Relationship with an Ex Freelance

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by znoobshitz

Not sure if it's relevant to TS. But are you able to speak Thai? I find that if you're able to speak and understand, it'll unlock a higher level in your r/s. You also said that she doesn't use her phone for 6-7 hours? She can be your Mia noi, but are you the only guy in her line app?

Susu na!

Yes i am taking thai class. She is truthful to me so far and i trust her. I respect her privacy not to go thru her phone. I know its might be a bit crazy to trust a girl like her but i think she deserve her own space. She will tell me when she is confortable and she knows it will hurt me if i found out later.

For a fact i know she care for my well being and mental state. But if she really love me i do not know. But she is happy with me and i am happy with her.

[owlette]

like many bros said, your gongtao seems quite deep ah. even if you do find out that she is scamming you, you probably tell yourself that at least you enjoyed yourself during that period of time.

regardless the choice is yours to live with. personally i have a hard rule to never get with anyone involved in such trade/similar trades.

you can say that she is frugal but you essentially still supporting her life financially. one day when you grow older and income is questionable, she fund you? theres a reason why keeping of mistresses is a rich man's game.

just to share a similar story for your own processing.

used to visit this angpai fl from dome3. the fuck 10 guys back to back everyday kind of angpai. also agreed to raw with me, occasionally she'd look for me just to go over and fuck her.

later part introduced her to a friend. he would end up fucking her FOC and raw. with her being the one to ask him to come over.

after sometime, she mia-ed. as i had her personal wechat, i saw that she got married.

few months later, she text my friend to go to her house to bonk her because the husband going overseas trip. wedding photo right above the bed as she getting doggied.

theres many stories out there whether ml, fl or whatever. say loyal to you no boyf this and that but using the money you give them to yang their own boyf.

maybe you are the one in a million genuine one? but thats for you to find out

[Huer]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

As we continued exchanging messages and video calls, I learned more about Gin’s past and the reasons she had chosen this line of work. She wasn’t in it for luxury or an easy life—she desperately needed money to cover her living expenses, university tuition fees, and her mother’s medical care. I genuinely felt that Gin was a good person who had been pushed into this trade by financial hardship.

When she next have hardship, and you are unable to help her or she knows you will be unable to help her....you know what she will do right ?

You prepared for that ?

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by Huer

When she next have hardship, and you are unable to help her or she knows you will be unable to help her....you know what she will do right ?

You prepared for that ?

I visited her recently. Well standard of living in thailand is really low. If you are not dining in resturant regularly you can get away with just $1,000 per month

If you want some comfort and extra outing. Maybe $1,500. The trick finding cheap rental from using thai website. For the same property there can be upto 40% cheaper.

With my reserve fund i can last many many years. If i still work in my current job. There is no issue at all. I am looking for a 2nd income source now also.

Me and her is same type. We dun like to go out shopping. But she does like to take a lot of photo when we dine out at nice restaurant. We will do date night once a fortnight.

[limtaisun]

Living in Thailand seems good. Low cost and more fun.

[Passive87]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

I would not call it a free fuck stage. Currently she is back in thailand and attending school again. As of now i am supporting her with very little money i can spare. I ask her what is the status of our relationship and she said she is my mistress and she does not mind.

I have manage to find ways to travel to Thailand to visit her soon for holiday. So ever since i last booked her. I haven't fuck her once without booking.

wow mar acc have prem

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by Passive87

wow mar acc have prem

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[Passive87]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

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55555 nice

[Huer]

Originally Posted by BillyBonke

Well standard of living in thailand is really low. If you are not dining in restaurant regularly you can get away with just $1,000 per month

That does not answer the question does it ?

Originally Posted by Huer

When she next have hardship, and you are unable to help her or she knows you will be unable to help her....you know what she will do right ?

You prepared for that ?

[fwchong]

I was also in a relationship with a Thai before.

It is very very common for woman to go and work as a Freelnace to earn extra pocket money even if they a Boyfriend or a husband. This is a common culture in South East Asia Countries.

If she tells you that she is your mistress, she has already set the rules....

She can

a. date someone without your telling you the truth as you cant control her. Eventually, you have to accept that she can or will marry someone other than you.

b. Since she tell you that she is your mistress, she set the expectation that you must feed and pay for her lifestyle, study etc. You must understand that you are a tool to her of lifesyle. Once the tool lost it purpose or usefulness, you need to accept that it is the end.

c. one day this will end. You cannot control her. You must be willingly to accept that this is not a straightforward relationship.

Many of us have been through this road. We all think we can win BUT this fight is for you to find what is the best. Ultimately, the school of lessons is the BEST to teach you life lessons. For many of us, we all learn. We can advice, we can share but it is not a straightforward textbook experiences as there are too many complicated inputs. You can't control it all.

Ultimately, you walk that road yourself. Whatever that is, we hope that you will be stronger at the end of that road. It is good that you share out your experience, if it helps with you letting out the elephant of the room. Some of my friends goes into drinking and other bad habits because they beat themselves for their mistakes.

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by Huer

That does not answer the question does it ?

I asked her about its. But its just word and not actual experience. She said it i really no more money she dun mind go back to massage to work and earn money for us. But if always like that. She cannot do it also.

She cannot keep feeding a man who does not work for himself.

[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by fwchong

I was also in a relationship with a Thai before.

It is very very common for woman to go and work as a Freelnace to earn extra pocket money even if they a Boyfriend or a husband. This is a common culture in South East Asia Countries.

If she tells you that she is your mistress, she has already set the rules....

She can

a. date someone without your telling you the truth as you cant control her. Eventually, you have to accept that she can or will marry someone other than you.

b. Since she tell you that she is your mistress, she set the expectation that you must feed and pay for her lifestyle, study etc. You must understand that you are a tool to her of lifesyle. Once the tool lost it purpose or usefulness, you need to accept that it is the end.

c. one day this will end. You cannot control her. You must be willingly to accept that this is not a straightforward relationship.

Many of us have been through this road. We all think we can win BUT this fight is for you to find what is the best. Ultimately, the school of lessons is the BEST to teach you life lessons. For many of us, we all learn. We can advice, we can share but it is not a straightforward textbook experiences as there are too many complicated inputs. You can't control it all.

Ultimately, you walk that road yourself. Whatever that is, we hope that you will be stronger at the end of that road. It is good that you share out your experience, if it helps with you letting out the elephant of the room. Some of my friends goes into drinking and other bad habits because they beat themselves for their mistakes.

Good Advise. I do agree and have covered ground on these with her before. I do trust her. Only time will tell.

[loner]

TS,

Pardon my rudeness, put the love aside.

Are you seriously thinking of abandon your family to go over Thailand just for an Ex FL?

If yes, I really applaud your courage. But I also hope your reality will kick in much sooner before you commit yourself.

[bitixiy282]

First and foremost, are you and ex fl at the free fuck stage ?

[cumranger69]

How about your relationship with your teenage kids?

They may not understand or take kindly to your leaving the family for another woman right?