[macrick]

When a man marries a woman. If a woman refuses to provide sexual intercourse for her husband. It is essentially a breach of contract. This applies to the husband as well, if he refuses to provide financial support for the wife and their children.

This concept of marital rape no doubt may be traumatic for the wife, but the husband has rights as well. A contract is a contract, or at least it's used to be. Now, it's just a non reciprocation deal for the husband. The sex slowly dies down to a mechanical chore, hardly any dinner being prepared, expected to "share" (more like overtaking) all the household chores, no fault divorce, etc etc. 2nd, prenups are not recognised in the SG marital courts, this is very important for those men who are rich.

Outlawing marital rape is just an icing to the cake, to an already shitty deal for most men. Singaporean men have largely become meek and docile creatures just like their western counterparts. Several samsters addressed their spouse as "OC" (WTF?). Very soon, ex-husbands will be paying alimony and child support through their nose like in the west as well.

To those men who are still young and single, don't get marry unless you want to have children. If you want sex there are plenty of venues for that. Chase money, not women. The latter will follow and you can have your pick. Traditional Asian family values no longer that relevant in SG modern society. Self preservation is and most SG women are not all sugar and spice, remember this.