Is she Cheating? Please Read

[mcyeoh]

what to do...ALL NEW GENERATION SINGAPOREAN GIRLS ARE SLUTS AND WHORES..HEE HEE

[MonoTones]

From All these points mentioned, ur GF is bloody cheating you 100%,

MOVE ON. Get a new one and Pump them hard.

[waaaaaa]

he msg suggest it all already. move on before you do smth stupid

[thickhead]

Simple solution, just give her up.

She just want choices and probably feels that you are not the RIGHT one. Her behaviour will not change until she finds someone suitable and you are unlikely to be the one! You will just be the backup. Sad but true.

I have been in this sort of situation before and it really hurts mentally and leads one to question one's self-worth. When I walked away from that degrading relationship, I instantly felt a sense of freedom and relieve and got back my dignity. There will always be more deserving girls out there.

Hope you listen to this old man's advice.

[Soltt]

First , confront your gf , if she wants out then accept it mutually .
( leave some dignity and pride in you , accept the breakup gentlemanly )
Use this negative energy in you to focus onto your work , earn money , career.

Cry it out for the first few weeks , after that , the colors in your life will slowly come back.

Try to go out with friends till late , so by the time u got home , you are tired and won't think so much.

But Before that u must make known to her that u checked her SMS , etc and that you suspect she is cheating on you ,only then she will show her true colors .

And after all this ordeal , I hope you won't be vengeful to your future girlfriends cause not all girls are the same . Who knows you will chase away a very good lady.

Good luck TS.

[loneyheart]

TS u already got t ans ... just wanted us to confirmed it
It hard n painful to all those guessing game
No choice but to face it ..... time will heal .... it just part n parcel of lives

[shawnanderson]

spelled out by all the bros here...

move on...

was shocked at the messages btw her and that guy. clearly, she is interested in him.

whether they have sex doesn matter anymore, she has emotionally betrayed you.

Move on...

[PowerTAN_P_W]

it just shows that the malaysian boy has better 'seh' than you.

serves you right for being betrayed, you should start upgrading your 'seh' to the level of Power Tan for better accomplishments in future.

Rgds,
Ah Wee

[LonerLoner]

Originally Posted by SillyporeBoy

Hey guys, I am really confused right now. Recently, my girlfriend of 3.5 years started changing after she came to know a malaysian guy which she called sissy sam.

1. She jumps to that guy's defence when i said he is a sissy while we are talking (She is the one that told me that guy is a sissy and a gigolo). She also keeps mentioning that guy so often until i am so pissed.

2. She suddenly started wearing heavy make up as well as donning really short skirts. I also caught her washing those really sexy lingerie which she only wore when we have intimate couple moments (told me that it made her very 'high' and make her go into the mood for sex). When confronted, she said that she ran out of underwear to wear. (Thats complete bullshit). She refuse to wear it when we had sex during the past few months even after i told her to. She claims it is uncomfortable!

3. She brought clothes for that malaysian guy as well as me. She told me that the clothes was a gift from her mum (Lying). She even show a great deal of concern about the fit of clothes on the malaysian guy and asked for pics of the malaysian guys wearing them while she did not even asked about mine. ( found out when i snooped through her message). I did not even know that the malaysian guy has it as well!

4. She refuses to have sex as well as rejecting my sexual advance. She had also stopped initiating sex and physical contact. She claimed that she wants to be a good girl and wait till marriage. Seriously?

5. She asked that guy out a couple of times (she did not even asked me out for the past few months. We only go out when i asked to)and that malaysian guy even asked her to go jb with him. This is how the conversation went:

Guy: we go jb do tgt lah (facial or smth)

Her: Need ask my mum first worx

Guy: Lie to your mum and say going with bf (me) lah.

Her: going with new bf lo! haha. .

Guy: I know u kidding la. i know we impossible de

Her: Sometimes impossible de stuffs also can happen de.

What the heck is she trying to pull here??? They also chatted frequently through the night and plan outing tgt while i am sleeping. (Snooped her messages). We have been tgt for 3.5 years alry.. She wont even go to chalet with me but want to go jb with him??

6. My gf started asking me wierd question such as if she could go out with her friends or anything. Why would she even ask that? Trying to make herself feel better for going out with that 'friend' of hers?

7. She demands to know where i am everytime.. When i took a bus to her house, she would keep asking about where i am as well as what time i am reaching.etc. is she trying to hide something?

Please advice...

Thanks alot...

Heartbroken boy...

You are sillyboy, it's so obvious you are the new sissyboy. Hump as much then dump.

Do more than your usual piak piak, go rough and inside back door before breaking up.

Go find out what she is up to.

[SillyporeBoy]

Dear brothers, Thanks for all your replies... Here are some more text between those two... apologies for the poor quality and their shitty language... Have to take these photo while she is bathing... Some are repeats...

https://imgur.com/a/L10Gl

She does not even talk so much to me.. Yet she talk so much to that SOAB... Please feel free to leave comments.

FK all those cheating whore!!!

[killerbees1985]

Originally Posted by SillyporeBoy

Dear brothers, Thanks for all your replies... Here are some more text between those two... apologies for the poor quality and their shitty language... Have to take these photo while she is bathing... Some are repeats...

https://imgur.com/a/L10Gl

She does not even talk so much to me.. Yet she talk so much to that SOAB... Please feel free to leave comments.

FK all those cheating whore!!!

Let it go...........

[yy0202]

Screw her brains out... Had a horrible ex, not cheating, but super emo n tantrum prone type, i even beg to break up... but sex is good, i satisfied all my fetish on her... for your case, screw her till song song, plan a caught-red-handed scenario, or disgrace her at her house with her family n dumped her.... the only regrets with ex is not screwing her enough....

[manure]

bro, fuck her as much as you can now, touch her as much as you can now by hook or crook. take all your pictures while doing it as memories if you want (you get what i mean).

then dump her first. i don't think she is cheating on you yet but her heart isn't with you anymore. good luck.

[vt9279]

bro,
need not be bothered, just move on in life.
One door closed, ome door opem.....👍👍👍

[hayouth]

Time to find a new gf, let's move on.