[sammybk]

trust already broken... continuing further will cfm have issues

it depends how much guilt she has, how desperate she is to seek your forgiveness.. those would show you how much you mean to her...

if its me, its a straight red card offence, unless it wasn't consensual. i'll just divorce and move on... no point keeping someone who doesn't love you around.

don't worry too much about your kids la, as long as both parents still love them they will be fine.