Is she Cheating? Please Read

[soggypanties]

In a nutshell, I would only say she already has a change of heart.

To go into details, I think she is managing you to fit into her comfortable zone while balancing 2 men. I don't think at this stage she has gone far with him yet. But for sure she is trying to be fair to both of you that is why no sex, buying gifts for both, etc. (I know it sucks to feel your status in her heart has been compromised) You only have 2 options now

1. Ultimatum: confront and have heart to heart talk. Make or break.
2. Reverse psychology: Bite the bullet and be nonchalant. If she senses it and panic, she'll run back and you'll be in control. If not, then its time to cut your losses.

[NerdyKids]

Mai tu liao. Is time to change new gf liao. Unless u wan to play back her.

[BMW520_M]

Look like u r wearing "green helmet".

[doubletap]

well, there are too many similar replies from brothers in here. TS, gather all our views and muster yr courage to move on. I hope u do not go further to find out more details, only to get more hurt from this relationship.

wake up!

[acidicavex]

Brace up for a storm TS. GL

[AgentSmith]

Bravely Drop this Emotional Baggage & Go.
Don't need to explain to her much.

Just Smile & Go .....

[clapton]

The answer is so obvious, isn't it...

Try to talk to her openly on most of ur queries, even she deny, she will be altered.

And if she continue behave like that, time to break up. No choice.

My feeling is ur gf is already hving sex with that guy (Base on pt 2 & 4 u listed), but not very sure if she will be with him for long. So she try to keep u as a

BACKUP

So.. u ask urself if you can take it, or else, just leave.

[Greendevil]

TS, time to have one last good fuck with her.

[Taisho75]

From the looks of it, she has a liking for the sissy, but not yet a goner. If she goes to jb with him, she's a goner if there is a night out with him. She may says he is a sissy earlier to ease your guard and since u see proofs of her changing hearts, it's time for u to do so. It's not easy as u are hot up now, but confronting is not much of a use.

Do what dmonddd has suggested the next time she asked about ur whereabouts. The moment she ask back for ur whereabouts, ask her to truthfully tell u her whereabouts. If she doesn't, just ask her what does she want.... After that just ignore her and see what her next step. Just be ready for a breakup. I did that to my ex Gf after I seen her dating someone I know at bugis.

Since both of u are not married, she is free to find more guys to date and so can u. Just choose wisely, dun need to be sad over it.

[DemonicSS]

Originally Posted by LonelyMalaysian

Dude..

The same thing happened to me before. Believe your hunches.. I did believed mine, and yes, I was right. What I did wrong? I forgave her. Did she repent? Nope.

Best of all, I didnt screw around the whole time I was with her. Nope, not even paid ones.

Just brace yourself for the truth. It hurts, but its the truth. And don't bother trying to revenge or get back at her by making her jealous, etc. That's just a waste of time. You don't wanna waste your time on someone who is already a bad choice to begin with.

Cheers mate.

I agree with Lonely here, in such case, dun bother with forgiving, there is no repentance, drop her and find someone else. Either way, its going to hurt emotionally, might as well do it at your terms and at least you will get over it faster compared to dragging it no end. Do take care

[RainTree]

TS, this is already a gone case for you,

No point savaging the relationship,all signs are there!Since she behave like bitch towards you for the past few months when you just in dating status,what is going to happen if you guys get marry.

Cut your loses early and start look for other options!

[heye]

bro for your info i also been thru shit like tis in my marriage
it is hard to swallow and it will nv be the same again

u are lucky she is not your wife
for me from gf till wife and now i am goin thru my divorce
i am sick of giving her chances althou now i can feel her changing after i last caught her.

i feel pain when i tink of leaving her and my kids cant hav a complete family
i do love her and same time i hate her
but when i decided to let go i find myself in peace.
i no longer have so much burden so much worries.

[kukugun]

comsperm 200%

[clapton]

Originally Posted by heye

bro for your info i also been thru shit like tis in my marriage
it is hard to swallow and it will nv be the same again

u are lucky she is not your wife
for me from gf till wife and now i am goin thru my divorce
i am sick of giving her chances althou now i can feel her changing after i last caught her.

i feel pain when i tink of leaving her and my kids cant hav a complete family
i do love her and same time i hate her
but when i decided to let go i find myself in peace.
i no longer have so much burden so much worries.

Bro, congrs, I also have similar exp, and for ur kids, all I can say is, it’s not 100% true they will grow better in so call “complete family”.

Move on and I sure u have better life ahead.

[Happyman89]

Move on from it bro, I know how it feels exactly. It might hurt now, but it's better than to be hurt later. 长痛不如短痛.