[doombringer]

nothing much u can do, plz dont go for vasectomy (its just a shit test done by girls to disrespect u), girls can take birth control pills. its very safe, used to shoot raw inside with gf (she took it daily sometime missed it but quickly pop back), never got pregnant, although still had a very slim chance.

its a sad fact of life, u stick to one partner long enough it get boring. don't really need to stay too committed and be too serious. just take life less seriously, go out meet new people have fun. ultimately find $. $ gives you freedom, gives you respect in a sense (judging from the way your wife treat u she doesnt respect u)