bad is bad, but dun chop the PRC girls into pieces and throw into the river hor.
HA HA ok la we try not to be too angry....try to tolerate and forgive, will not chop her into pieces, just pack her into a luggage and send her awayto the mighty land where all are smarter than sillyporean.
but if she change for the better, we will graciously forgive and forget and accept her....afterall we are kind and soft-hearted singaporean.
Pls there are bad apples in every country too, ask your friend to be more rational when it comes to choosing his ladies.
I for once is staying in the mighty land of the Chinese for 3 years (soon), I met alot of people that comes and go and I am not surpized to see alot of bad apples.
I seen before beautiful gals trying to ker+++ my friend (HP, house allowances blar...), I have seen true love, I have encountered alot of strange things along the way.
If I have a choice to choose (not based in China for example), I will not try my luck I might not be so lucky all the time. If my gf stop to improve, to learn new lanuages, upgrade her skills, I will definatly leave her.
That is all I can provide, good luck.
hmmm....
im still luckless in relationship !!
sorry for being off topic..
sometimes I doesnt know wherthe Im "good" enough of the gal that i fancy...
I have seen an old uncle marry a wenzhou gal and they are doing fine..
and now its the gal that is running the business.. kinda ironic isnt it ? haha
3years and still counting...
have a great weekend guys.. & dun be too notti !!
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Before - very polite to the mother-in-law, like one good family
after - show her nasty and selfish self
Before - close both eyes when he come home late or spent the whole night out
he thought ho say liao. ....so understanding not like Singapore woman so suspicious when the bf return home late, only to realise too late how controlling she is after the marriage
( control him everything, even $$ and phone calls and wat he buy for his siblings and parents, worst then all his buddy that marry Singapore girl)
he also thought China woman very goody, dun buy banded, no need to eat in big restuarants....ha ha but she buy house in China, and ask for landed and expensive cars and gym and golf membership in Singapore.....more hiong then the poor singapore gals that have to work hard to but their own cars and willing to share the house and househod expense .........
His family used to be very close but now a lot of problem cos the China wife very sensitive and unhappy about the family...and suspicious that people dun like her cos she is a China char bo
(though it's clearly not the case but becos she is lazy and selfish
and princess attitude as she is the only daughter and expect people to do everything for her, and she never help anyone to do things, dun even wash a plate or her own panty and dun dispose her own sanitary pad!!!
and she dun bother to put in effort to build relationship with the family cos she is high IQ and everyone else is not ...she only talk to smart people or people that can teach her something )
Although the family kept their mouth shut so as not to upset him or create unhappiness, his action has drifted so much apart from his own parents and siblings. Break his mother's heart so much.
.....Love is blind....everyone thought they are the smartest...guess no advise can help them, they just have to walk through it themselves to be wiser and not so soft-hearted and blinded.
I do agree that we should not steorotype...but...sign ...see heng or not la), and got pattern to see...jus hope all bros open their eyes wide and listen to other's opinion, and keep a open mind.....dun be over-confident in their judgement...love is blind
High IQ Not= good judgement
Good judgement in business Not= good judgement in love life
LOVE IS BLIND
I wish him luck and that everything turn out well eventually.
tis has nothing to do with which country the gal is from.
it is a common trait among alot of women regardless of nationality.
my fren's uncle married this educated china gal,
... ...
Before - close both eyes when he come home late or spent the whole night out
he thought ho say liao. ....so understanding not like Singapore woman so suspicious when the bf return home late, only to realise too late how controlling she is after the marriage (control him everything, even $$ and phone calls and wat he buy for his siblings and parents, worst then all his buddy that marry Singapore girl)
Hahahahaha ... reminds me of my friend's wife, a Sillyporean.
Its really regardless of Nationality, IMHO its "Gers are after all gers" kinda thing. Of course, we'll noticed that those "stories" that we heard of are nearly all those bad examples, we also have to remember there are other "stories" that have good endings.
be it a China/Vietnam/Indonesian/Myrmmar wife....
The most important factor is still about able to love & live together..
Everyone will always present their best side when they are just dating or going out with you. But people cannot fake 24hrs, thats why they show their true faces...
For examples, guys may not dig their nose or scratch their balls while dating but when living together may just do it freely infront of wifey which might turn her off....
I intend to marry a PRC myself by next year....
initially also think alot on the before/after issues, money cheating, feeding her family thingy. But feels shallow when i think of what she may think of me also... Singapore Males... Cheats easily (STD inclusive), gamble alot.. sometimes beat wife.. and still want to marry me..
Moral of the Story is "Don't think so much"
You only live once, if everything also have second thoughts where is the element of surprise?
My Mother Told me "You can promise a gal to take care of her forever.. but never promise u only love her one & only forever..."
13-05-2006, 09:24 PM
