[Footman]

I heard of some cases where the moment you put on the rubber, it goes soft automatically. Sometimes a traumatic episode from a past sex experience can suddenly flashback and it go soft automatically while doing. My advise is give up FJ totally cos it is something mentally that you can never get over, unless is you dare to raw like those old uncles in their 60s, who have already lived most of their life.

For your case, it comes from both physical and mental barriers, which you have alot to work on. Just settle for HJ to release