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Originally Posted by Golden question
what if your fear come true?what will u do?
If u know u able to settle but have to use up your saving,will u help?
If your wife tell u if u dont help,her mother will be beaten to death,will u empty your bank and help?
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My fear is not that i had to help but how much my wife will be caught in btw. After the 3rd BIL case, she angry with herself already.. & Few yrs back, her nephew sick need operation, her mum ask us to help; i refused as i saw the 4th BIL rides a new bike.. They are very poor at recognising needs n wants.. Luckily my wife got what i meant never help.. Hopefully slowly she recognise all the patterns the BIL n sisters gives. For now she still naive..OJT in progress..haha
Previously if the reason is valid, i will help what i can but now with commitment coming no liao.. Bared minimal...if like what u say life n death matters must really see how she herself into debt... Gamblng is a big NO!