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Originally Posted by Garage1
Thanks bro
U are right
Women hate to hear those words
Even if u confront with evidence, they can always use that and push the blame back to u
Kinda ironic
Slut or gold diggers
1 thing i want to share is after i got divorced
Then i realised there are so many cheating cases outside
Man/woman both equally
Maybe im a traditionalist
I was shocked upon hearing
What ever happ to staying faithful etc
No wonder young pple are not getting married
Low birth rates
High divorce rates
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The breakdown of the traditional family setup, I think has many factors. That's probably far outside the scope and intent of this thread, but some reasons are plain to see
Social Media and the Internet is a constant source of temptation - judging by your profile which is even older than mine, you are probably in your mid-50s at least. In our younger days, we had to search hard to find contraband copies of Playboy/Penthouse or smuggled in copies of foreign porn magazines. Propriety in relationships was held in high esteem, even the whiff of impropriety can destroy careers/livelihoods. None of that is true today. Our very own Minister for Law famously cheated on his first wife, so what can I say, lol.
The younger generation are generally addicted to the idea of instant gratification. Suffering in silence is not an option - if they aren't happy they break up quite quickly and leave. There is good and bad in this approach, from the perspective of maximizing personal happiness but this is certainly not the ideal setup to bring up a child within a family environment.
Cheaters are generally never sorry when they are confronted, especially if they are women. My ex-wife tried to throw me over the balcony (which was laughable as I weighed twice her weight, nevermind whatever judoka qualifications she may have held, weight classes in competitions are there for a reason lol). Her sex partner was equally adamant and blatant despite being shamed in public.
Those who already been through the journey will realize, when the pain of divorce is firmly in the rear-view mirror and emotions cool.....I do think back how stupid I was in gathering so much "evidence"......because in the end, what really matters is what you do with your life after you split, and whether you are much happier without the ex.
For me, thankfully...I made the right decision to divorce and never regretted it. My children are happier too!