FWB SOP

[Vivienne]

What’s a FWB SOP??
At the start it’s always the daily texting to get to know each other and the likes and don’ts... so what comes after that? Or what is to be expected after the deed? Just ignore each other until the next howling full moon? Enlighten me senpais

[Xyberduke]

Nothing is expected. Just sex. Companionship is optional.

Getting to know each other is to make the sex better.

Just a better word for fuck buddies....

I did go on holidays with one, but it was really to Phuket & JB to get more sex together, in the sea, at the resort, heavy petting on the plane (just couldn’t find a chance to do it on the plane) and hook on another one or two from the bars for threesome.... get the idea?


FwB is where I got the wildest sex in my life, no strings attached... no regrets... still can vividly recall the bbbj while on the road, me painting her (awkwardly but fun) when she was on the wheels but circling the empty carpark as she could hardly control the car during the deed .... and how i went spa together with a Bi FwB to JB for couple massage but ask for non traditional ML for foursome (with some arrangements with my familiar PR guy there).

And we get our bloodwork together subsequently and did it raw all the way... not advisable when you just started though... really need to build trust on this one



Anyway, if you are female and looking for a FwB, look for one who is really looking for a FwB and not just someone looking for free sex (free FwB vis-a-vis paying for sex). And you will get most fun out of it...

[Vivienne]

Originally Posted by Xyberduke

Nothing is expected. Just sex. Companionship is optional.

Getting to know each other is to make the sex better.

Just a better word for fuck buddies....

Anyway, if you are female and looking for a FwB, look for one who is really looking for a FwB and not just someone looking for free sex (free FwB vis-a-vis paying for sex). And you will get most fun out of it...

Wow! Thanks for the insight!

[megachiongster]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

What’s a FWB SOP??
At the start it’s always the daily texting to get to know each other and the likes and don’ts... so what comes after that? Or what is to be expected after the deed? Just ignore each other until the next howling full moon? Enlighten me senpais

it would be good if u can at least chat fun stuff at dinner or drinks and not just head for the hotel.
understand each other's daily woes and problems, be it at work, with spouse, family or just casual chit chat.

that makes sex a lot more fun.... lol

another benefit if both can gain more than just sex, like knowledge and mentorship from one another?

[acidicavex]

hmm depend on both of u if wait for the next moon and start howling than sooner or later either party howl also no use.

It good to keep intouch in btw the next full moon have a friendship blossom but of coz it depend on both martial status.

If both married than it best wait for the next full moon.

If one is married than it depend how both want to keep the pan hot and warm.

If both are single than it can become a companionship without the commitment.

But arrangement as in FWB mostly is wait till the next full moon.

It all very much depend on individual.

i am not senpai just sharing the data collected

[blastit]

I like to differentiate between Friends with Benefits & Fuck Buddy.

The 1st has more than just wham, bam, bye & thanks.
Outside the bed, there is still some connection like it says - friends

The 2nd is really just booty call.

FwB takes both parties to really make it work proper. Else it really just becomes FB

[adli]

Originally Posted by blastit

I like to differentiate between Friends with Benefits & Fuck Buddy.

The 1st has more than just wham, bam, bye & thanks.
Outside the bed, there is still some connection like it says - friends

The 2nd is really just booty call.

FwB takes both parties to really make it work proper. Else it really just becomes FB

Mine is more like booty call/discreet relationships since we both married
both want to get more but still need to maintain current status

[Spartans300]

It’s interesting topic.. I have one relationship.. don’t know exactly what is it.. both of us attached but yeah, we hang out like crazy with each other, spend ton of time together and basically got out gratification from each other on a weekly basis.. we have an immerse trust in each other right from the start

No money involved and sometime she even pay for the hotel.. we went for overseas trip, did volunteer work together and it feel v couple like but we never talk about being together exclusively.

End of the day, we let each other go when she decided to get married and tbh though I am happy for her, I do miss the time we r together..

[W4lk]

Originally Posted by blastit

I like to differentiate between Friends with Benefits & Fuck Buddy.

The 1st has more than just wham, bam, bye & thanks.
Outside the bed, there is still some connection like it says - friends

The 2nd is really just booty call.

FwB takes both parties to really make it work proper. Else it really just becomes FB

Very well explained, thanks!

[Vivienne]

Ok! I think I get it now, in order not to catch feelings, just wait for the booty call. But there should be a bare min of communication to show interest still...

[Spartans300]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Ok! I think I get it now, in order not to catch feelings, just wait for the booty call. But there should be a bare min of communication to show interest still...

Probably some agreement or upfront discussion. Sometime one may be caught up with RL and not much time for emotional attachment

[blastit]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Ok! I think I get it now, in order not to catch feelings, just wait for the booty call. But there should be a bare min of communication to show interest still...

Originally Posted by Spartans300

Probably some agreement or upfront discussion. Sometime one may be caught up with RL and not much time for emotional attachment

Like what bro Spartan said, a booty call needs a pre-arranged sort of communication.

You gotta set like prob how many times a week, limits to comms and such.

[blastit]

Originally Posted by Spartans300

It’s interesting topic.. I have one relationship.. don’t know exactly what is it.. both of us attached but yeah, we hang out like crazy with each other, spend ton of time together and basically got out gratification from each other on a weekly basis.. we have an immerse trust in each other right from the start

No money involved and sometime she even pay for the hotel.. we went for overseas trip, did volunteer work together and it feel v couple like but we never talk about being together exclusively.

End of the day, we let each other go when she decided to get married and tbh though I am happy for her, I do miss the time we r together..

Haha bro, I had the same kinda experience as you.
Now she is happily married back in her home country.

[riff]

I'm new and curious where do u guys find one?
through what kind of channel?

[xiaohanhan]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Ok! I think I get it now, in order not to catch feelings, just wait for the booty call. But there should be a bare min of communication to show interest still...

Either party should state their ground rules/preferences when both decides to be in the “game”.

E.g. My last FWB is married with kids (I’m single). Despite she was on the verge of divorcing her husband before we gotten to know each other, I told her due to her marital status, I will not contact her directly. She can feel free to text me if she needs me for TLC/sex/meal buddy. I will try to make it, as long as I’m not tied down with work or any other appointments.

So if you want more than sex, and if both of you are single, you should communicate with your partner, telling him that this FWB relationship might blossom into more than what both of you initially thought. If not, it will just be “fuck and see ya next time” relationship.