555

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

You think you’re the only one supporting her?
555555

Yes, for now i am the only one supporting her. She doesn't need much and is planning to work normal part time job for the semester break.

Well after knowing her more and spending more time with her. I find her much more mature than most girls of her age. She is quite down to earth type.

I only wish i can be 20 yrs younger and meet her 2 years ago. She will be perfect.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Yes, for now i am the only one supporting her. She doesn't need much and is planning to work normal part time job for the semester break.

Well after knowing her more and spending more time with her. I find her much more mature than most girls of her age. She is quite down to earth type.

I only wish i can be 20 yrs younger and meet her 2 years ago. She will be perfect.

Remember to look at your reply 6 to 12 months from now.

[bignehneh]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Hi everyone,
Here is a story of how i get into a relationship with an Ex Freelance who and is in a dilemma of what to do.

Brief intro :
I am in my late 40s, Tall, a bit tummy and average looking man. According to the latest CNA survey. I am of median household income because my wife work but she does not contribute to anything at all.

Have been chionging freelance for ~20 years. Initially book only once in a bluemoon. Then become more frequent (like once a week)

My wife is from a foreign country. I know when working oversea. Even after married i still crave for booking for freelance because somehow i still miss the excitement of meeting new pretty young girl and getting laid.

I have 2 kids and both is around teenagers. They are quite independent. Wife is a good mother to the children and take care of the family well. Only problem is her family back home who always need support in term of money to solve their personnel problems.

My wife's family member and in-law most have story of infidelity. Some become forgive and forget and some ended in separation. Well i think my wife is not the forgiving kind.

Can see the maths la

1. If you earn $10k and your mistress just need $1k, then can just play play and not go into the relationship seriously. If only earn $5k, then really need to consider

2. Need to see how much reserve you have. Some ppl got windfall and can finish $200-300k in months. Earning money not easy but spending money everyone also knows. Very important

3. The danger of wanting to bring her to Europe etc all very dangerous. Later go there wants to buy Hermes etc then you die cock stand

Can play but don’t use real emotions else will have big problem