Sex after birth - sexless?

[sandymich]

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

[oldwabbit]

Google for vaginoplasty

[shroom]

Originally Posted by sandymich

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

Breastfeed more and do lots of kegels.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by sandymich

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

Last week you have 2 children in primary school liao. Now another 4 month old ah? Cannot save liao lah. U need a 1.5liter coke bottle to fit your pussy liao.

[Hunkydunky]

Why not try it with another guy to try?

[Nodbody]

My wife lose interest in sex after birth.

[urgg]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Last week you have 2 children in primary school liao. Now another 4 month old ah? Cannot save liao lah. U need a 1.5liter coke bottle to fit your pussy liao.

Epic.. nice one bro

[mikestc]

Originally Posted by sandymich

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

Its normal.. well, try to spike up your sexlife maybe go for a vacation relax when have sex more foreplay etc... hope you enjoy and have a good one...

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by sandymich

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

Your doc did a bad job. my wife was stitched up like a virgin.
even tighter than before. but. Unfortunately... she lost interest in sex.

[blu3fin]

Originally Posted by sandymich

Just trying to get some perspective, It's been 4 months since my baby was born it was a long labour lots of tearing and stitches needed by the doctor as the midwives words were "oh no this is to complex and out of my remit for me" and my partner and I have tried sex twice now and honestly it feels absolutely rubbish!

First time I couldn't feel anything and second time It felt squishy and awful I asked my partner if it felt different and I said I feel the entrance to my vagina feels wider and he agreed. Am I alone in this as I read so many people saying how great sex was after birth and how easy it was to organs I'm here preparing for a sexless relationship

If penetration feels different for you from last time.. ask him to give you oral, surely the clit hasn't changed.

Trust me... most husbands would love their wives to get into oral sex. Nothing more arousing than a woman who likes 69.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Last week you have 2 children in primary school liao. Now another 4 month old ah? Cannot save liao lah. U need a 1.5liter coke bottle to fit your pussy liao.

Agreed.
After 3 kids with a loose pussy.
Your husband will be fucking outside.
Plain and simple.

[fac89]

Cant agree more to this. My wife was hot and hungry all the time. But then after 3 births.. tats it. Maybe 2-3 times a year? Not exaggerating on this. But ut has come to a point that i didnt request for sex since 5-6 mths ago.

Could be tired from taking care of the kids etc. Had bot many adult toys to spice up the bedroom activities but still not interested (Many valid excuses for not wanting to have sex.)

[plok]

I’m lucky that after 2 kids I’m still having sex with my wife weekly.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by plok

I’m lucky that after 2 kids I’m still having sex with my wife weekly.

Congrats bro ! ...many married bros will envy u ....yes, u r 1 of the few lucky husbands around that hv weekly sex with yr wifey even after having 2 kids ...m happy for u n yr achievement in bed with her ...keep it up bro...this shows that even after the wedding n the start of the life-long journey of marriage...she still continuously needs yr sexstification v. much

[bonbong88]

Married with a 1.5 year old, honestly sex has became non existence. Maybe once a month, with some excitement here and there, else is really quite tired and fatigue from taking care of our child lol