Should i feel angry? sad ? lucky or...

hpanky · #1 09-12-2012, 11:21 AM

Hi everyone ,

Meet my foreigner wife ( prc ) at drinking scene few yrs ago ,get married and divorced after 6 yrs, got one children.

We divorced in a simple way ,no contest and she don want a single thing from the marriage , she just move out and i move on my life with my kid in our flat.she already a PR during married time and as i know now she doing very well outside cos we get to see each other sometimes when she visit children,she looks good, much much more pretty than married time taking very good care of her in term of her outlook,like a loaded young lady,and can never tell she is a mother of one, so sometimes i think thats no way she is doing a normal job that can becomes like that in such a short period...

So i got this mixed feelng..sometimes i feel free..lucky..sad..angry..haiz i just don know and want hear some from outside

Spectrre · #2 10-12-2012, 12:43 AM

Very very very lucky.

She didnt ask for a single thing when divorce. U even get to keep the child.

Just treat the marriage as an experience.

Ask yrself, r u 90% happy during the marriage? The sex is good? She a good wife?

If yes, then ok liao,, nothing to be sad or cry about.

Some bro here will surely say she use u to get pr. Dont listen to them. As long as u feel marry to her, yr big head and small head happy, its worth it.

at least u divorve, she ask for nothing in return.

natsuki · #3 10-12-2012, 02:06 AM

Forget about her and moved on....

Since the relationship is over, why should you bother about her...

Your kid need your attention more... ^^

hpanky · #4 10-12-2012, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Spectrre

Very very very lucky.

She didnt ask for a single thing when divorce. U even get to keep the child.

Just treat the marriage as an experience.

Some bro here will surely say she use u to get pr. Dont listen to them. As long as u feel marry to her, yr big head and small head happy, its worth it.

at least u divorve, she ask for nothing in return.

Thanks Bro !

hpanky · #5 10-12-2012, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by natsuki

Forget about her and moved on....

Since the relationship is over, why should you bother about her...

Your kid need your attention more... ^^

Thanks Bro !

see see only · #6 10-12-2012, 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by hpanky

Thanks Bro !

Sound like you are over her ....

Move on TS ... "marrieded" once ? Hot stuff to most girls, even hotter than those "single" singles

hpanky · #7 10-12-2012, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by see see only

"marrieded" once ? Hot stuff to most girls, even hotter than those "single" singles

Really..Thanks bro

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #8 10-12-2012, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by hpanky

Hi everyone ,

Meet my foreigner wife ( prc ) at drinking scene few yrs ago ,get married and divorced after 6 yrs, got one children.

We divorced i............................... so sometimes i think thats no way she is doing a normal job that can becomes like that in such a short period...

So i got this mixed feelng..sometimes i feel free..lucky..sad..angry..haiz i just don know and want hear some from outside

She ain't part of your life, your responsibility, your concern and your problem now. She has no role in your NEW LIFE

Feeling sad and angry does you no good cos you are only hurting YOURSELF. Stand up from where you fall, dust it off and live your life is best. Do not be soft hearted and allow her to come back into your life if she comes back for whatever reasons. Raise your kid well and do not allow him/her to become a soft target chip.

Please read these 3 stories. Hope it helps. Let go, move on and good luck

http://sbfsg.org/showpos...7&postcount=19
http://sbfsg.org/showpos...7&postcount=54
http://sbfsg.org/showpos...0&postcount=56

Big Sexy · #9 10-12-2012, 08:28 AM

you sounds like you are jealous...
she has move on and is obviously doing better without you..
instead of having all these angry/sad feelings for yourself
you should focus on your career..
when u make it big time..
it will be her turn to feel the way you are feeling now..

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Originally Posted by hpanky

So i got this mixed feelng..sometimes i feel free..lucky..sad..angry..haiz i just don know and want hear some from outside

yangguo · #10 10-12-2012, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

you should focus on your career when u make it big time..
it will be her turn to feel the way you are feeling now..

Agreed on the first sentence but not the 2nd sentence.

Being successful in career is a must to every family man in this world.

You can provide a good tertiary education for your child if you are financially independent.

On the other hand, how she feel towards you when you become successful will be irrelevant to you if you found someone else or you have no intention to patch back with her.

hpanky · #11 10-12-2012, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

She ain't part of your life, your responsibility, your concern and your problem now. She has no role in your NEW LIFE

Feeling sad and angry does you no good cos you are only hurting YOURSELF. Stand up from where you fall, dust it off and live your life is best. Do not be soft hearted and allow her to come back into your life if she comes back for whatever reasons. Raise your kid well and do not allow him/her to become a soft target chip.

Please read these 3 stories. Hope it helps. Let go, move on and good luck

http://sbfsg.org/showpos...7&postcount=19
http://sbfsg.org/showpos...7&postcount=54
http://sbfsg.org/showpos...0&postcount=56

This forum is mavellous..Thanks bro

hpanky · #12 10-12-2012, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

you sounds like you are jealous...
she has move on and is obviously doing better without you..
instead of having all these angry/sad feelings for yourself
you should focus on your career..
when u make it big time..
it will be her turn to feel the way you are feeling now..

Hmm...Thanks bro

Big Sexy · #13 10-12-2012, 09:30 AM

mate..u disagreeing with my view doesn't make your point correct..
let's just give ts our opinion..

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Originally Posted by yangguo

Agreed on the first sentence but not the 2nd sentence.

esssinine · #14 10-12-2012, 10:47 AM

Sounded like an amicable parting of the ways. So whats your problem?

Shouldnt you be wishing her well?

hpanky · #15 10-12-2012, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by esssinine

Sounded like an amicable parting of the ways. So whats your problem?

Shouldnt you be wishing her well?

Of course i should , and by right i should..really hoping she get a good life, if she carry on lead a normal life and get a proper job , or re marry and start a new family..
But instead of all above she choose to work at those typical massage shop..that is the sad part of my story..but anyway she really get many of what she desired..so should i happy for her.