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Bro, I went thru the same with you. After ex wife give birth, everything went downhill and must have depression and maybe listen to friend or read too much baby book everything need perfect. My case was lucky as the house was transferred to her and she paid full for it so I got back the money into CPF. I suggest if you have not keep track of the expenses with receipt as proof, should tahan and not sign the divorce paper yet so you should have bargain on the child maintenance fee. Spouse maintenance fee if can is don't pay and pray she remarried fast so she won't go apply court to raise the fee. Child maintenance fee if possible list down all expenses and a trick to it is to limit a cap on it so your soon to ex wife won't suka suka go court and ask for increment. If you need a chat, can pm me. Glad to help a fellow bro