[n30n]

I agree on this article, if the women involved are using sex in the power struggle within the relationship.

But this article don't apply for women who are not playing the power game.
If becoming sexless is an issue, both of them should be putting in effort to work things out. Not for the man to blame woman for abuse.

It doesn't matter who's the one destroying the marriage. The blame games takes you no where. As long as the marriage fails, both partners are held responsible for the failure. Shirking responsibility and putting the full blame on others just reveal something bad about yourself.

As for the solution part of the article, it's also rather biase to say counsellors only focus on the women side of the story. In actual fact, most counsellors will guide to mediate the unsatisfied needs to both partners. So it's not one sided at all.
If the root cause of the low libido is understood and solved, sex life should be able to become better.