Thread: How to 释怀?
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Old 26-12-2023, 06:57 PM
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Re: How to 释怀?

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Originally Posted by GG6969 View Post
Not advocating for divorce but i wonder how many couples are going through loveless marriages. I personally find it a bit disturbing when i can have many guy friends who do not love their wives at all, and play like crazy outside, but always return to act as perfect and loving husbands. I award them the best actors golden horse. And albeit expensive divorce, is it really expensive if you may be happier instead? Of course the worse would be divorce and also ended up gf-less. I wonder how things would change if the girl is self sufficient and rich.
My guess is people are greedy, not necessarily because marriage is loveless or divorce is expensive. Once you are married for some years your lives becomes intertwined, more so if you have children. Too much barrier to divorce and there may still be feelings or life is good with wife. Having maintain the status quo at the same time having exciting romance outside is the easier way out.