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Originally Posted by nutrigrain
Hmm, maybe I'm just trying to convince myself that it's ok to mess around for a bit longer :P
Maybe until I have kids I suppose  |
that's the problem you see.
if you're not attached, then messing around is fine.
if you're attached, then you'll think: i'll mess around till i get married.
if you're married, you'll think: i'll mess around till i have kids.
if you've kids, you'll think: i'll mess around till my kids are old enough to look after themselves.
there is no end.
while some might think that messing around is a 'been-there-done-that' kind of experience, that's only partially correct. you might think that it's an excitement because you haven't it before, but after you've tried it, you'll realize that
every woman is different.
therefore, every new experience with another women is always exciting if she is attractive to you.
whether you want to sleep around or not is a
choice.
the fact that you're already harboring thoughts on sleeping with other women spells out that you're not really that in love with your own woman. you also mentioned that you feel that you've been pressured into the marriage.
while you probably do love her somewhat, it's obvious that you're not very in love with her.
here's a piece of free advice that will be the best damn advice you've ever been given: annul your marriage. as your marriage is recent (within a year) it is much easier to do so, and in the eyes of the law your marriage will be considered null and void.