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Originally Posted by kimetae
This has happened to my friend. he told me that he fell in love and was in an official relationship with a woman from the nightlife. he said that he didn't have a problem with her past work because it stopped now. but sometimes if the girl asks my friend to go to the mall together and my friend is still embarrassed. my friend asked my opinion
I answered, the only one who can answer is you. And your situation is not what the woman is because she is in a position where she can only accept the situation. But you as a man have to be really sure, how long will you hide her so that you are embarrassed to go out in public together. Then, for example, if you are able to hide it or a woman wants to understand so that she doesn't ask to go out together again in public, are you as a man being fair to her feelings by hiding her? That's what you have to think about. Are you ready or not if you go out in public and maybe someone will be the woman's guest? secondly, can you really not think when having sex that before you were with you she worked with many men? But the ending is my friend already marriage with her now and they happy . My friend choose to no hide again 😁
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Truth be told, its hard to introduce a girl coming from this profession but it doesn't matter as long as theyre committed to each other. I also have a local friend who married a Viet ML. They had 1 kid now and my friend is planning to give up his Singapore life to move to Vietnam for good. They use a cover up story to tell other people that they meet in a random bar in Bangkok.
But going back to the main subject, how do we really how if the girl loves you or just milks you money? How do you justify especially for a girl who works in GL (as TS is talking about before) whom we can only talk in a few sqm room, Wechat/Line/SMS and if one is lucky, out for a lunch?
Its a tough game which can only be played with the rules set by the girls themselves. At the end of the day, my advise is be extra careful. Theyre here in Singapore to earn money and not for a boyfriend.