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Originally Posted by parrotkid
I caught my wife heavy petting with a man. A man I know. The thought of her being toouched by other men keeps appearing on my mind until I cry all the time and am suicidal. I love my wife very much. I am very hurt by what she did. I have never felt so hurt in my life before. She is in her mid 40s. I am 42. What should I do?
Forgive her and carry on and try to forget?
Divorce her?
We have two kids.
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A really unfortunate incident bro. The kind that none of us will ever want to go through. But since it happened we have no choice but be man enough to face it. I would say find a time to talk it out with your wife after you have calmed down. She will have her reasons and both need to decide if it is meaningful to carry on. I would say that as long as your wife does not want to continue on with the marriage, it is meaningless to hang on to it even if you think you can forgive.
Most important thing is not to let your kids be affected by the whole thing. Let your kids understand that sometimes 2 people need to leave and live their own lives just as relationships with friends will dwindle over time.