hi....can I ask you something?

[jon2000sg]

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hi....can I ask you something?
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Hi,

I have been viewing your collection and your comments on the threads and wanted to get your views about how you things about certain things I myself am confused about.

I hope none of the question I asked offend you. Please forgive me if they do, I am just seeking clarification for myself.

1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?

2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??

3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?

4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?

I just Love your trademark comment " Bonk! Bonk! Bonk!"

Hope you don't mind answering my questions. I hope I didn't offend you by asking these questions.

Thank You.

Hi ALL BROS,

One bro PM me with the above questions,

I asked him to enquiry about the above in the

open forum but looks like he is shy about it.

So here it is, may someone assist him on the above Qns ?

[pop-step]

Since he pm you why don't you reply him first ?

[Gerald]

Eat, drink and be merry. For tomorrow, we die.

[BiRd13]

Here's my answer... =)

1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?
Ans: You wanna enjoy, you have to take the risk. Possible, try go check up monthly if you were bonking frequently... But of course, if possible, stick to one, or if trying with many, try use protection...

2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??
Ans: Doubt HIV or STD can transfer via saliva. Mostly is through blood or sex. Hence frenching, licking etc is alright even the other party have STD...

3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?
Ans: I guess every bros hope to settle down someday. For some, might be in the 'enjoying' moment in which have freedom etc, hence may not want to settle down

4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?
Ans: Unprotection sex with CW? Hmm.. All I can say is 'Good Luck'. Like I said earlier, want to enjoy, u gotta take the risk. If not, no matter what, try keep some protection with u at all times, in case u need it ^^

[Booker]

Just giving my input for the questions...

1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?
Yes.. the thought of that does come and sometimes the thought of giving up the scene due to the above risks.. But then the temptation is just too great. Again.. as in all things, there will always be risk involved... Even eat beancurd also can choke mah.. So just play and take the necessary protection lor. Not 100% risk free, but can minimise the risk, so why not..

2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??
Frenching will also tio if you have like those small ulcers, cos that is where there is open wound and the risk will be there. As with BBBJ too.. Again part of the risk taken to engage in FL.

3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?
Yes.. for singles, eventually we may want to settle down. Perhaps once we have a gf, our activity may cut down, since now got a specific lady we can get our release from. But then people will always say.. eat same dish everyday also sian.. So its pretty much to individual as well.

4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?
Having unprotected sex... when was that?? Just go for a check to get urself cleared lor.. Again the emphasis is on protection lah... Control the small head is essential.

[BigBadDaddy]

Here is my take.

Qn:
1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?
ANS:
The risks are always there with or without condoms. Stay single, celibate if you are so worried for even if you are to refrain from sex with WLs or ONS, you cannot be certain your gf or wife have not been screwing around be it in the past or even present. With regards to afflictions like AIDS, past promiscuity may catch up with one, affecting not just one but one's partner e.g. gf or wife as well. There is just no way that you can keep track 24/7, 365 days a year on what your partner may be up to. So again, stay celibate if you are that scared.

QN:
2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??
ANS:
There isn't any concrete evidence to suggest that saliva can transmit STDs (AIDS is also a STD) although if I recall correctly, in the aftermath of actor Rock Hudson's death some 2 decades ago, some people alluded to it. However, no single piece of research since has unambiguously identified saliva as an agent of infection.

QN:
3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?
What has whether one is planning to get married or not or is already married got to do with all of these?
ANS:
We do not live in a perfect world. This is in fact an increasingly liberal world when it comes to sexuality and sexual experimentation. Many (men and women alike) who are already married are still screwing around. Also, see my answer to to Qn. 1.

QN:
4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?
ANS:
See answers to Qn. 1,2 &3 above.

Rgds
BBD

[longwinter]

1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?

for me, std l not that scared la..scared is scared not enough $ to cheong...l always believed to play properly and with protection...caps on while l on mission...

2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??

l dun think french kiss will get hiv or std...even if the gal had ulcer or open wounds in her mouth, the chances of getting is still very very less..

3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?

Want to play, dun be scared...scared then dun play...simple..

4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?

Dun raw...think twice..altot we cheongsters bonk alot of girls...but these gals definitely bonk even much much more guys than us...very risky, it is best to avoid raw sex with these girls..

[Parisaba]

Bro, i think if you are fearful, you should stay faithful to your CO... go do a checkup if u ever bonk any others before.

[jon2000sg]

from the above, it can be seen that the answers are similar

hope our Bro who has enquired got the answers