You can't game without inner game. KC traps are deployed to eradicate your emotional control. Those hanging flowers singers are masters of having triangles with different customers, creating competition in a bid war. They simply have the remote control to your emotions by eg.. making you jealous as and when they need to, not returning your smses, act interested and then indifferent like as if they don't know you. Hot and cold treatment. Jealously is very fatal is making you fall into KC.
They are very experienced, like a social butterflies, making you hang more and more flowers doing them favors, compete for their attention. The lao jiaos are social teasers always hunting for newer fresher richer preys, playing the pulling in and pushing game.
One after another fall deep deep losing all respect for himself, lose dignity and emotional control. To avoid falling, simply control your own emotions and be self-sufficent. My advice by the words of Marcus Aurelius, "Each man must learn to live within the citadel of himself."
Become the Lord of that citadel.
