Originally Posted by catlord
Yep I know very well. If you're a 5/10 guy, you will not get 5/10 girls. You'll get 3/10 girls, maybe a 4/10 once in a while.
But bro........ beggars can't be choosers man. That's what you can get, you take it. Don't be like those fat girls you see online who think they deserve rich and handsome guys and think that average guys are gross. That's just delusional, unsightly and pathetic bro.
It's not like I don't understand. In his youth, a man is at his horniest, yet also most unattractive to women. All the traits that women like in men are at the lowest when you're young. Our youth is the most sexually frustrating parts of our lives, I believe this is something all men share.
This drive to improve himself to get girls is a very powerful force, but these days there's porn and easy access to FLs. It's actually a very common problem to get too used to them and ruin your motivation and therefore your life. I myself had that problem. I was a huge porn addict in my teens. I was a loser who couldn't get girls too, I lost my virginity to a GL hooker at the age of 24. I remember, I couldn't get hard at all even though she was really hot. I had ED at the age of 24. My dopamine receptors were just fried from years and years of porn. I quit porn cold turkey and eventually cured my ED, but then I got used to the hotness and easiness of FLs. Like you I couldn't stomach average girls after chionging for a while. However I woke up and decided this is not the life I want for myself, I didn't want to be a loser who has to pay for sex anymore. So I quit chionging cold turkey and worked on myself. At the start I had to settle for 5/10 or 6/10 girls and didn't like it, but I got used to them and started to enjoy them too. As I improved myself my results improved. These days I can get 7 and 8/10 girls regularly and I haven't looked back.
You have to know what's at stake here bro. If you keep having unrealistic expectations from FLs and you can't enjoy girls of your own level, you can't ever form a real relationship with a girl. How are you going to get a fwb/gf/wife? How are you going to procreate and continue your bloodline? You have to decide this is not how you want to live your life and quit. Of course this requires willpower, but that's what separates winners and losers in life bro. Nobody will help you at this, nobody cares about you, you have to do it yourself. Those who have willpower and discipline, will go out and achieve great things and procreate. Those who don't, will be losers for life and die alone. It's up to you which one you want to be.
And I saw your unwillingness to get therapy cos of fear of judgment. I'm sorry but this reeks of loser mentality bro. First of all, doing this can save your life. Think what's at stake. Would you rather get judged by a stranger, or be a loser for the rest of your life??? Secondly, don't think you're a special snowflake and nobody else has your problem. Do you know how many young men out there can't get girls and have FL addiction?? I was one too, and when I frequented GL in the past, guess what, there were many young guys too not just old uncles. And I bet professional therapists has dealt with way worse shit (sex offenders, murderers, drug abuse, incest etc etc). Seeing you would be like a GP seeing a flu patient; a total non-event.
Anw I've said enough bro. If you have enough willpower, you'll get out of this and thrive. If not, you'll live and die a loser. It's up to you.
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