Sugar baby took money but disappear

[postmortem]

The 59th Rule of Acquisition says that "free advice is seldom cheap", but anyway I've decided to post some thoughts and personal opinions based on my prior relations with my previous SBs.

(i) Always get to know a gal first before committing to monthly payment. An SD/SB relationship is a mutual thing that demands mutual respect.

(ii) Never to bank transfers until you've been with her for a while. And by a while, I mean at least several weeks to a few months.

(iii) Never spend more than what you can afford to lose.

(iv) If you get cheated, write the loss off and move on. Don't harbour ill feelings or negative emotion. Being depressed won't help you get your money back.

(v) Make it clear on the outset what you expect from each other. If she wants you to take her shopping, don't be afraid to place limits and explain how much you're willing to spend on her shopping. This comes back to the "mutual respect" thing. If both of you truly respect each other, she'll understand.

(vi) Many gals want to be SBs because they ran into financial difficulties. You have to prepared that one day they may ask you for help and you have to decide how much you are prepared to help. This comes with the territory.

(vii) If you just want a simple & straightforward sexual transaction, best to stick to FLs/escorts. Having an SB is more like a relationship than just a transaction. Expect and demand mutual respect always.

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Yes bros. Met from sbf, i was in a rush to shanghai but wanted to secure her. Ask her send me off in airport suddenly say she sick. Now in china , she never reply messages already. Her nickname is wonderjes. She posted looking for sugardaddy about 1 month ago. I usually practice cod but this time. Haiz.

next time find those meet up and pay de dun transfer ...

[infinitiumus]

Originally Posted by postmortem

(vi) Many gals want to be SBs because they ran into financial difficulties. You have to prepared that one day they may ask you for help and you have to decide how much you are prepared to help. This comes with the territory.

(vii) If you just want a simple & straightforward sexual transaction, best to stick to FLs/escorts. Having an SB is more like a relationship than just a transaction. Expect and demand mutual respect always.

Good points.

However, not all girls want to be SBs just for the money only. And FL - if becomes too regular, will also move into the territory of 'borrowing money' - the risk you highlighted for the SB.

[jtjr3112]

Guys i check with the bank. The account holder not even Girl name. The guy name is called lee kian long. You better beware i will csi you out and find you

[nexusphone]

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Guys i check with the bank. The account holder not even Girl name. The guy name is called lee kian long. You better beware i will csi you out and find you

The bank will not reveal account holder name without a court order.

Otherwise anyone can claim they were scammed and ask the bank to reveal the personal details of the acc holder.

How on earth did you get the account holder name

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Guys i check with the bank. The account holder not even Girl name. The guy name is called lee kian long. You better beware i will csi you out and find you

you transfer how much money to her ?

[BMW69]

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Guys i check with the bank. The account holder not even Girl name. The guy name is called lee kian long. You better beware i will csi you out and find you

LOL! Maybe he's been using this to cheat others as well.
If you look here, he's male but has a female profile pic.

If you're right, TS, please make a police report ASAP.

[jtjr3112]

Guys transfer 1000. 500 each time, "she" say she kena debt from loanshark.
I remit to her via ocbc bank, cause she say deadline. Anyway the bank revealed to me to check name of beneficiary.

[seabass]

The Liew Lian Huey stuck again.

[nachos84]

Did you get to meet this girl in physical body?

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Guys transfer 1000. 500 each time, "she" say she kena debt from loanshark.
I remit to her via ocbc bank, cause she say deadline. Anyway the bank revealed to me to check name of beneficiary.

aiya next time dun transfer it is very dangerous ask for meet up then pay ok bro ?

[WonderJes]

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Hi dear bros, The sugar babe took my money( i transfer her via bank). Then now she missing from the deal and everything. Never reply my messages and stuff. I suspect she even block me on Whatsapp. What should i do ? Police will help ?

why not paste the whole screenshot here and tell everyone what happen? U said u flying off to shanghai and u want me be ur sb, i said fine prove to me since you always agreed to meet and cant appear, then i told you i need to pay some debts urgently u agreed to help, then what next? You say u finding girlfriend not sb? Lols then endup u say this money is loan? And i need be ur gf? Of cus i play along with you, who ask u to be so cheapo. Finding sb but endup tell sb is finding gf? Now i ignore u , u sore and come to this forum and complain? Haha better tell forum ppl how u keep ask me be ur gf if u loan the money? Anyway u wan dig what report police or what jus go ahead. I will just stick to my story at police station.

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by Sketch

Yup she's a fishy one.. Ask me to pay up front die die on first meeting.. I said no and told her how can I trust her that she will still see me after and told her I'm only agreeable to one payment per meet up until we can trust each other... And reminded her this is not my first SB... Lucky she back away from me when she realize cannot play play.. Like one of the bros said here.. Brain over dick.. There is still plenty of fish in the sea.. Jus need to be patient!!

I think she is back with a different nick - cos there is another girl who have asked for the same deal on the forum... Beware guys.. Brain over dick please!

Are you referring to Sleepyapple AKA Kelly?

[TwentySeven]

What a stupid guy never meet before then transfer. Pls at least have the brain to meetup first then transfer at least. Anyway this sd sb thing also see luck, if u are lucky meet a good sb then heng, if sway meet tio take money and mia de just treat as unlucky only. Like what boss said if u can afford a true sb this sum of money is nth, if u cant then dun find a sb is not a game for poor people.

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by postmortem

The 59th Rule of Acquisition says that "free advice is seldom cheap", but anyway I've decided to post some thoughts and personal opinions based on my prior relations with my previous SBs.

(i) Always get to know a gal first before committing to monthly payment. An SD/SB relationship is a mutual thing that demands mutual respect.

(ii) Never to bank transfers until you've been with her for a while. And by a while, I mean at least several weeks to a few months.

(iii) Never spend more than what you can afford to lose.

(iv) If you get cheated, write the loss off and move on. Don't harbour ill feelings or negative emotion. Being depressed won't help you get your money back.

(v) Make it clear on the outset what you expect from each other. If she wants you to take her shopping, don't be afraid to place limits and explain how much you're willing to spend on her shopping. This comes back to the "mutual respect" thing. If both of you truly respect each other, she'll understand.

(vi) Many gals want to be SBs because they ran into financial difficulties. You have to prepared that one day they may ask you for help and you have to decide how much you are prepared to help. This comes with the territory.

(vii) If you just want a simple & straightforward sexual transaction, best to stick to FLs/escorts. Having an SB is more like a relationship than just a transaction. Expect and demand mutual respect always.

Very well said.. and much appreciated for the free advise bro