[notti4u]

First of all, he hit u before and u still stay with him? did u both see a counsellor before on this or did you ask him to go for anger management course? It is not right to hit wife or gf cos they are also daughter of her parents. Ask him, if one day your girl are beaten by his hubby, how would you feel?

As for the condom issues, did u keep forcing him to a corner? I had been forced to a corner before by my wife despite me explaining to her on one of my ex-colleague give me heart chocolate during valentine day and stupid of me to bring home for my kids to eat. I did explained to her that nothing is between us which is not true but she refused to listen. So at times, u need to close one eye and close another and act blur unless you wanted to divorce him.